{"id":2001124,"date":"2025-09-06T04:19:13","date_gmt":"2025-09-06T04:19:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/?p=2001124"},"modified":"2025-09-06T04:19:13","modified_gmt":"2025-09-06T04:19:13","slug":"aubrey-plaza-opens-up-about-grieving-husbands-death-its-a-daily-struggle-obviously","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/aubrey-plaza-opens-up-about-grieving-husbands-death-its-a-daily-struggle-obviously\/","title":{"rendered":"Aubrey Plaza opens up about grieving husband&#8217;s death: &#8216;It&#8217;s a daily struggle, obviously&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Actor Aubrey Plaza appeared on <em>Parks and Recreation\u00a0<\/em>co-star Amy Poehler&#8217;s podcast <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=gLe9yRkrfCE\"><em><u>Good Hang<\/u><\/em><\/a>\u00a0on Tuesday, opening up about the death of her husband, Jeff Baena.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Baena, a director and writer behind\u00a0indie successes ranging from absurdist drama <em>I Heart Huckabees<\/em> to black comedy <em>The Little Hours<\/em>, died in January\u00a0at age 47. His death was ruled a suicide.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">&#8220;People want to see you\u00a0and see how you are,&#8221; Poehler said early in the interview. &#8220;You&#8217;ve had this terrible, terrible tragic year.\u2026\u00a0On behalf of all the people that feel like they know you, and the people who do know you, how are you feeling today?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">&#8220;Overall I&#8217;m here and I&#8217;m functioning, and I feel really grateful to be moving through the world,&#8221; Plaza responded. &#8220;I&#8217;m OK. But, you know, it&#8217;s a daily struggle, obviously.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Plaza then compared the experience of grief to the Miles Teller and Anya Taylor-Joy-led movie <em>The Gorge<\/em>. That 2025 film, she explained, featured a\u00a0pit full of violence, monsters and darkness surrounded by two tall cliffs.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">&#8220;That feels what my grief is like,&#8221; she said. &#8220;At all times, there&#8217;s a giant ocean of awfulness that&#8217;s right there, and I can see it.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">&#8220;And sometimes, I just want to dive into it and be in it. And sometimes, I just look at it. And sometimes, I just try to get away from it. But it&#8217;s always there, and the monster people are trying to get me. Like Miles Teller and Anya Taylor-Joy.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">The pair then discussed other topics for much of the hour, from growing up, to interning at <em>Saturday Night Live\u00a0<\/em>to when the two first met while filming promos for <em>Parks and Recreation<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Near\u00a0the end of the episode, Poehler returned to the earlier discussion; after Plaza admitted she doesn&#8217;t often laugh when watching comedy, Poehler asked Plaza what does make her laugh.\u00a0&#8220;How do you stay above the line?&#8221; Poehler asked.\u00a0&#8220;How do you stay on the cliff and not in the gorge?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">It was a question, Poehler admitted, that likely &#8220;takes on more import&#8221; given Plaza&#8217;s year. In response, Plaza cited a group of close friends:\u00a0members of her improv group, Bombardo.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">&#8220;We have a text chain, we do Zooms and we do trips \u2014 those girls make me laugh really, really hard,&#8221; she said. &#8220;That&#8217;s the best thing that makes me laugh: all my funny friends.&#8221;<\/p>\n<div>\n<figure class=\"imageMedia image full\">\n<div class=\"placeholder\"><\/div><figcaption class=\"image-caption\">Jeff Baena, left, writer and director of Life After Beth, poses with cast member and then-girlfriend Aubrey Plaza at the premiere of the film at the 2014 Sundance Film Festival in January 2014 in Park City, Utah.<!-- --> <!-- -->(Chris Pizzello\/Invision\/The Associated Press)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Plaza appeared\u00a0on the podcast\u00a0to promote her recent film, Ethan Coen&#8217;s <em>Honey Don&#8217;t!<\/em> \u2014 her first film since Baena&#8217;s death. In it, a small-town private investigator played by Margaret Qualley stumbles upon a series of mysterious deaths connected to a local church. Plaza plays a police officer in the film, which opens this Friday. Recently, she appeared in the Marvel series <em>Agatha All Along<\/em>, surrealist\u00a0comedy <em>My Old Ass<\/em>\u00a0and the Francis Ford Coppola epic <em>Megalopolis<\/em>.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Baena and Plaza were\u00a0frequent collaborators in the movie business. Baena had been dating Plaza for three years before she starred in his 2014 directorial debut, the zombie comedy<em> Life After Beth<\/em>. His next film, 2016&#8217;s <em>Joshy<\/em>, featured Thomas Middleditch as a man who gets together with friends months after his fianc\u00e9e killed herself.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">In a 2017 interview with Marc Maron, Baena said that it was &#8220;amazing&#8221; to work with Plaza, who appeared in four of his five films.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">&#8220;The opportunities to create together, to do something creative where we&#8217;re both fulfilled, it&#8217;s like how rare is that? She&#8217;s down and she&#8217;s so talented, so I&#8217;m really lucky,&#8221; Baena said.<\/p>\n<hr\/>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><em><strong>If you or someone you know is struggling, here&#8217;s where to get help:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>This guide from the\u00a0<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.camh.ca\/en\/health-info\/guides-and-publications\/when-a-family-member-is-suicidal\"><u>Centre for Addiction and Mental Health<\/u><\/a>\u00a0outlines how to talk about suicide with someone you&#8217;re worried about.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><em> \u2018 The preceding article may include information circulated by third parties \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em> \u2018 Some details of this article were extracted from the following source www.cbc.ca \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Actor Aubrey Plaza appeared on Parks and Recreation\u00a0co-star Amy Poehler&#8217;s podcast Good Hang\u00a0on Tuesday, opening up about the death of her husband, Jeff Baena. Baena, a director and writer behind\u00a0indie successes ranging from absurdist drama I Heart Huckabees to black comedy The Little Hours, died in January\u00a0at age 47. 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