{"id":1986811,"date":"2025-08-29T16:08:13","date_gmt":"2025-08-29T16:08:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/?p=1986811"},"modified":"2025-08-29T16:08:13","modified_gmt":"2025-08-29T16:08:13","slug":"creator-holly-treats-is-dating-48000-men-and-counting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/creator-holly-treats-is-dating-48000-men-and-counting\/","title":{"rendered":"Creator Holly Treats Is Dating 48,000 Men and Counting"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div>\n<p>Creator <strong>Holly Treats<\/strong> is channeling her inner <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/shows\/sex-and-the-city\/\"><em>Sex and the City<\/em><\/a>\u2019s Samantha Jones while dating 48,000 men \u2014 and counting.<\/p>\n<p>Holly (real name Victoria Toplansky) is putting a <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-news\/news\/celebrity-matchmaker-says-singles-can-learn-from-taylor-swift-and-travis-kelces-modern-romance\/\">new spin on modern dating<\/a> with her \u201cCrush Matrix\u201d project, where she\u2019s documenting every single date \u2014 with the help of ChatGPT \u2014 to find out whether the perfect man exists.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI have to get a reasonable sample to have accurate data. It is what it is. It\u2019s not pretty all the time to do research,\u201d Holly, 30, quipped in an exclusive interview with <em>Us Weekly<\/em>. \u201cIt\u2019s just the truth.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Holly began building her ambitious experiment months ago, tracking the men she dates in a custom-built compatibility matrix. She breaks down each entry to include the man\u2019s name, his astrological sign, where he lives, pros and cons about him, etc. \u2014 and while she logs the entries, she\u2019s sure to turn on the <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/entertainment\/pictures\/sex-and-the-city-relive-the-biggest-most-memorable-moments\/\"><em>Sex and the City<\/em> <\/a>and <em>Fifty Shades of Grey<\/em> soundtracks to play in the background.<\/p>\n<p>Holly is 2,000 entries short of her 50,000 goal, which she hopes to reach in the next year (think: averaging more than five dates per day.)<\/p>\n<p>As for what she considers to be an entry in her project, Holly has specific criteria \u2014 including a phone conversation (\u201cIf I\u2019m getting you on FaceTime, I\u2019m somewhat sexually attracted to you. It\u2019s not a Zoom meeting.\u201d) and having a private chat with someone at a party (\u201cWe\u2019re like, \u2018No one else exists but us.\u2019 That\u2019s kind of an impromptu date.\u201d)<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_4085150\" style=\"width: 900px;\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\">\n<div class=\"ratio-based-placeholder\" style=\"padding-bottom:100%;\"><\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\"><span class=\"caption\"><br \/>\n Holly Treats<\/span> <span class=\"credit\">Courtesy of Holly Treats\/Instagram<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Holly said her dating life has \u201cvery high highs and very low lows,\u201d before describing one of her positive nights out in Las Vegas \u2014 but forgetting some specific details because, yes, she has been on 48,000 dates.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe took me to this Michelin star at dinner, and then \u2014 where did we go? Sorry, I go on a lot of dates, so I feel bad. I just remember the whole vibe,\u201d she said. \u201cOh, he took me shopping at Crystals before. That is something I remember.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Another memorable date? A man who took a nap in between getting to know Holly. \u201cThis guy got drunk and was progressively saying ruder and ruder things,\u201d she recalled. \u201c[He] then excused himself to go to the bathroom after we paid the bill and he fell asleep in there.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Holly also claimed she\u2019s dating a <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-news\/pictures\/stars-whove-used-the-raya-dating-app-channing-tatum-more\/\">\u201cfew high profile people\u201d<\/a> that she\u2019s opting not to include in her \u201cCrush Matrix\u201d project to conceal their identities. Of the 48,000 entries (so far), Holly shared that there\u2019s under 400 men that are \u201cprobably ready for marriage, regardless of whether or not it\u2019s with me\u201d and about 50 men that she\u2019s \u201csuper into.\u201d<\/p>\n<div id=\"news-block\">\n<div class=\"newsletter-form  \">\n<div class=\"newsletter-signup__success\" aria-live=\"polite\">\n<h3>Thank You!<\/h3>\n<p>You have successfully subscribed.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<p>\u201cI would actively talk to the 48,000 [men] again if they sent me a text,\u201d Holly said. \u201cI\u2019m still in communication with all of the 48,000. They have a chance. If they made it onto my 48,000 list \u2014 because not everyone even made it onto the list \u2014 so if they made it onto that list, they\u2019re getting talked to.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>As she navigates finding The One with her dating marathon, Holly \u2014 who has amassed more than 1.6 million followers on Instagram \u2014 shared that she\u2019s learned invaluable lessons about herself and love.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI hate to say it, but dating is a numbers game,\u201d she said, \u201cand you just can\u2019t spend too much time with people once you kind of overwhelmingly know it\u2019s not right.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><em> \u2018 The preceding article may include information circulated by third parties \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em> \u2018 Some details of this article were extracted from the following source www.usmagazine.com \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Creator Holly Treats is channeling her inner Sex and the City\u2019s Samantha Jones while dating 48,000 men \u2014 and counting. Holly (real name Victoria Toplansky) is putting a new spin on modern dating with her \u201cCrush Matrix\u201d project, where she\u2019s documenting every single date \u2014 with the help of ChatGPT \u2014 to find out whether [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1986812,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_social_meta":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[25177],"tags":[24003,25404,30379,21738],"class_list":["post-1986811","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-celebrities","tag-celebrity-news","tag-exclusive","tag-exclusive-interview","tag-news"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Creator-Holly-Treats-Is-Dating-48000-Men-and-Counting.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1986811","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1986811"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1986811\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1986812"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1986811"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1986811"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1986811"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}