Even though more than a decade has passed since\u00a0Gretchen Rossi<\/a>‘s\u00a0rooftop proposal to\u00a0Slade Smiley<\/a>\u00a0on\u00a0The Real Housewives of Orange County<\/a>\u00a0in 2013, the “life partners” are still not legally married\u00a0\u2014 and\u00a0Heather Dubrow<\/a>, for one,\u00a0does not foresee that changing.<\/p>\n “No, I don’t think they\u2019ll ever get married,” Heather declared on\u00a0The Real Housewives of Orange County After Show<\/a>, noting that Gretchen was “very clear” in Season 19, Episode 11, about keeping her and Slade’s finances and assets separate.<\/p>\n After Shannon Storms Beador<\/a>\u00a0threw in her two cents that she thought the parents to 6-year-old\u00a0Skylar Gray Smiley<\/a>\u00a0“would get married for their daughter\u2019s sake” and “outline” their financials in a prenup, Heather dismissed her castmate’s “old school” thought process.<\/p>\n “I get that,” Heather replied. “But the truth is, like, she told me she could never marry him.”<\/p>\n RELATED:\u00a0Emily Simpson Reveals a Jaw-Dropping Off-Camera Moment From Heather’s Sleepover (EXCLUSIVE)<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n Shannon, meanwhile, countered, “But it’s for the financial reasons, not that she didn’t care about him,” to which Heather shot back, “But then why propose with a helicopter? You’re not marrying him.”<\/p>\n Shannon Beador and Heather Dubrow sitting together during the RHOC Season 19 Aftershow<\/p>\n Elsewhere on the RHOC After Show,\u00a0Jennifer Pedranti<\/a>\u00a0echoed earlier claims that Heather and other cast members made, telling\u00a0Gretchen directly that she’d also heard “the reason you guys couldn’t get married was because you were worried about finances.”<\/p>\n Gretchen’s response? “That’s not true.”<\/p>\n RELATED:\u00a0Gretchen Rossi Gives Peek at Life with Slade & Their Kid \u2014 Including Reunion with RHONJ Alum<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n When the subject arose on RHOC’s Sept. 18 episode,\u00a0a flashback to 2012 confirmed Gretchen told Heather that Slade was “trying to get caught up on some of [his] back debt,” at the time, and she didn’t “wanna take it on” in a potential marriage.<\/p>\n Those worries have since dissipated over the past thirteen years, however, according to Gretchen.<\/p>\n “It’s not even that it’s all handled,” Gretchen explained to Heather and Emily Simpson<\/a>\u00a0during their fancy Beverly Hills sleepover<\/a>. “I just feel like I’ve been with him for 16 years and I know who he is. And I feel much more confident.”<\/p>\n A split of Gretchen Rossi and Slade Smiley<\/p>\n During the same post-slumber party brunch, Gretchen also updated the two that she actually “would love to” marry Slade now.<\/p>\n “We tell everybody we’re husband and wife,” she elaborated in a confessional. “And we actually did a ceremony with an ordained pastor. Paper doesn’t make us married or not. In God’s eyes and in our eyes, we’re married.”<\/p>\n Gretchen previously told that story on a separate episode of Season 19’s\u00a0RHOC After Show, revealing that she and Slade exchanged vows<\/a>\u00a0on\u00a0New Year’s Eve 2022.<\/p>\n “It was between him and me and God,” Gretchen said. “We wanted to know that we have that for ourselves and for our daughter. Skylar was there, and it was a really special moment.”<\/p>\n Related:<\/strong> Wait, Gretchen and Slade Are Already Married? Get Details in Shocking RHOC After Show Trailer<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n Clarifying that she doesn’t feel a “need to” make the marriage legal, Gretchen did list two reasons why she and Slade may still\u00a0officially walk down the aisle in the future.<\/p>\n “I don’t want people to keep asking, ‘When are you ever gonna get married?'” she shared.\u00a0“So, I’m kind of just like, if I do it more publicly, then I think people will stop asking that.”<\/p>\n Gretchen’s second reason? “I do think there’s something to be said for, like, having the pictures, and then Sky getting to see that one day when she’s older. Like, ‘Oh, this is when Mommy and Daddy got married.’ That sort of thing. So, I love the whole, like, concept behind, like, having those memories behind it.”<\/p>\n Sign up for Bravo Insider and read behind-the-scenes features including:<\/p>\n Cynthia Bailey Unpacks the Differences Between Filming RHOA and RHOBH: “Night and Day”<\/a><\/p>\n Receipts, Proof, Timeline, Screenshots: A Complete Guide According to Bravolebs<\/a><\/p>\n Brittany Cartwright Reveals the Real Reason She Wore That Tiny Romper to a Job Interview: “Backfired”<\/a><\/p>\n Angela Oakley on the RHOA Beef She Squashed “Too Soon” & What You Didn\u2019t See at the Reunion<\/a><\/p>\n<\/span><\/div>\n
Gretchen Rossi denies Heather Dubrow’s claim that Slade Smiley’s debt affected their relationship<\/h2>\n
Gretchen Rossi explains why she and Slade Smiley are not legally married<\/h2>\n
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