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It\u2019s days before the surprise And Just Like That\u2026 series finale and the fans<\/a> on the bus to the Hamptons with me were in a nostalgic mood. When asked to recall their first memory of Sex and the City<\/a>, almost everyone had an immediate answer.<\/p>\n Depending on their age, their first viewing experience varied. One person sheepishly admitted she was old enough to rent the first season at Blockbuster while on a trip with high school girlfriends, another yelled out that she had actually rented the DVDs from Netflix when that was still a thing.<\/p>\n But no matter if you watched the show live or decades later on streaming, everyone who has loved Sex and the City for the past nearly 30 years has an answer on how the series made them feel. It wasn\u2019t just the catchphrases, fashion<\/a>, or key moments that made the show so iconic; it was the core four women at its center\u2014Carrie, Charlotte, Miranda, and Samantha\u2014and how they inspired us each in their own way.<\/p>\n Right now, though, it\u2019s a bittersweet time to be a Sex and the City fan. Last week, star Sarah Jessica Parker<\/a> and showrunner Michael Patrick King<\/a> announced the third season of the show\u2019s spinoff would be its last, with the surprise And Just Like That\u2026 series finale airing Thursday, August 14. Immediately, questions and gossip swirled around the show\u2019s sudden end, with many fans speculating that the controversial and often-mocked spinoff had actually been abruptly cancelled by HBO.<\/p>\n For many, it felt like an unsatisfying end to such a legendary franchise and the characters at its core. Many couldn\u2019t help but wonder, Is this the end of Carrie Bradshaw forever?<\/p>\n \u201cI have learned not to say goodbye, but to say farewell,\u201d said Parker, at an intimate Hamptons brunch and Q&A for fans on Monday hosted by Threads. \u201cThere\u2019s a distinction, right?\u201d<\/p>\n She continued, \u201cIf you love something, you know where to leave it sometimes. But\u2026I wouldn\u2019t have said four years ago or five years ago, Michael [Patrick King] and I would get on the phone\u2014because we talked about it previously and it just didn\u2019t feel right\u2014but on that call\u2026it was so apparent to both of us that it felt right. So who knows?\u201d<\/p>\n The idea that Parker isn\u2019t completely closing the door on Carrie forever is a bit of a balm to fans who feel that her story isn\u2019t being wrapped up in the way she deserves.<\/p>\n Ever since the end of the show was announced, a somewhat ironic sentiment has percolated online among those who watched. While the majority of fans complained about the spinoff\u2019s often ridiculous storylines, the strange or out-of-character choices of the women, and the overall feeling that it was adrift in a way that the original series never was, they are heartbroken that it will no longer be on their screens. Yes, they may have rolled their eyes at the show or even hate-watched it, but they didn\u2019t want it to stop.<\/p>\n Lindy Segal, a journalist, Glamour contributor, and author of the Substack \u201cGatekeeping,\u201d<\/a> tells me that despite its many flaws, she\u2019s devastated that And Just Like That\u2026 is ending.<\/p>\n \u201cThe writing is painful, the plotlines are nonsensical, and the fashion is contrived\u2014but there\u2019s something perfect about how bad it is,\u201d she says. \u201cSomething fully shifted around the midpoint of season three, and I started to love it unironically. All the flaws remain, but I can\u2019t name another show I watch with a big, dumb smile on my face the whole time.\u201d<\/p>\n In fact, some fans say that the show\u2019s weird moments were what made it actually good\u2014even if some people didn\u2019t get it.<\/p>\n \u201cI was drawn to the show\u2019s willingness to keep us entertained, no matter how controversial the plotline or embarrassing the arc might be for the character,\u201d says Anna Moeslein, Glamour\u2019s deputy editor. \u201cThrough a mix of the absurd and the banal, AJLT managed to capture the wonderful, messy, horrible, hilarious things that come with being a person in this world in a way no other series has come close to doing for me.\u201d<\/p>\n No matter what you felt about the show, it seems everyone can agree on one thing. If And Just Like That\u2026 had to end, it deserved a more celebratory send-off. On social media sites like Reddit, Threads, and Instagram, fans mourning the show sighed that they weren\u2019t hating on the series because they wanted it to be cancelled, but because they wanted it to improve.<\/p>\n In both her statement following the announcement and at the brunch, Parker said that ultimately it was her and King\u2019s decision to walk away, even if it confused viewers.<\/p>\n \u201cYou arrive at this decision, and it\u2019s incredibly hard to be definitive and to say it, and really it makes no sense to a lot of people, which I understand,\u201d she said. \u201cWhy would you stop doing something that\u2019s successful and that is successful at this moment? But I think it\u2019s because of the profound affection for the job and for the show\u2026the respect and the affection that we feel for the experience in totality that leads you to a decision like this. It\u2019s such an extraordinary job, and you have to honor it.\u201d<\/p>\n But even if her decision may not make sense to fans, it\u2019s clear that Parker takes her role as steward of Carrie and her legacy seriously. At the brunch, she was visibly moved by fans\u2019 declaration of love and devotion to the series.<\/p>\n \u201cThe way that people know the show, and I mean, not just their procedural knowledge of the show, but they know lines and the stories,\u201d she said. \u201cThe way they know the show, all of it, is enormously touching.\u201d<\/p>\n And now that it\u2019s ending, fans are reflecting on what it was about And Just Like That\u2026 that made them come back week after week. As one person wrote on Threads,<\/a> being able to immerse themselves in a familiar world with characters they\u2019ve loved for decades is a balm in our increasingly chaotic times, no matter how silly the plot points may be.<\/p>\n \u201cAnd Just Like That\u2026 lives in a world where nothing ever results in catastrophe,\u201d they wrote. \u201cIt\u2019s like watching your favorite movie over and over. It\u2019s not really exciting anymore, but it\u2019s comforting and we know nothing bad is really going to happen to our favorite characters.\u201d<\/p>\n Moeslein agrees.<\/p>\n \u201cThe point of And Just Like That\u2026 was never to be sleek or cool or even sexy,\u201d she says. \u201cIt\u2019s just life, in all shades. I\u2019ll miss it.\u201d<\/p>\n
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