{"id":2014024,"date":"2025-09-11T12:10:14","date_gmt":"2025-09-11T12:10:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/?p=2014024"},"modified":"2025-09-11T12:10:14","modified_gmt":"2025-09-11T12:10:14","slug":"julia-fox-recalls-deconstructing-gender-norms-with-4-year-old-son","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/julia-fox-recalls-deconstructing-gender-norms-with-4-year-old-son\/","title":{"rendered":"Julia Fox Recalls &#8216;Deconstructing&#8217; Gender Norms With 4-Year-Old Son"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrities\/julia-fox\/\"><strong>Julia Fox<\/strong><\/a> is taking a very intentional approach to parenting her 4-year-old son, Valentino.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI think you just need to raise your boys the same way you raise your girls,\u201d Fox, 35, told <em>Us Weekly<\/em> exclusively of her parenting philosophy in her <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-news\/news\/julia-fox-breaks-down-her-surprisingly-normal-life-of-an-it-girl-excl\/\">cover story<\/a>, on newsstands now. \u201cI feel like we put so much pressure on our girls, and we fill their heads with so much more cautionary tales. \u2026 You need to be teaching them too, that they can grow up and their fists can be weapons.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The <em>Him<\/em> actress, who welcomed her son in 2021 with ex-husband <strong>Peter Artemiev<\/strong>, recalled a recent teaching moment with Valentino, in which they dissected gender norms while watching a movie together.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWith Valentino, I don\u2019t let any little thing go unchecked,\u201d she told <em>Us<\/em>. \u201cI remember we were watching a movie, and then this guy comes out wearing a wedding dress. And he was like, \u2018Mommy, why is he wearing a dress?\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"link-related article link-related__with-thumb\">\n\t\t\t<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"article__thumbnail related-ab-test\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-moms\/news\/julia-fox-wants-son-to-be-a-proud-nepo-baby\/\" target=\"\" data-source=\"01\"><\/p>\n<figure class=\"article__figure\">\n<div style=\"padding-bottom:56.25%;\" class=\"ratio-based-placeholder\"><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p>\t\t<\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"article__content\">\n<h3 class=\"article__title\">\n\t\t\t<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"article__title-link related-ab-test\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-moms\/news\/julia-fox-wants-son-to-be-a-proud-nepo-baby\/\" target=\"\" data-source=\"01\"><br \/>\n    <span class=\"related-badge\">Related: <\/span><span class=\"related-title\">Julia Fox Says She Wants Her Son to &#8216;Own&#8217; Being a Nepo Baby<\/span><\/a><br \/>\n\t\t<\/h3>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p>\n\t\t\tJulia Fox has zero qualms about her son being a nepo baby \u2013 in fact, she wants him to be proud of being born into the industry. \u201cI feel like by [hiding your kids] it\u2019s almost like a disservice,\u201d she told Variety in a new profile published Monday, April 29. \u201cIt\u2019s like I have this [\u2026]\t\t<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>Fox and Valentino live with the <em>Uncut Gems<\/em> actress\u2019 best friend <strong>Richie Shazam<\/strong> and his partner, <strong>Ben Draghi<\/strong>, in a New York City brownstone \u2014 and the actress used their \u201cchosen family\u201d as an example for her son.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI was like, \u2018You know, Uncle Ben wears dresses, so if I wore a suit, would that be weird?\u2019\u201d Fox recalled telling Valentino. \u201cI saw the wheels turning, and it\u2019s like, \u2018Why is it only weird when boys wear girls clothes, but not weird when girls wear boys\u2019 clothes?\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-caption \">\n<div class=\"ratio-based-placeholder\" style=\"padding-bottom:150%;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large credit-added wp-image-4096935\" src=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Julia-Fox-Recalls-Deconstructing-Gender-Norms-With-4-Year-Old-Son-Shares-Her-Parenting-Philosophy-003.jpg?w=1000&amp;quality=40&amp;strip=all\" alt=\"Julia Fox Recalls Deconstructing Gender Norms With 4 Year Old Son Shares Her Parenting Philosophy 003\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Julia-Fox-Recalls-Deconstructing-Gender-Norms-With-4-Year-Old-Son-Shares-Her-Parenting-Philosophy-003.jpg?w=100&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 100w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Julia-Fox-Recalls-Deconstructing-Gender-Norms-With-4-Year-Old-Son-Shares-Her-Parenting-Philosophy-003.jpg?w=200&amp;quality=40&amp;strip=all 200w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Julia-Fox-Recalls-Deconstructing-Gender-Norms-With-4-Year-Old-Son-Shares-Her-Parenting-Philosophy-003.jpg?w=300&amp;quality=40&amp;strip=all 300w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Julia-Fox-Recalls-Deconstructing-Gender-Norms-With-4-Year-Old-Son-Shares-Her-Parenting-Philosophy-003.jpg?w=400&amp;quality=40&amp;strip=all 400w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Julia-Fox-Recalls-Deconstructing-Gender-Norms-With-4-Year-Old-Son-Shares-Her-Parenting-Philosophy-003.jpg?w=500&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 500w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Julia-Fox-Recalls-Deconstructing-Gender-Norms-With-4-Year-Old-Son-Shares-Her-Parenting-Philosophy-003.jpg?w=600&amp;quality=40&amp;strip=all 600w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Julia-Fox-Recalls-Deconstructing-Gender-Norms-With-4-Year-Old-Son-Shares-Her-Parenting-Philosophy-003.jpg?w=700&amp;quality=40&amp;strip=all 700w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Julia-Fox-Recalls-Deconstructing-Gender-Norms-With-4-Year-Old-Son-Shares-Her-Parenting-Philosophy-003.jpg?w=800&amp;quality=40&amp;strip=all 800w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Julia-Fox-Recalls-Deconstructing-Gender-Norms-With-4-Year-Old-Son-Shares-Her-Parenting-Philosophy-003.jpg?w=900&amp;quality=40&amp;strip=all 900w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Julia-Fox-Recalls-Deconstructing-Gender-Norms-With-4-Year-Old-Son-Shares-Her-Parenting-Philosophy-003.jpg?w=1000&amp;quality=40&amp;strip=all 1000w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Julia-Fox-Recalls-Deconstructing-Gender-Norms-With-4-Year-Old-Son-Shares-Her-Parenting-Philosophy-003.jpg?w=1200&amp;quality=40&amp;strip=all 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 680px) calc(100vw - 6em), (max-width: 1000px) 80vw, 1000px\"\/><\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\"><span class=\"credit\">RICHIE SHAZAM<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Despite wondering \u201cdo I really have to do this?\u201d in moments like these, as a vocal feminist and critic of the patriarchy, Fox knows she has to be proactive in raising a young man.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGod forbid he goes out into the world and becomes the exact epitome of everything I hate because I was just like, \u2018It\u2019ll be fine,\u2019\u201d she told <em>Us<\/em>. \u201cThat\u2019s really what it is all about: communicating and having those uncomfortable conversations, trying to get them to understand in a way that a 4-year-old can.\u201d<\/p>\n<div id=\"news-block\">\n<div class=\"newsletter-form  \">\n<div class=\"newsletter-signup__success\" aria-live=\"polite\">\n<h3>Thank You!<\/h3>\n<p>You have successfully subscribed.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<div class=\"link-related article link-related__with-thumb\">\n\t\t\t<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"article__thumbnail related-ab-test\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-moms\/news\/celebrity-parenting-tips-of-2024-from-angelina-jolie-to-ryan-reynolds\/\" target=\"\" data-source=\"01\"><\/p>\n<figure class=\"article__figure\">\n<div style=\"padding-bottom:56.25%;\" class=\"ratio-based-placeholder\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/The-Best-Celebrity-Parenting-Quotes-of-2024-From-Angelina-Jolie-to-Ryan-Reynolds-067.jpg?crop=141px%2C0px%2C1726px%2C977px&amp;resize=400%2C225&amp;quality=40&amp;strip=all\" srcset=\"\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 480px) 400px, (max-width: 770px) calc(100vw - 6em), 200px\" alt=\"The Best Celebrity Parenting Quotes of 2024 From Angelina Jolie to Ryan Reynolds 067\" width=\"400\" height=\"225\" data-fallback-img=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/The-Best-Celebrity-Parenting-Quotes-of-2024-From-Angelina-Jolie-to-Ryan-Reynolds-067.jpg?quality=40&amp;strip=all\"\/><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p>\t\t<\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"article__content\">\n<h3 class=\"article__title\">\n\t\t\t<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"article__title-link related-ab-test\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-moms\/news\/celebrity-parenting-tips-of-2024-from-angelina-jolie-to-ryan-reynolds\/\" target=\"\" data-source=\"01\"><br \/>\n    <span class=\"related-badge\">Related: <\/span><span class=\"related-title\">Celebrity Parenting Tips of 2024, From Angelina Jolie to Ryan Reynolds<\/span><\/a><br \/>\n\t\t<\/h3>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p>\n\t\t\tCelebrity parents, they\u2019re just like Us. From Gwyneth Paltrow\u2019s college-aged teen advice to Serena Williams\u2019 toddler wisdom, celebrities truly \u201cget it\u201d when it comes to the ups and downs of parenthood. \u201cIt\u2019ll be interesting to see how the morning routine changes with no kids in the house,\u201d Paltrow, 52, whose daughter Apple, 20, is a [\u2026]\t\t<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>She continued: \u201cBut as soon as they start making those remarks, we have to start deconstructing that, because that\u2019s a little seed that has been planted. \u2026 I just don\u2019t want him to be that person.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>As recalled in her memoir, <em>Down the Drain<\/em>, Fox herself had a tumultuous childhood and a difficult relationship with her parents. Becoming a mom herself has given her a new perspective on her own upbringing.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cA lot of the way that I parent is in direct opposition with the way that I was parented,\u201d she told <em>Us<\/em>. \u201cI have so much more sympathy for my parents now that I\u2019m a mom. I think you really don\u2019t get it until you\u2019re a parent.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><em> \u2018 The preceding article may include information circulated by third parties \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em> \u2018 Some details of this article were extracted from the following source www.usmagazine.com \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Julia Fox is taking a very intentional approach to parenting her 4-year-old son, Valentino. \u201cI think you just need to raise your boys the same way you raise your girls,\u201d Fox, 35, told Us Weekly exclusively of her parenting philosophy in her cover story, on newsstands now. \u201cI feel like we put so much pressure [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":2014025,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_social_meta":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[25177],"tags":[24386,25404,345495,42463],"class_list":["post-2014024","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-celebrities","tag-entertainment-news","tag-exclusive","tag-hollywood-moms","tag-moms"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Julia-Fox-Recalls-Deconstructing-Gender-Norms-With-4-Year-Old-Son.jpeg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2014024","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2014024"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2014024\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2014025"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2014024"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2014024"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2014024"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}