From actors challenging stereotypes surrounding masculinity to musicians refusing to let others define their identities for them, these 5 openly bisexual celebrities each demonstrate a different misconception people continue to make about bisexuality. In their own ways, they remind audiences that queerness does not have one specific look, timeline, or experience.
Kit Connor
One of the leading stars of Netflix’s “Heartstopper”, Kit Connor played Nick, a young teenager struggling to come to terms with his bisexuality — something that can be especially difficult within a high school environment where growing masculinity is encouraged and anything other than complete heterosexuality is often viewed as feminine. In the show, Nick comes out to his mother as bisexual in a lovely and touching scene that warmed the hearts of many viewers. For a lot of people, “Heartstopper” became the show that demonstrated that coming out does not have to be frightening and can happen on your own terms.
Unfortunately, this was not entirely the case for Kit Connor himself. Many fans began demanding confirmation that Connor was also part of the LGBTQ+ community, much like his co-star Joe Locke. While Connor has since explained that he was primarily calling out those accusing him of “queerbaiting”, in 2022 he tweeted: “I’m bi. Congrats for forcing an 18-year-old to out himself. I think some of you missed the point of the show.” It is fair to say that the tweet quickly became iconic, whilst also teaching many people to take a step back and reconsider the extent to which they believe they are entitled to celebrities’ personal lives.
Lara Raj
A member of the viral girl group KATSEYE, Lara Raj is iconic in her own right. A credited music producer, featured in other artists’ music videos, and scouted to join the group as the “No.1 vocalist”, she has quickly taken the internet by storm. What makes her even more admirable, however, is her confidence and openness surrounding her bisexuality, casually coming out during a live stream as “half fruitcake” rather than turning it into some dramatic reveal.
By treating her sexuality as something completely normal — not something that needs to be “exposed” to the world — Raj takes control of the narrative people often create around queerness as though it is automatically a huge spectacle. Similarly to Kit Connor, she has still faced backlash from some fans whenever she is seen with a male partner rather than a female one. This reflects one of the most harmful stereotypes surrounding bisexuality: the assumption that being bisexual is somehow the same as being gay, or that attraction to the opposite sex suddenly “invalidates” attraction to the same sex. Lara’s openness quietly challenges this idea, reinforcing that bisexuality is its own nuanced identity rather than a “phase” or a cop-out.
François Arnaud
You may recognize François Arnaud from the hugely popular series “Heated Rivalry”, which follows the (10-year-long) situationship between two rival male ice hockey players. Much like “Heartstopper”, the series explores relatable experiences of questioning one’s sexuality and attempting to reconcile perceived “feminine” traits within the heavily masculinized world of sport. Arnaud plays one of the side-characters, Scott Hunter, who is assumed to be straight purely based on appearances and who therefore struggles with the looming inevitability that he may one day have to “come out” to an audience made up predominantly of middle-aged men.
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