{"id":1967982,"date":"2025-08-19T04:00:03","date_gmt":"2025-08-19T04:00:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/?p=1967982"},"modified":"2025-08-19T04:00:03","modified_gmt":"2025-08-19T04:00:03","slug":"david-archuleta-says-hes-still-open-to-meeting-girls-after-coming-out-as-queer-but-dating-men-is-easier-exclusive","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/david-archuleta-says-hes-still-open-to-meeting-girls-after-coming-out-as-queer-but-dating-men-is-easier-exclusive\/","title":{"rendered":"David Archuleta Says He&#8217;s &#8216;Still Open to Meeting Girls&#8217; After Coming Out as Queer but Dating Men Is &#8216;Easier&#8217; (Exclusive)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div data-article-body=\"true\">\n<h3 class=\"mb-4 text-lg font-bold\">NEED TO KNOW<\/h3>\n<ul class=\"mb-4\">\n<li class=\"ml-4 list-disc\">\n<div class=\"\">\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">David Archuleta&#8217;s new Earthly Delights EP is out now<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"ml-4 list-disc\">\n<div class=\"\">\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">He tells PEOPLE about his dating life after coming out as queer in 2021<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"ml-4 list-disc\">\n<div class=\"\">\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;When you&#8217;re a public figure, I think when you&#8217;re used to being seen and recognized and watched, you always have this barrier,&#8221; he says<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\"><a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/tag\/david-archuleta\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:David Archuleta;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">David Archuleta<\/a> is exploring the dating scene.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The 34-year-old pop singer wrote through his romantic experiences since <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/david-archuleta-getting-little-naughty-new-music-exclusive-11703379\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:coming out as queer;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">coming out as queer<\/a> in 2021 for his new <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/orcd.co\/earthlydelightsep\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Earthly Delights\u00a0EP;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Earthly Delights\u00a0EP<\/a>, out now. Now, he&#8217;s opening up about what it&#8217;s like dating as someone easily recognizable from his American Idol days and beyond.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;When you&#8217;re a public figure, I think when you&#8217;re used to being seen and recognized and watched, you always have this barrier,&#8221; Archuleta tells PEOPLE. &#8220;I mean, they&#8217;ve known you for 17 years and you&#8217;re just meeting them for the first time.&#8221;<\/p>\n<div class=\"relative\"><img alt=\"Archie Music David Archuleta 'Earthly Delights' EP cover\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"480\" height=\"480\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/s.yimg.com\/ny\/api\/res\/1.2\/LGfaHJKnR1OmeyH09UIfzA--\/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTk2MDtoPTk2MDtjZj13ZWJw\/https:\/\/media.zenfs.com\/en\/people_218\/f5acb117731abac3422fbed609d39e78\"\/><\/div>\n<div style=\"max-height:none;overflow:visible\">\n<p>Archie Music<\/p>\n<p> David Archuleta &#8216;Earthly Delights&#8217; EP cover<\/p><\/div>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">However, he doesn&#8217;t walk into a room thinking everyone will know who he is. &#8220;I&#8217;m recognizable enough that I might get recognized, but I&#8217;m also not relevant enough that everyone&#8217;s going to know who I am,&#8221; says Archuleta.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;I used to be like, &#8216;I&#8217;m in the entertainment industry.&#8217; And now I&#8217;ve learned how to just have confidence and be like, &#8216;You know what? I&#8217;m a singer. I do music,'&#8221; explains the &#8220;Cr\u00e8me Brul\u00e9e&#8221; performer, who left <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/david-archuleta-mormon-friends-cold-after-leaving-church-exclusive-8405422\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints<\/a> one year after coming out.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;I used to be really be uncomfortable with who I was. I didn&#8217;t know what to think of myself. And so when people knew who I was, I&#8217;m like, &#8216;What does that mean? What do they think of me?'&#8221; adds Archuleta. &#8220;Now I&#8217;m comfortable in my own skin.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">One of the songs on Earthly Delights, &#8220;Can I Call You,&#8221; tells a story about the musician spotting someone &#8220;in a crowded room&#8221; and wanting to chat. &#8220;You don&#8217;t know if you&#8217;ll get rejected, but I don&#8217;t know, sometimes it&#8217;s worth it,&#8221; he says of the experience. &#8220;Sometimes you need a shot or two to have a little bit more courage for shy like me to go up and talk to somebody. But I found it&#8217;s nice.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Since realizing his sexuality, Archuleta&#8217;s dating pool has grown. &#8220;For the most part, I date men, but I consider myself queer, so I&#8217;m still open to meeting girls. I still do, if it feels right,&#8221; he says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Archuleta admits discussing his identity can feel &#8220;tricky&#8221; at times due to the nuance of being open to dating more than one gender.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;When you&#8217;re in a group that&#8217;s already misunderstood, and they fought so hard to be seen and visible and understood themselves, and then you&#8217;re more nuanced within that minority group, sometimes when you talk about the nuance, people can feel like you&#8217;re discrediting their experience or invalidating them,&#8221; he details. &#8220;I&#8217;m not trying to do that.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">But while he&#8217;s open to meeting different types of partners, Archuleta says, &#8220;I feel like with guys, it&#8217;s easier because to be honest, I think guys are just culturally and also just hormonally more forward.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">For the American Idol alum, going to gay bars sometimes means he&#8217;ll hear his 2008 single &#8220;Crush&#8221; upon walking into the room. &#8220;Restaurants have done that too, actually,&#8221; he says, noting that the experience used to feel &#8220;really weird.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;It was exciting the first few times, and then after a while I&#8217;m like, &#8216;Oh my gosh, I can&#8217;t run away from this,'&#8221; adds Archuleta of hearing the No. 2 Billboard Hot 100 hit. &#8220;But now I&#8217;ve learned that it&#8217;s more relaxed now. It&#8217;s not as crazy as it was right after Idol for me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">When it comes to the ongoings of his dating life, Archuleta remains tight-lipped. &#8220;I don&#8217;t usually disclose where I&#8217;m at in my relationships,&#8221; he says coyly. &#8220;I&#8217;m very much in my lover boy flirty era, and it&#8217;s a very fun time for me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Read the original article on <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/david-archuleta-queer-identity-earthly-delights-exclusive-11793186\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:People;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">People<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><em> \u2018 The preceding article may include information circulated by third parties \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em> \u2018 Some details of this article were extracted from the following source ca.news.yahoo.com \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>NEED TO KNOW David Archuleta&#8217;s new Earthly Delights EP is out now He tells PEOPLE about his dating life after coming out as queer in 2021 &#8220;When you&#8217;re a public figure, I think when you&#8217;re used to being seen and recognized and watched, you always have this barrier,&#8221; he says David Archuleta is exploring the [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1967983,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_social_meta":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[25173],"tags":[27820,347309,348983],"class_list":["post-1967982","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-artists","tag-american-idol","tag-david-archuleta","tag-earthly-delights"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/David-Archuleta-Says-Hes-Still-Open-to-Meeting-Girls-After.jpeg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1967982","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1967982"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1967982\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1967983"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1967982"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1967982"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1967982"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}