{"id":2002874,"date":"2025-09-06T23:02:00","date_gmt":"2025-09-06T23:02:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/?p=2002874"},"modified":"2025-09-06T23:02:00","modified_gmt":"2025-09-06T23:02:00","slug":"downton-snobbery-why-meghans-biggest-crime-was-always-going-to-be-that-shes-an-american","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/downton-snobbery-why-meghans-biggest-crime-was-always-going-to-be-that-shes-an-american\/","title":{"rendered":"Downton snobbery: Why Meghan\u2019s biggest crime was always going to be that she\u2019s an American"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div id=\"main\">\n<p><span class=\"big-letter\">A<\/span>s the curtain comes down after <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/arts-entertainment\/films\/reviews\/downton-abbey-grand-finale-movie-review-b2819789.html\">15 years of Downton mania<\/a> with the release of <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/topic\/downton-abbey\"><em>Downton Abbey<\/em><\/a><em>: The Grand Finale<\/em>, there is a striking sense of end-of-an-era poignancy. The film, set in 1930, captures a fast-vanishing world before it <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/arts-entertainment\/tv\/features\/mitford-sisters-hitler-outrageous-show-b2775316.html\">dissolves into modern uncertainty<\/a>. Yet, along with sepia-edged nostalgia for a bygone age of dignity and old-fashioned formality, there is also one area where <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/life-style\/royal-family\/charles-canada-visit-donald-trump-b2758528.html\">little has changed during the last century<\/a>. <\/p>\n<p>The film is steeped in anti-American sentiment among the \u201cupstairs class\u201d, which holds true today. At one point, Lady Mary, now a divorcee, exclaims: \u201cGolly, a house full of Yanks and I\u2019m the one keeping everyone away.\u201d She has been told that an intended dinner party at Downton can not go ahead, as no one will come, knowing that she is divorced. <\/p>\n<p>Amid the aristocracy, twas ever thus. Being American, which, to the faded grandeur of the old English monied classes, screams being brash, flash and vulgar, has always been socially less acceptable than being a divorcee. <\/p>\n<p>The British upper classes continue to hold their noses at the stench of \u201cnew money\u201d while often marrying wealthy American heiresses to fund their crumbling castles and stately piles. (Which is exactly what happens in <em>Downton Abbey<\/em> \u2013 Lord Grantham married an American heiress, Cora Levinson, to secure his stately home.)<\/p>\n<p>Cash for cachet is somehow still seen as a respectable social contract, however archaic. Unless you are American. Then it is merely regarded as \u201ccashing in\u201d. Which is what our American duchess, <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/topic\/meghan-markle\">Meghan Markle<\/a>, stands accused of by using her British title to promote her As Ever brand. Although she denies using the HRH for commercial gain, she has a vast lure in that department.<\/p>\n<p>It is almost impossible for an American to grasp how profoundly the British frown on their sunny commercialism, their gusty \u201ccan-do\u201d attitude and freedom of spirit. When Meghan said in her engagement interview with Prince Harry about getting stuck in her work and being \u201cexcited to just really get to know more about the different communities here\u201d, you could almost hear the sucking in of breath across inherited land. <\/p>\n<p>Understandably, she could not grasp that her enthusiasm was not welcome. To the laconic upper classes and rigid, rule-bound <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/topic\/royal-family\">royal family<\/a>, anything that smacks of being pushy, or God forbid, self-serving, is in unforgivable bad taste. <\/p>\n<p>By Meghan\u2019s own analysis, she explained in a magazine interview to <em>The Cut<\/em> that she believed her problems stemmed from being an American and \u201cnot necessarily a Black American\u201d. <\/p>\n<p>As much as we may want to pretend that Britain is a progressive, classless modern culture, entrepreneurialism is still viewed as gauche in the upper classes, built on a system which depends on birthright. Nowhere has the lip curling snarl of the British towards American women been more apparent \u2013 and hurtful \u2013 than to our American Duchesses. Both Meghan Markle and her predecessor, <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/topic\/wallis-simpson\">Wallis Simpson<\/a>, who became the Duchess of Windsor, (King Edward VIII abdicated in 1936 in order to marry her), have experienced unprecedented vilification at the hands of an unrelenting public and monarchy. <\/p>\n<div class=\"sc-awdjp1-2 cbpRGD sc-awdjp1-3 image align-center\">\n<figure class=\"sc-1cbdeug-0 cXcwgU\">\n<div data-gallery-length=\"3\" class=\"sc-awdjp1-0 gtRRcm\"><\/p>\n<p><button class=\"sc-1uf4o3q-0 dkRtZs inline-gallery-btn\" id=\"trigger-autogallery-65011\"><span class=\"sc-1uf4o3q-1 hwVecx\">open image in gallery<\/span><\/button><\/p>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"sc-1cbdeug-1 sc-1cbdeug-3 bpFomM hgzWpY\">Laura Carmichael stars as Lady Edith and Michelle Dockery as Lady Mary in \u2018Downton Abbey: The Grand Finale \u2019<span class=\"sc-1cbdeug-7 CXMrn\"> <!-- -->(<!-- -->Focus Features<!-- -->)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>What Wallis referred to as her \u201cAmerican independence of spirit\u201d counted far more against her than any perceived character default. As Prince Harry returns home to England next week, we are reminded of his wife\u2019s ostracism as he travels alone. Even if he is welcomed back by his father, it is unlikely the same olive branch will be extended to his wife. <\/p>\n<p>After the abdication in 1937, when the world turned on Wallis, she wrote to Edward that the previous night she had cried herself to sleep. \u201cI really can\u2019t continue to carry on with all of England taking cracks at me and no decent society speaking to me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The society designer Nicky Haslam, who knew Wallis in New York in the 1960s, said of her social ostracism: \u201cIt was never about her being a divorcee. It was always about her being an American. That is why she was not accepted in English society.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>Even Edward VIII was derided among his own family for being a fan of all things American. His father, King George V, deplored his son\u2019s love of American modernity \u2013 fast cars, jazz music and American women. He asked Edward in 1932 if he had ever thought of marrying \u201ca suitable well-born English girl\u201d. Edward had not. According <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/voices\/harry-interview-bbc-charles-reconciliation-royal-family-b2744532.html\">to historian Hugo Vickers<\/a>, Edward \u201cliked these married women and he loved Americans. The prince loved golfing pros and tycoons. He thought that English girls were boring and thought that zinging cocktail girls were what he liked.\u201d <\/p>\n<div class=\"sc-awdjp1-2 cbpRGD sc-awdjp1-3 image align-center\">\n<figure class=\"sc-1cbdeug-0 cXcwgU\">\n<div data-gallery-length=\"3\" class=\"sc-awdjp1-0 bzgzLz\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.independent.co.uk\/2025\/09\/05\/7\/36\/PA-1073869.jpeg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/static.independent.co.uk\/2025\/09\/05\/7\/36\/PA-1073869.jpeg?quality=75&amp;width=320&amp;auto=webp 320w, https:\/\/static.independent.co.uk\/2025\/09\/05\/7\/36\/PA-1073869.jpeg?quality=75&amp;width=640&amp;auto=webp 640w\" loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"There was a feeling of animosity from the royal family and British public towards the Duke and Duchess of Windsor due to the latter being American\" class=\"sc-1mc30lb-0 ggpMaE inline-gallery-btn\"\/><\/p>\n<p><button class=\"sc-1uf4o3q-0 dkRtZs inline-gallery-btn\" id=\"trigger-autogallery-65012\"><span class=\"sc-1uf4o3q-1 hwVecx\">open image in gallery<\/span><\/button><\/p>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"sc-1cbdeug-1 sc-1cbdeug-3 bpFomM hgzWpY\">There was a feeling of animosity from the royal family and British public towards the Duke and Duchess of Windsor due to the latter being American<span class=\"sc-1cbdeug-7 CXMrn\"> <!-- -->(<!-- -->PA<!-- -->)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>It was considered equally singular when, in the spring of 1936, as King Edward bought an American station wagon, a car almost unheard of in England. One afternoon, he suggested to Wallis that they drive to visit his brother, Bertie (then the Duke of York) and Bertie\u2019s wife, Elizabeth (the Queen Mother). <\/p>\n<p>Marion Crawford, the Scottish governess of the York\u2019s children \u2013 our late Queen Elizabeth and her sister, Princess Margaret \u2013 witnessed this visit to Royal Lodge in Windsor Great Park, where Prince Andrew now lives. Of Wallis, Crawford wrote with biting understatement: \u201cShe was a smart, attractive woman, already middle-aged, but with that immediate friendliness that American women have. She appeared to be entirely at her ease; if anything, rather too much so.\u201d <\/p>\n<p> Wallis later said: \u201cI left with the distinct impression that while the Duke of York was sold on the American station wagon, the duchess was not sold on David\u2019s other American interest.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure class=\"sc-1wzq3bw-0 sc-1wzq3bw-3 kqnNdl gGuqvP\"><span class=\"sc-i07cwn-0 jOpKWt\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" id=\"7892fd45317565c6\" viewbox=\"0 0 80 47\"><path fill=\"#ec1a2e\" d=\"M21.18 46.99c9.4 0 17.18-7.73 17.18-17.13 0-9.46-7.72-17.12-17.12-17.12A17.2 17.2 0 0 0 3.99 29.86c0 3.74 1.29 7.47 3.48 10.5l-.13.12A23.6 23.6 0 0 1 1.29 24.4c0-12.75 10.36-23.3 23.1-23.3a24 24 0 0 1 11.53 2.89l.57-.96A26 26 0 0 0 24.33 0 24.3 24.3 0 0 0 0 24.4c0 14.09 9.72 22.59 21.18 22.59m41.47 0c9.4 0 17.18-7.73 17.18-17.13 0-9.46-7.72-17.12-17.12-17.12a17.2 17.2 0 0 0-17.25 17.12c0 3.74 1.29 7.47 3.48 10.5l-.13.12a23.6 23.6 0 0 1-6.05-16.08c0-12.75 10.36-23.3 23.1-23.3a24 24 0 0 1 11.53 2.89l.58-.96A26 26 0 0 0 65.8 0a24.33 24.33 0 0 0-24.33 24.4c0 14.09 9.72 22.59 21.18 22.59\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/p>\n<div>\n<blockquote>\n<p>It is almost impossible for an American to grasp how profoundly the British frown on their sunny commercialism, their gusty \u2018can-do\u2019 attitude and freedom of spirit<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p>If Wallis and Meghan had been British, who knows how history might have played out? We only have to look at how Queen Camilla, also a divorcee and once reviled by the British public, has become a much-respected national treasure. Like Simpson, Camilla was also the mistress of a tenacious Prince of Wales who refused to give her up. Like Camilla, Wallis displayed iron-clad loyalty to her royal husband, yet their legacies could not be more different.<\/p>\n<p>George Bernard Shaw famously said, \u201cEngland and America are two countries separated by the same language.\u201d Given the experience of the last century, it seems unlikely that we will be speaking the same language any time soon. <\/p>\n<div class=\"sc-awdjp1-2 cbpRGD sc-awdjp1-3 image align-center\">\n<figure class=\"sc-1cbdeug-0 cXcwgU\">\n<div data-gallery-length=\"3\" class=\"sc-awdjp1-0 ditGdU\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.independent.co.uk\/2025\/09\/05\/7\/23\/PA-36917203.jpeg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/static.independent.co.uk\/2025\/09\/05\/7\/23\/PA-36917203.jpeg?quality=75&amp;width=320&amp;auto=webp 320w, https:\/\/static.independent.co.uk\/2025\/09\/05\/7\/23\/PA-36917203.jpeg?quality=75&amp;width=640&amp;auto=webp 640w\" loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"The royals on the balcony of Buckingham Palace during the late Queen\u2019s birthday celebrations\" class=\"sc-1mc30lb-0 ggpMaE inline-gallery-btn\"\/><\/p>\n<p><button class=\"sc-1uf4o3q-0 dkRtZs inline-gallery-btn\" id=\"trigger-autogallery-65013\"><span class=\"sc-1uf4o3q-1 hwVecx\">open image in gallery<\/span><\/button><\/p>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"sc-1cbdeug-1 sc-1cbdeug-3 bpFomM hgzWpY\">The royals on the balcony of Buckingham Palace during the late Queen\u2019s birthday celebrations<span class=\"sc-1cbdeug-7 CXMrn\"> <!-- -->(<!-- -->PA<!-- -->)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u201cThere is reverse snobbery in the US against Brits like me\u201d, writes Flora Warshaw, who lives and works in New York.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhile the stereotype of American exclusion in English society still rings true, I will say the same goes for British exclusion on the other side of the pond. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cHaving lived in New York for over a year now \u2013 moving for graduate school and to work in the media \u2013 I am pretty settled. I possess not only a social security number, but American friends and an American boyfriend, much to my mother\u2019s chagrin. Yet while America doesn\u2019t grapple with the complex class system in the same way the UK does, there is still an air of superiority in their constant need for me to say \u2018water bottle\u2019. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe English snobbiness over an American accent makes sense: it\u2019s all we have to lord over them. So why, a year on, am I made to feel a constant sense of ostracism in a classless society that doesn\u2019t need the mocking upper hand like we do? <\/p>\n<p>\u201cOddly, Americans feel the need to justify to me the beauty of their monarch-free republic, coupled with bragging of their triumphant Declaration of Independence in 1776, because let\u2019s be honest, when tallying up who is the more successful counterpart in our special relationship, the Brits don\u2019t stand a chance, even if we do have the Beatles, Beckham, and better chocolate.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cTo the average American, I am still the 24-year-old equivalent of Mary Poppins. Yet I find my Englishness diminishing by the day, either through subtle codeswitching demonstrated in elongating my R\u2019s, referring to it as a restroom \u2013 God forbid I say \u2018loo\u2019 \u2013 and biting my tongue when all I want to do is apologise. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cBut I refuse to allow Americans to claim the moral superiority that they are above the social exclusion that the Brits pride themselves on. To mock a Brit in America is the cultural equivalent of a \u2018get out of jail free\u2019 card. While technically foreign, our Westernised nature leaves us exempt from real prejudice, so Americans can use this card to their full advantage.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><em> \u2018 The preceding article may include information circulated by third parties \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em> \u2018 Some details of this article were extracted from the following source www.independent.co.uk \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As the curtain comes down after 15 years of Downton mania with the release of Downton Abbey: The Grand Finale, there is a striking sense of end-of-an-era poignancy. The film, set in 1930, captures a fast-vanishing world before it dissolves into modern uncertainty. 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