{"id":2042045,"date":"2025-09-22T21:44:11","date_gmt":"2025-09-22T21:44:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/?p=2042045"},"modified":"2025-09-22T21:44:11","modified_gmt":"2025-09-22T21:44:11","slug":"who-is-mel-owens-and-what-did-he-say-about-dating-women-over-60-everything-to-know-about-the-controversial-lead","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/who-is-mel-owens-and-what-did-he-say-about-dating-women-over-60-everything-to-know-about-the-controversial-lead\/","title":{"rendered":"Who is Mel Owens and what did he say about dating women over 60? Everything to know about the controversial lead."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div data-article-body=\"true\">\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Bachelor Nation, <em>The Golden Bachelor <\/em>Season 2 is almost here. The second season of the hit ABC reality dating series premieres on Wednesday evening and will follow Mel Owens, a 66-year-old former NFL player, in his search for love.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Owens\u2019s turn as the leading man comes two years after Gerry Turner, then 72, served as the inaugural Golden Bachelor in 2023. Joan Vassos, then 61, meanwhile, took her turn at finding love as the first Golden Bachelorette in 2024.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">ABC first unveiled Owens as the upcoming Golden Bachelor in April, while the <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"cpos:1;pos:1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/entertainment\/tv\/article\/golden-bachelor-season-2-cast-is-here-meet-the-women-vying-for-mel-owenss-final-rose-215102384.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:23 seniors vying for his heart;cpos:1;pos:1;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\">23 seniors vying for his heart<\/a> were revealed earlier this month. The months leading up to Owens\u2019s season, however, have been rife with controversy due to comments he made regarding his expectations about the ages and physical appearance of the show\u2019s female contestants.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Despite calls from fans to replace Owens as the Golden Bachelor, ABC has decided to stick with him as the Season 2 lead. Owens, who has since apologized for his remarks, is still hoping to find lasting love on the show.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Ahead of Wednesday night\u2019s season premiere, we\u2019re taking a closer look at everything there is to know about Owens.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"mb-4 text-xl font-bold md:text-2xl\" data-jump-link-target=\"\" id=\"who-is-mel-owens\">Who is Mel Owens?<\/h2>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Owens is a 66-year-old NFL player turned lawyer. The former professional athlete, who previously played for the Los Angeles Rams from 1981 to 1989, was born and raised in Detroit and attended the University of Michigan. Following his retirement from the NFL, Owens relocated to Orange County in California, where he became a sports lawyer specializing in workers&#8217; compensation.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">He was married to his \u201cfirst love,\u201d Fabiana Pimentel, from 2002 to 2020. Pimentel, with whom Owens has two sons, Lucas, 20, and Andre, 18, filed for divorce in 2020.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"mb-4 text-xl font-bold md:text-2xl\" data-jump-link-target=\"\" id=\"how-did-owens-end-up-on-the-golden-bachelor\">How did Owens end up on \u2018The Golden Bachelor\u2019?<\/h2>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">While he isn\u2019t a fan of the Bachelor franchise himself, a friend of Owens urged him to apply for <em>The Golden Bachelor<\/em>. He did and was cast as the Season 2 lead.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;It&#8217;s this fortuitous other route. It&#8217;s not something I would have done entirely on my own,&#8221; Owens <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"elm:affiliate_link;sellerN:USA TODAY;elmt:;cpos:2;pos:1\" href=\"https:\/\/shopping.yahoo.com\/rdlw?merchantId=14bcaa59-fd9f-4864-a7d9-a27d287727bc&amp;siteId=us-lifestyle&amp;pageId=1p-autolink&amp;contentUuid=a7991873-c29d-4be1-8969-6fbb26d8b681&amp;featureId=text-link&amp;merchantName=USA+TODAY&amp;linkText=told+USA+Today&amp;custData=eyJzb3VyY2VOYW1lIjoiV2ViLURlc2t0b3AtVmVyaXpvbiIsImxhbmRpbmdVcmwiOiJodHRwczovL3d3dy51c2F0b2RheS5jb20vc3RvcnkvZW50ZXJ0YWlubWVudC90di8yMDI1LzA5LzE3L2dvbGRlbi1iYWNoZWxvci1tZWwtb3dlbnMtYWdlLWNvbnRyb3ZlcnN5Lzg2MTg2MTMxMDA3LyIsImNvbnRlbnRVdWlkIjoiYTc5OTE4NzMtYzI5ZC00YmUxLTg5NjktNmZiYjI2ZDhiNjgxIiwib3JpZ2luYWxVcmwiOiJodHRwczovL3d3dy51c2F0b2RheS5jb20vc3RvcnkvZW50ZXJ0YWlubWVudC90di8yMDI1LzA5LzE3L2dvbGRlbi1iYWNoZWxvci1tZWwtb3dlbnMtYWdlLWNvbnRyb3ZlcnN5Lzg2MTg2MTMxMDA3LyJ9&amp;signature=AQAAAYTUASqpvtB8ZiNZpvA_ErmlSaJFZZV-Ymaqsif61M10&amp;gcReferrer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.usatoday.com%2Fstory%2Fentertainment%2Ftv%2F2025%2F09%2F17%2Fgolden-bachelor-mel-owens-age-controversy%2F86186131007%2F\" class=\"link  rapid-with-clickid etailiffa-link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:told USA Today;elm:affiliate_link;sellerN:USA TODAY;elmt:;cpos:2;pos:1;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">told USA Today<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"mb-4 text-xl font-bold md:text-2xl\" data-jump-link-target=\"\" id=\"whats-the-controversy\">What\u2019s the controversy?<\/h2>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The controversy surrounding Owens began in June, when he appeared on the <em>MGoBlue<\/em> podcast for his alma mater, the University of Michigan. It was during this conversation that Owens specified what he wanted in a partner \u2014 and how old he wanted her to be.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cThey ask me, \u2018What\u2019s your preference?\u2019 So I just said 45 to 60, just being honest,\u201d he said on the podcast. \u201cAnd then we had lunch with the executive producer. I said, \u2018You know, if they\u2019re 60 or over, I\u2019m cutting them.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Owens was also less forgiving about his ideal partner\u2019s physical attributes. When asked about his physical \u201ctype,\u201d the former NFLer said he\u2019s interested in women who are into fitness and who don\u2019t have any artificial body parts.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Owens said of his ideal woman, \u201cThey asked me, \u2018What is my profile?\u2019 Well, [the women] got to be fit, because I\u2019m staying in shape and working out and stuff. And I told them, \u2018Try to stay away from the artificial hips and the wigs, you know, that kind of stuff, right?\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"mb-4 text-xl font-bold md:text-2xl\" data-jump-link-target=\"\" id=\"has-owens-addressed-the-controversy\">Has Owens addressed the controversy?<\/h2>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Yes. Owens spoke <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"cpos:3;pos:1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=p5BojQG7Mf0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:with Entertainment Tonight;cpos:3;pos:1;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">with <em>Entertainment Tonight<\/em><\/a> last week, at which point he acknowledged that his comments were in poor taste.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cThe comments I made were unfair and insensitive, but I apologized to them collectively,\u201d Owens said. \u201cLooking back on it, it was wrong to say, and I shouldn\u2019t have said it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">While chatting <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"cpos:4;pos:1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.glamour.com\/story\/the-golden-bachelors-mel-owens-knows-bachelor-nation-is-angry-i-deserved-it\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:with Glamour in August;cpos:4;pos:1;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">with Glamour in August<\/a>, Owens publicly addressed his ageist comments for the first time. During the interview, the lawyer revealed that he apologized to the women at the start of filming.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cI apologized to the women on the show. When I first walked in, I addressed it. I apologized to them. I said, \u2018It was unfair, insensitive. I want to earn it back. Just give me the chance.\u2019 And hopefully, these last two weeks I earned some of that back,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The women on his season, Owens told Glamour, seemed receptive to his apology.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cYeah, during our one-on-ones, 12 or 15 of them said, \u2018We appreciate the apology, and it meant a lot to us,\u2019\u201d he recalled.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Owens also claimed that he didn\u2019t know about <em>The Golden Bachelor\u2019s <\/em>typical age range for contestants before joining the show. During the show\u2019s inaugural season, Golden Bachelor Gerry Turner was 72 years old, and the contestants were between 60 and 75 years old.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cI didn\u2019t know the age range because I wasn\u2019t watching it. I\u2019m thinking, to me, the age range was 45 to 60. That\u2019s my age range. I\u2019m thinking that\u2019s the gold years for me. My reference, again, was when I was dating at 39, 40. I hadn\u2019t dated in 26 years, so I had no clue. And that\u2019s why I said that comment. I didn\u2019t know. I didn\u2019t know,\u201d Owens told Glamour.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"mb-4 text-xl font-bold md:text-2xl\" data-jump-link-target=\"\" id=\"what-does-owens-think-of-the-backlash\">What does Owens think of the backlash?<\/h2>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Owens believes the backlash is warranted, though he hopes that viewers tune in to his season of <em>The Golden Bachelor <\/em>anyway.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cYou have to be earnest in your work to get the trust back,\u201d Owens told Glamour. \u201cEverybody there is smart, and they can see through you if you\u2019re lying or you don\u2019t mean what you say. That\u2019s why I say tuned in. Hopefully the show will show that the women that are in their golden years, that are doing these amazing things. It\u2019s inspirational.\u201d<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"mb-4 text-xl font-bold md:text-2xl\" data-jump-link-target=\"\" id=\"what-else-has-owens-said-about-his-season\">What else has Owens said about his season?<\/h2>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">After Owens\u2019s comments went viral, some Bachelor Nation fans requested that he be removed as the Season 2 lead. While chatting <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"elm:affiliate_link;sellerN:USA TODAY;elmt:;cpos:5;pos:1\" href=\"https:\/\/shopping.yahoo.com\/rdlw?merchantId=14bcaa59-fd9f-4864-a7d9-a27d287727bc&amp;siteId=us-lifestyle&amp;pageId=1p-autolink&amp;contentUuid=a7991873-c29d-4be1-8969-6fbb26d8b681&amp;featureId=text-link&amp;merchantName=USA+TODAY&amp;linkText=with+USA+Today&amp;custData=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&amp;signature=AQAAAVd2xyrdDaSl4_j-tGLrd4XyuLLn9zJxMXVJxmcwXLVe&amp;gcReferrer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.usatoday.com%2Fvideos%2Fentertainment%2Fentertainthis%2F2025%2F09%2F17%2Fmel-owens-interview-golden-bachelor-season-2%2F86167968007%2F\" class=\"link  rapid-with-clickid etailiffa-link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:with USA Today;elm:affiliate_link;sellerN:USA TODAY;elmt:;cpos:5;pos:1;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">with USA Today<\/a> last week, however, Owens revealed that he had no intention of ever stepping down as the Golden Bachelor.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cI never contemplated stepping away. Never did,\u201d he said. \u201cI don\u2019t remember exactly the conversation [with the show\u2019s producers], but they stood by me, and thankfully they did, and I had a great time.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><em> \u2018 The preceding article may include information circulated by third parties \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em> \u2018 Some details of this article were extracted from the following source www.yahoo.com \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bachelor Nation, The Golden Bachelor Season 2 is almost here. The second season of the hit ABC reality dating series premieres on Wednesday evening and will follow Mel Owens, a 66-year-old former NFL player, in his search for love. Owens\u2019s turn as the leading man comes two years after Gerry Turner, then 72, served as [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":2042046,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_social_meta":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[25172],"tags":[305646,376158,340430,376159],"class_list":["post-2042045","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-entertainment","tag-bachelor-nation","tag-golden-bachelor","tag-los-angeles-rams","tag-mel-owens"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Who-is-Mel-Owens-and-what-did-he-say-about.jpeg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2042045","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2042045"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2042045\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2042046"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2042045"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2042045"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2042045"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}