{"id":1976027,"date":"2025-08-23T12:06:04","date_gmt":"2025-08-23T12:06:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/?p=1976027"},"modified":"2025-08-23T12:06:04","modified_gmt":"2025-08-23T12:06:04","slug":"kaitlyn-bristowe-tells-colton-underwood-about-losing-her-virginity-excl","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/kaitlyn-bristowe-tells-colton-underwood-about-losing-her-virginity-excl\/","title":{"rendered":"Kaitlyn Bristowe Tells Colton Underwood About Losing Her Virginity (Excl)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div>\n<p class=\"p1\"><a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrities\/colton-underwood\/\"><strong>Colton Underwood<\/strong><\/a> can seemingly always get his <i>Are You My First? <\/i>cohost <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrities\/kaitlyn-bristowe\/\"><strong>Kaitlyn Bristowe<\/strong><\/a> to spill the tea \u2014 especially when it comes to details about her first times.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">\u201cHow would you describe your first time in three words?\u201d Colton, 33, asked Kaitlyn, 40, while playing a game pegged to <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/entertainment\/pictures\/are-you-my-first-cast-meet-the-21-virgins-on-hulus-new-show\/\">their virgin dating show<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Kaitlyn quickly replied that the experience was \u201cscary, painful and terrible.\u201d (Colton, for his part, concurred, adding, \u201cSame, same, same.\u201d)<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">As Colton continued prying for details, Kaitlyn answered each question with her signature candor.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">\u201cThere was a song playing for<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-news\/pictures\/celebrities-who-had-horrible-first-kisses-selena-katy-more\/\"> my first kiss<\/a>, and it [went], \u2018Baby, when the lights go out,\u2019\u201d she recalled, singing the lyrics to Five\u2019s 1998 hit \u201cWhen the Lights Go Out.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">She continued, \u201c[When I had sex, it was] awkward silence on the couch.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">According to Kaitlyn, the big moment took place on her sister\u2019s \u201chand-me-down\u201d couch that was left over from their parents\u2019 divorce.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">\u201cHonestly, [it was like a] horror film, and I say this with love,\u201d she said, comparing the experience to a movie. \u201cIt was [with] my high school sweetheart, and I really loved him. It was the right choice, but [I have] vaginismus.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_4078851\" style=\"width: 300px;\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\">\n<div class=\"ratio-based-placeholder\" style=\"padding-bottom:56.142857142857%;\"><\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\"><span class=\"caption\"><br \/>\n Colton Underwood and Kaitlyn Bristowe.<\/span> <span class=\"credit\">Us Weekly<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"p1\">Kaitlyn revealed on a recent episode of <i>Are You My First? <\/i>that she suffers from vaginismus, which is a medical condition that occurs when the vaginal muscles suddenly tense and feel intense pain when something is inserted.<\/p>\n<div class=\"link-related article link-related__with-thumb\">\n\t\t\t<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"article__thumbnail related-ab-test\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/entertainment\/news\/which-are-you-my-first-stars-remained-virgins-and-which-had-sex\/\" target=\"\" data-source=\"01\"><\/p>\n<figure class=\"article__figure\">\n<div style=\"padding-bottom:56.25%;\" class=\"ratio-based-placeholder\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Which-Are-You-My-First-Stars-Remained-Virgins.jpg?crop=0px%2C0px%2C1998px%2C1131px&amp;resize=400%2C225&amp;quality=40&amp;strip=all\" srcset=\"\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 480px) 400px, (max-width: 770px) calc(100vw - 6em), 200px\" alt=\"Which Are You My First Stars Remained Virgins\" width=\"400\" height=\"225\" data-fallback-img=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Which-Are-You-My-First-Stars-Remained-Virgins.jpg?quality=47&amp;strip=all\"\/><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p>\t\t<\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"article__content\">\n<h3 class=\"article__title\">\n\t\t\t<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"article__title-link related-ab-test\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/entertainment\/news\/which-are-you-my-first-stars-remained-virgins-and-which-had-sex\/\" target=\"\" data-source=\"01\"><br \/>\n    <span class=\"related-badge\">Related: <\/span><span class=\"related-title\">Which &#8216;Are You My First?&#8217; Stars Remained Virgins \u2014 And Which Didn&#8217;t?<\/span><\/a><br \/>\n\t\t<\/h3>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p>\n\t\t\tHulu\u2019s Are You My First is all about virgins looking for love \u2014 but did any season 1 contestants sleep with each other on screen? The reality show, which premiered on Monday, August 18, was described as a new dating experiment \u201cwhere virgins navigate love, lust and losing it.\u201d \u201cIn this groundbreaking new dating experiment, [\u2026]\t\t<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"p1\">While Kaitlyn didn\u2019t further explain how the vaginismus hindered <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-news\/pictures\/what-age-celebs-lost-their-virginity-20091510\/\">her first time<\/a>, she did tell Colton that she previously thought that would be a \u201cromantic\u201d moment.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">\u201cIt\u2019s not going to be sexy,\u201d Kaitlyn said, doling out sex advice to virgins. \u201cIt\u2019s messy, but so is love.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">In response, Colton noted that her tips were \u201cgreat.\u201d<\/p>\n<div id=\"news-block\">\n<div class=\"newsletter-form  \">\n<div class=\"newsletter-signup__success\" aria-live=\"polite\">\n<h3>Thank You!<\/h3>\n<p>You have successfully subscribed.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<p class=\"p1\">The two Bachelor Nation alums \u2014 Colton was a virgin while he was the Bachelor, and Kaitlyn previously hosted <i>The Bachelorette <\/i>years after her season \u2014 are now sharing their romantic pearls of wisdom with the <i>Are You My First? <\/i>contestants on Hulu\u2019s latest dating show.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">\u201cThe goal of the show was <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/entertainment\/news\/are-you-my-first-recap-colton-and-kaitlyn-break-down-hulus-virgin-show\/\">never to get them laid<\/a>. I remember joking about that on my <i>Bachelor<\/i> season like, \u2018That is not the goal of the show,\u2019\u201d Colton told <i>Us.<\/i> \u201cThe goal is to connect with somebody, to experience these things. And people experienced their firsts on <i>Are You My First? <\/i>in different ways. On a deeper level, I think some of the cast experienced the first self-love and self-acceptance, like, having that deeper understanding of their virginity was the goal of this.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><i>Are You My First?<\/i> is currently streaming on Hulu.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><em> \u2018 The preceding article may include information circulated by third parties \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em> \u2018 Some details of this article were extracted from the following source www.usmagazine.com \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Colton Underwood can seemingly always get his Are You My First? cohost Kaitlyn Bristowe to spill the tea \u2014 especially when it comes to details about her first times. \u201cHow would you describe your first time in three words?\u201d Colton, 33, asked Kaitlyn, 40, while playing a game pegged to their virgin dating show. 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