{"id":2065950,"date":"2025-10-03T05:40:00","date_gmt":"2025-10-03T05:40:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/?p=2065950"},"modified":"2025-10-03T05:40:00","modified_gmt":"2025-10-03T05:40:00","slug":"no-ruin-the-friendship-is-not-about-who-you-thought-it-was","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/no-ruin-the-friendship-is-not-about-who-you-thought-it-was\/","title":{"rendered":"No, \u201cRuin the Friendship\u201d Is Not About Who You Thought it Was"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div data-article-body=\"true\">\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\"><i>&#8220;Hearst Magazines and Yahoo may earn commission or revenue on some items through these links.&#8221;<\/i><\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">When <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/go.redirectingat.com?id=74968X1596630&amp;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.harpersbazaar.com%2Fcelebrity%2Flatest%2Fa68056288%2Ftaylor-swift-blonds-gemstone-corset-life-of-a-showgirl-costume%2F&amp;sref=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.harpersbazaar.com%2Fcelebrity%2Flatest%2Fa68380217%2Ftaylor-swift-ruin-the-friendship-lyrics-explained%2F\" data-i13n=\"elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized\" rel=\"sponsored\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Taylor Swift;elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Taylor Swift<\/a> released the track list for <em><a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/go.redirectingat.com?id=74968X1596630&amp;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.harpersbazaar.com%2Fculture%2Fart-books-music%2Fa65746336%2Ftaylor-swift-the-life-of-a-showgirl-album-cover-artwork-reaction%2F&amp;sref=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.harpersbazaar.com%2Fcelebrity%2Flatest%2Fa68380217%2Ftaylor-swift-ruin-the-friendship-lyrics-explained%2F\" data-i13n=\"elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized\" rel=\"sponsored\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:The Life of a Showgirl;elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">The Life of a Showgirl<\/a><\/em>, there was one song that caught everyone\u2019s attention. Instantly, rumors started circling the internet about who <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/go.redirectingat.com?id=74968X1596630&amp;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.harpersbazaar.com%2Fcelebrity%2Flatest%2Fa65791462%2Fis-taylor-swift-song-ruin-the-friendship-about-blake-lively-feud-explained%2F&amp;sref=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.harpersbazaar.com%2Fcelebrity%2Flatest%2Fa68380217%2Ftaylor-swift-ruin-the-friendship-lyrics-explained%2F\" data-i13n=\"elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized\" rel=\"sponsored\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:\u201cRuin the Friendship\u201d;elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">\u201cRuin the Friendship\u201d<\/a> could be about, whether she&#8217;d be referencing <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/go.redirectingat.com?id=74968X1596630&amp;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.harpersbazaar.com%2Fcelebrity%2Flatest%2Fa35508809%2Fblake-lively-ryan-reynolds-trolling-valentines-day-2021%2F&amp;sref=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.harpersbazaar.com%2Fcelebrity%2Flatest%2Fa68380217%2Ftaylor-swift-ruin-the-friendship-lyrics-explained%2F\" data-i13n=\"elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized\" rel=\"sponsored\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Blake Lively;elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Blake Lively<\/a>, who had recently pulled Swift into her legal troubles, or calling back to <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/go.redirectingat.com?id=74968X1596630&amp;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.harpersbazaar.com%2Fcelebrity%2Flatest%2Fa46932168%2Fkaty-perry-taylor-swift-bad-blood-sydney-show-reaction%2F&amp;sref=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.harpersbazaar.com%2Fcelebrity%2Flatest%2Fa68380217%2Ftaylor-swift-ruin-the-friendship-lyrics-explained%2F\" data-i13n=\"elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized\" rel=\"sponsored\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:\u201cBad Blood\u201d;elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">\u201cBad Blood\u201d<\/a> and <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/go.redirectingat.com?id=74968X1596630&amp;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.harpersbazaar.com%2Fcelebrity%2Flatest%2Fa10007381%2Fkaty-perry-apologizes-to-taylor-swift%2F&amp;sref=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.harpersbazaar.com%2Fcelebrity%2Flatest%2Fa68380217%2Ftaylor-swift-ruin-the-friendship-lyrics-explained%2F\" data-i13n=\"elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized\" rel=\"sponsored\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Katy Perry;elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Katy Perry<\/a>. Or was it a response to <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/go.redirectingat.com?id=74968X1596630&amp;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.harpersbazaar.com%2Fcelebrity%2Flatest%2Fa66089316%2Fcharli-xcx-danielle-frankel-bride-second-wedding-george-daniel%2F&amp;sref=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.harpersbazaar.com%2Fcelebrity%2Flatest%2Fa68380217%2Ftaylor-swift-ruin-the-friendship-lyrics-explained%2F\" data-i13n=\"elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized\" rel=\"sponsored\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Charli XCX;elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Charli XCX<\/a>\u2019s \u201cSympathy Is a Knife\u201d? But while the star did send a message to XCX on the album, it wasn\u2019t on this track.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">With nods to the radio hits of her high school prom (50 Cent), the Nashville roads she\u2019d drive, and her lifelong friend Abigail (of <em>Fearless<\/em>\u2019 \u201cFifteen\u201d fame), she recalled all the times she almost kissed a friend\u2014but didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cGlistening grass from September rain \/ Gray overpass full of neon names \/ You drive, 85 \/ Gallatin Road and the lakeside beach \/ Watching the game from your brother\u2019s Jeep \/ Your smile, miles wide \/ And it was not an invitation \/ Should\u2019ve kissed you anyway \/ Should\u2019ve kissed you anyway \/ And it was not convenient, no \/ But your girlfriend was away \/ Should\u2019ve kissed you anyway.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">In the bridge, what started as a sweet will-they-won\u2019t-they tale took a heartbreaking turn as Swift jumped forward in time: \u201cWhen I left school, I lost track of you \/ Abigail called me with the bad news \/ Goodbye.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cIt was not an invitation \/ But I flew home anyway \/ With so much left to say \/ It was not convenient, no \/ But I whispered at the grave \/ \u2018Should\u2019ve kissed you anyway.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">At the end, Swift skipped ahead once more, speaking in the present tense. \u201cMy advice is always ruin the friendship \/ Better that than regret it for all time,\u201d she sang. \u201cAlways answer the question \/ Better that than to ask it all your life.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\"><strong>You Might Also Like<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><em> \u2018 The preceding article may include information circulated by third parties \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em> \u2018 Some details of this article were extracted from the following source www.yahoo.com \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Hearst Magazines and Yahoo may earn commission or revenue on some items through these links.&#8221; When Taylor Swift released the track list for The Life of a Showgirl, there was one song that caught everyone\u2019s attention. Instantly, rumors started circling the internet about who \u201cRuin the Friendship\u201d could be about, whether she&#8217;d be referencing Blake [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":2065951,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_social_meta":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[25172],"tags":[25078,315982,23084],"class_list":["post-2065950","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-entertainment","tag-blake-lively","tag-getty-images","tag-taylor-swift"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/No-Ruin-the-Friendship-Is-Not-About-Who-You-Thought.jpeg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2065950","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2065950"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2065950\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2065952,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2065950\/revisions\/2065952"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2065951"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2065950"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2065950"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2065950"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}