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Nico Tortorella, the breakout star of TV Land’s “Younger,” originally came out as gender-fluid in a 2018 video for Them<\/a>, describing himself as “not fully cisgender.”<\/p>\n Tortorella also wrote about his approach to gender, sexuality, and monogamy in the 2019 book, “Space Between,” including his polyamorous marriage to Bethany C. Meyers<\/a>.<\/p>\n “When Bethany and I met in 2006, I was a boy and she was a girl, whatever that means,” Tortorella wrote. “Today Bethany and I both identify as nonbinary.”<\/p>\n Tortorella has also written about gender identity on Instagram.<\/p>\n “We are ALL multidimensional dynamic creatures and as much as I understand the spectrum, the less I believe in the binary of gender, the more liberated I myself am becoming,” he wrote in 2018<\/a>.<\/p>\n Tortorella primarily used they\/them for several years but has since said he prefers masculine pronouns<\/a>.<\/p>\n “I use he\/him pronouns at this point,” Tortorella said on his podcast “Full of Shift,” which he launched with Meyers in 2024. “Not to say that we’re, like, opposed to they\/them pronouns… I just really don’t care about it in the same ways that I did back in the day.”<\/p>\n “I feel like a man more than I ever have in my entire life right now,” he added. “That’s not to say that I won’t feel more fluid in the future.”<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n