{"id":2050107,"date":"2025-09-25T21:12:55","date_gmt":"2025-09-25T21:12:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/?p=2050107"},"modified":"2025-09-25T21:12:55","modified_gmt":"2025-09-25T21:12:55","slug":"i-look-in-camera-and-i-hump-my-ass-off","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/i-look-in-camera-and-i-hump-my-ass-off\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;I Look in Camera and I Hump My Ass Off&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div data-article-body=\"true\">\n<h3 class=\"mb-4 text-lg font-bold\">NEED TO KNOW<\/h3>\n<ul class=\"mb-4\">\n<li class=\"ml-4 list-disc\">\n<div class=\"\">\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Penn Badgley got candid about what it takes to make a sex scene come to life onscreen<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"ml-4 list-disc\">\n<div class=\"\">\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">He detailed the reality of filming an intimate scene in a new first-person essay, where he recalled, in detail, the process of filming a scene for <em>You<\/em> season 3<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"ml-4 list-disc\">\n<div class=\"\">\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">For the scene, he recalled he was &#8220;humping the air with the camera in my face, but I\u2019m going to be looking straight down the barrel of the lens, something I reflexively never do&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\"><a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/tag\/penn-badgley\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Penn Badgley;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Penn Badgley<\/a> is peeling back the curtain on what it&#8217;s really like to film a sex scene.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">In excerpt from <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Crushmore-Essays-Love-Coming-Age-ebook\/dp\/B0DV6H13KR\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Crushmore: Essays on Love, Loss, and Coming-of-Age;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \"><em>Crushmore: Essays on Love, Loss, and Coming-of-Age<\/em><\/a>, which was published by\u00a0 <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.vulture.com\/article\/penn-badgley-sex-scenes-crushmore-excerpt.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Vulture;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \"><em>Vulture<\/em><\/a>, the 38-year-old actor took a deep dive into a particular memory from filming a scene in <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/penn-badgley-you-cage-room-blair-waldorf-penthouse-gossip-girl-11724418\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:You;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \"><em>You<\/em><\/a> season 3, which he described as a &#8220;fantasy sequence&#8221; where his character, Joe Goldberg, is &#8220;meant to be humpin\u2019 on his wife, with whom he has become not only bored but also contemptuous.&#8221; In the scene, he recalled, the director &#8220;has chosen to place the camera directly in front of my face.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">In the moment, Joe is supposed to be imagining the librarian he&#8217;s crushing on (Tati Gabrielle) instead of his wife (<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/victoria-pedretti-reveals-shes-engaged-to-ethan-delorenzo-11776431\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Victoria Pedretti;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Victoria Pedretti<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;What this means for me, practically speaking, is that the director wants a close-up of my face as my character Joe is deep in dissociative reverie mid-coitus,&#8221; Badgley wrote.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"relative mb-4\">\n<div class=\"relative\"><button aria-label=\"View larger image\" class=\"group absolute bottom-3 right-3 size-10 md:size-[50px] lg:inset-0 lg:size-full lg:bg-transparent\" data-ylk=\"elm:expand;itc:1;sec:image-lightbox;slk:lightbox-open;\"><span class=\"absolute bottom-0 right-0 rounded-full bg-white p-3 opacity-100 shadow-elevation-3 transition-opacity duration-300 group-hover:block group-hover:opacity-100 md:p-[17px] lg:bottom-6 lg:right-6 lg:bg-white\/90 lg:p-5 lg:opacity-0 lg:shadow-none\"><svg viewbox=\"0 0 22 22\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"size-4 lg:size-6\" width=\"22\" height=\"22\"><path d=\"M12.372.92c0-.506.41-.916.915-.916L21 0l-.004 7.712a.917.917 0 0 1-1.832 0V3.183l-6.827 6.828-1.349-1.348 6.828-6.828h-4.529a.915.915 0 0 1-.915-.915M1.835 17.816l6.828-6.828 1.349 1.349-6.829 6.827h4.529a.915.915 0 0 1 0 1.831L0 21l.004-7.713a.916.916 0 0 1 1.831 0z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/button><dialog aria-label=\"Modal Dialog\" aria-modal=\"true\" class=\"fixed inset-0 z-4 size-full max-h-none max-w-none bg-white hidden\"\/><\/div><figcaption class=\"relative text-sm mt-1 pr-2.5\">\n<p><i>Netflix Charlotte Ritchie as Kate, Penn Badgley as Joe in &#8216;You&#8217; season 4<\/i><\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">To get the shot they wanted, there wasn&#8217;t room for both Pedretti and the seven-hundred-pound camera apparatus, which left Badgley to &#8220;simulate sex by myself, effectively humpin\u2019 on the air, on a fake bed in a fake room, surrounded by a film crew.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;Oh, and I\u2019ll be in the same nude thong I\u2019ve been wearing all morning as we complete the scene, of course,&#8221; he noted, too.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The realization was not a shocking one to him, the <em>Gossip Girl<\/em> alum wrote, but he still noted his appreciation for the episode&#8217;s &#8220;thoughtful and talented&#8221; director, Silver Tree, for her &#8220;deference to me,&#8221; as she approached him before the camera department to lay out the shot.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">He&#8217;s then informed that he will not be &#8220;humping the air with the camera in my face, but I\u2019m going to be looking straight down the barrel of the lens, something I reflexively never do.&#8221;<\/p>\n<figure class=\"relative mb-4\">\n<div class=\"relative\"><img alt=\"Clifton Prescod\/Netflix\u00a9 2025 Penn Badgley as Joe Goldberg in 'You' season 5\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"640\" height=\"427\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/s.yimg.com\/ny\/api\/res\/1.2\/tKgJrs1Q3VdBPIJPmdjl9A--\/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTk2MDtoPTY0MTtjZj13ZWJw\/https:\/\/media.zenfs.com\/en\/people_218\/643cc6790e92955757296b3cbc621dc6\"\/><button aria-label=\"View larger image\" class=\"group absolute bottom-3 right-3 size-10 md:size-[50px] lg:inset-0 lg:size-full lg:bg-transparent\" data-ylk=\"elm:expand;itc:1;sec:image-lightbox;slk:lightbox-open;\"><span class=\"absolute bottom-0 right-0 rounded-full bg-white p-3 opacity-100 shadow-elevation-3 transition-opacity duration-300 group-hover:block group-hover:opacity-100 md:p-[17px] lg:bottom-6 lg:right-6 lg:bg-white\/90 lg:p-5 lg:opacity-0 lg:shadow-none\"><svg viewbox=\"0 0 22 22\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"size-4 lg:size-6\" width=\"22\" height=\"22\"><path d=\"M12.372.92c0-.506.41-.916.915-.916L21 0l-.004 7.712a.917.917 0 0 1-1.832 0V3.183l-6.827 6.828-1.349-1.348 6.828-6.828h-4.529a.915.915 0 0 1-.915-.915M1.835 17.816l6.828-6.828 1.349 1.349-6.829 6.827h4.529a.915.915 0 0 1 0 1.831L0 21l.004-7.713a.916.916 0 0 1 1.831 0z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/button><dialog aria-label=\"Modal Dialog\" aria-modal=\"true\" class=\"fixed inset-0 z-4 size-full max-h-none max-w-none bg-white hidden\"\/><\/div><figcaption class=\"relative text-sm mt-1 pr-2.5\">\n<div style=\"max-height:none;overflow:visible\">\n<p>Clifton Prescod\/Netflix\u00a9 2025<\/p>\n<p> Penn Badgley as Joe Goldberg in &#8216;You&#8217; season 5<\/p><\/div>\n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The thought crossed his mind that the scene &#8220;may very well become a meme,&#8221; he wrote, before describing the camera set-up in detail and quipping, &#8220;This is my pretend lover for the next ten to fifteen minutes.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">When he first crawled onto the bed to get ready to film, he started to laugh, and it caught on amongst the crew, which he recalled was a &#8220;relaxing, unifying moment.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Then, &#8220;the time has come for me to hump,&#8221; Badgley wrote.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;I\u2019m not home, but I can imagine that I am. There is no one in front of me, but I can imagine someone is. A moment ago there was only resistance in my body to do what was needed, but upon the utterance of one word \u2014 action \u2014 I am supremely present in the face of sheer absurdity. I look in camera. And I hump my ass off.&#8221;<\/p>\n<figure class=\"relative mb-4\">\n<div class=\"relative\"><img alt=\"Courtesy of Netflix Penn Badgley as Joe Goldberg, Madeline Brewer as Bronte in 'You' season 5\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"640\" height=\"427\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/s.yimg.com\/ny\/api\/res\/1.2\/n.F7xD.Roxsl0lZsCUGIfA--\/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTk2MDtoPTY0MTtjZj13ZWJw\/https:\/\/media.zenfs.com\/en\/people_218\/345d4f5f8286b1549217853097802362\"\/><button aria-label=\"View larger image\" class=\"group absolute bottom-3 right-3 size-10 md:size-[50px] lg:inset-0 lg:size-full lg:bg-transparent\" data-ylk=\"elm:expand;itc:1;sec:image-lightbox;slk:lightbox-open;\"><span class=\"absolute bottom-0 right-0 rounded-full bg-white p-3 opacity-100 shadow-elevation-3 transition-opacity duration-300 group-hover:block group-hover:opacity-100 md:p-[17px] lg:bottom-6 lg:right-6 lg:bg-white\/90 lg:p-5 lg:opacity-0 lg:shadow-none\"><svg viewbox=\"0 0 22 22\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"size-4 lg:size-6\" width=\"22\" height=\"22\"><path d=\"M12.372.92c0-.506.41-.916.915-.916L21 0l-.004 7.712a.917.917 0 0 1-1.832 0V3.183l-6.827 6.828-1.349-1.348 6.828-6.828h-4.529a.915.915 0 0 1-.915-.915M1.835 17.816l6.828-6.828 1.349 1.349-6.829 6.827h4.529a.915.915 0 0 1 0 1.831L0 21l.004-7.713a.916.916 0 0 1 1.831 0z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/button><dialog aria-label=\"Modal Dialog\" aria-modal=\"true\" class=\"fixed inset-0 z-4 size-full max-h-none max-w-none bg-white hidden\"\/><\/div><figcaption class=\"relative text-sm mt-1 pr-2.5\">\n<div style=\"max-height:none;overflow:visible\">\n<p>Courtesy of Netflix<\/p>\n<p> Penn Badgley as Joe Goldberg, Madeline Brewer as Bronte in &#8216;You&#8217; season 5<\/p><\/div>\n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The actor made headlines when he revealed <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/tv\/penn-badgley-asked-you-netflix-creator-for-zero-intimacy-scenes-season-4\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:he'd requested to have &quot;no more intimacy scenes&quot;;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">he&#8217;d requested to have &#8220;no more intimacy scenes&#8221;<\/a> in season 4 of the hit Netflix series, though he knew that might not be feasible given he&#8217;d &#8220;signed up for the show.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Still, Badgley, who married <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/tv\/penn-badgley-domino-kirke-relationship-timeline\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Domino Kirke;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Domino Kirke<\/a>, with whom <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/penn-badgley-welcomes-identical-twin-boys-with-wife-domino-kirke-11721599\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:he shares three kids;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">he shares three kids<\/a>, in 2017, explained, &#8220;Fidelity in every relationship \u2014 especially in a marriage \u2014 is important to me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">In season 5, <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/penn-badgley-why-no-sex-scene-rule-axed-netflix-you-season-5-exclusive-11719786\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Badgley told PEOPLE he &quot;had to throw that out the window&quot;;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Badgley told PEOPLE he &#8220;had to throw that out the window&#8221;<\/a> for the storyline.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;That was the question again. All right, what am I willing to do?&#8221; he said. &#8220;And as I always said, I said, my desire is that least as possible, but if it&#8217;s necessary, that&#8217;s the show we all sign up to make. So, let&#8217;s make sure it&#8217;s vital, let&#8217;s make sure it&#8217;s important, it&#8217;s deliberate. And we did.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\"><strong>Never miss a story \u2014 sign up for<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/people-news-daily-newsletter-sign-up-8692701\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:PEOPLE's free daily newsletter;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \"> PEOPLE&#8217;s free daily newsletter<\/a> to stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer\u200b\u200b, from celebrity news to compelling human interest stories.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\"><em>You<\/em> can be streamed in full on Netflix, and <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Crushmore-Essays-Love-Coming-Age-ebook\/dp\/B0DV6H13KR\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Crushmore: Essays on Love, Loss, and Coming-of-Age;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \"><em>Crushmore: Essays on Love, Loss, and Coming-of-Age<\/em><\/a> is available for purchase wherever books are sold.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Read the original article on <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/penn-badgley-gets-candid-about-filming-sex-scenes-11817814\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:People;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">People<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><em> \u2018 The preceding article may include information circulated by third parties \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em> \u2018 Some details of this article were extracted from the following source www.yahoo.com \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>NEED TO KNOW Penn Badgley got candid about what it takes to make a sex scene come to life onscreen He detailed the reality of filming an intimate scene in a new first-person essay, where he recalled, in detail, the process of filming a scene for You season 3 For the scene, he recalled he [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":2050108,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_social_meta":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[25172],"tags":[363514,380522,366671,380523],"class_list":["post-2050107","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-entertainment","tag-intimate-scene","tag-joe-goldberg","tag-penn-badgley","tag-sex-scene"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/I-Look-in-Camera-and-I-Hump-My-Ass-Off.jpeg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2050107","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2050107"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2050107\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2050108"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2050107"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2050107"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2050107"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}