{"id":2100517,"date":"2025-10-18T19:38:17","date_gmt":"2025-10-18T19:38:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/?p=2100517"},"modified":"2025-10-18T19:38:17","modified_gmt":"2025-10-18T19:38:17","slug":"my-friend-annabel-goldsmith-had-an-electric-aura-that-captivated-royals-and-rock-stars","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/my-friend-annabel-goldsmith-had-an-electric-aura-that-captivated-royals-and-rock-stars\/","title":{"rendered":"My friend Annabel Goldsmith had an electric aura that captivated royals and rock stars"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div data-article-body=\"true\">\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">I was sitting next to my old friend Annabel Goldsmith last month at <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/fashion\/events\/zac-goldsmith-hum-fleming-wedding\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Hum Fleming and Zac Goldsmith\u2019s wedding;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">Hum Fleming and Zac Goldsmith\u2019s wedding<\/a>. I was suddenly very close to her, and I realised an extraordinary thing (when you\u2019re near to somebody, you see something in them that you don\u2019t see from a distance). Annabel looked like a painting, both in her colours and the shape of her features; from the line of her eyes, to her nose and her cheeks. It was a look not of beauty but of exquisiteness. There was something in her that radiated.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">After the wedding, I wrote to her about it and she said, \u201cThank you so much\u201d. Then I found a passage of Tennyson about how people who are close up have a much more interesting effect on one, which I told her about. She replied to me: \u201cHe\u2019s my favourite author, I read him every night in bed\u201d. And so her last words to me, after nearly seven decades of conversations about less lofty matters, were about Tennyson.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"relative mb-4\">\n<div class=\"relative\"><button aria-label=\"View larger image\" class=\"group absolute bottom-3 right-3 size-10 md:size-[50px] lg:inset-0 lg:size-full lg:bg-transparent\" data-ylk=\"elm:expand;itc:1;sec:image-lightbox;slk:lightbox-open;\"><span class=\"absolute bottom-0 right-0 rounded-full bg-white p-3 opacity-100 shadow-elevation-3 transition-opacity duration-300 group-hover:block group-hover:opacity-100 md:p-[17px] lg:bottom-6 lg:right-6 lg:bg-white\/90 lg:p-5 lg:opacity-0 lg:shadow-none\"><svg viewbox=\"0 0 22 22\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"size-4 lg:size-6\" width=\"22\" height=\"22\"><path d=\"M12.372.92c0-.506.41-.916.915-.916L21 0l-.004 7.712a.917.917 0 0 1-1.832 0V3.183l-6.827 6.828-1.349-1.348 6.828-6.828h-4.529a.915.915 0 0 1-.915-.915M1.835 17.816l6.828-6.828 1.349 1.349-6.829 6.827h4.529a.915.915 0 0 1 0 1.831L0 21l.004-7.713a.916.916 0 0 1 1.831 0z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/button><dialog aria-label=\"Modal Dialog\" aria-modal=\"true\" class=\"fixed inset-0 z-4 size-full max-h-none max-w-none bg-white hidden\"\/><\/div><figcaption class=\"relative text-sm mt-1 pr-2.5\">\n<p>Jemima Goldsmith with her mother, Lady Annabel, at the wedding of Zac Goldsmith and Hum Fleming; September 2025 &#8211; James Whatling\/Kelvin Bruce<\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">I first met Annabel just after I\u2019d left <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/news\/2024\/12\/15\/eton-college-to-cut-number-of-free-and-assisted-places-amid\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Eton;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">Eton<\/a> in 1957, when I was seventeen. I went to a party in Pimlico for Nicolette Harrison, who was marrying Annabel\u2019s brother, Alistair Londonderry. Annabel was sitting on a sofa with a group of other girls, howling with laughter. We were strangers at the time, but she swept me into the fold, saying, \u201cyou\u2019re one of the family\u201d. When she married Mark Birley in 1954, one of my brother\u2019s best friends, I saw her even more.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">I was there on the opening night of Annabel\u2019s night club in 1963. I was there with <em>American Vogue<\/em>, who was photographing the opening, and then I went on to become a member for \u00a35 a year. It was such a new conglomeration of people. Annabel was the nucleus of the original Chelsea set who gave London a great boost after the war in the late Forties and Fifties. At the time, nobody had any idea that the club would be the success it was; it was in a basement which was considered awful. But because of Annabel and Mark\u2019s personalities, it became a lynch pin of a group of friends who then became known as \u201csociety\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">There was the famous Mabel, who looked after incredibly valuable fur coats at the door of the club. She was wonderful, a real mother figure. If someone had torn the hem of your dress, Mabel would sew it up in the cloakroom. Annabel loved Mabel, and knew how to choose the best people to be around her; none of her staff ever wanted to leave because they all adored her.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">I think we realised pretty quickly that Annabel\u2019s was an extraordinary meeting place for a certain group of friends. It was beautifully done, Mark had wonderful taste, and there was delicious food. It also had a tiny dance floor, and Mark used to get all the latest pop songs, with singers like Frankie Avalon and that world of crooners. Every celebrity in the room was crammed onto this dance floor \u2013 and they\u2019d smooch too.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"relative mb-4\">\n<div class=\"relative\"><img alt=\"Lady Annabel and Haslam at a party in Chelsea to celebrate the release of his book Sheer Opulence in 2002\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"898\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/s.yimg.com\/ny\/api\/res\/1.2\/KSe2Bog2F.HasjV03xC9cA--\/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTk2MDtoPTg5ODtjZj13ZWJw\/https:\/\/media.zenfs.com\/en\/the_telegraph_258\/e5e8a170fa6ede762ebcb4cb8b0c47ee\"\/><button aria-label=\"View larger image\" class=\"group absolute bottom-3 right-3 size-10 md:size-[50px] lg:inset-0 lg:size-full lg:bg-transparent\" data-ylk=\"elm:expand;itc:1;sec:image-lightbox;slk:lightbox-open;\"><span class=\"absolute bottom-0 right-0 rounded-full bg-white p-3 opacity-100 shadow-elevation-3 transition-opacity duration-300 group-hover:block group-hover:opacity-100 md:p-[17px] lg:bottom-6 lg:right-6 lg:bg-white\/90 lg:p-5 lg:opacity-0 lg:shadow-none\"><svg viewbox=\"0 0 22 22\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"size-4 lg:size-6\" width=\"22\" height=\"22\"><path d=\"M12.372.92c0-.506.41-.916.915-.916L21 0l-.004 7.712a.917.917 0 0 1-1.832 0V3.183l-6.827 6.828-1.349-1.348 6.828-6.828h-4.529a.915.915 0 0 1-.915-.915M1.835 17.816l6.828-6.828 1.349 1.349-6.829 6.827h4.529a.915.915 0 0 1 0 1.831L0 21l.004-7.713a.916.916 0 0 1 1.831 0z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/button><dialog aria-label=\"Modal Dialog\" aria-modal=\"true\" class=\"fixed inset-0 z-4 size-full max-h-none max-w-none bg-white hidden\"\/><\/div><figcaption class=\"relative text-sm mt-1 pr-2.5\">\n<p>Lady Annabel and Haslam at a party in Chelsea to celebrate the release of his book Sheer Opulence in 2002 &#8211; Alan Davidson\/Shutterstock<\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">At the centre of it all was Annabel, who had this electric aura that raised her above other people, though one didn\u2019t necessarily notice it \u2013 she didn\u2019t deliberately turn it on. At her own parties at Ormeley Lodge, following her marriage to Jimmy Goldsmith, she\u2019d often go upstairs and everyone would say \u201cwhere\u2019s Annabel gone?\u201d and the reply would be \u201cshe\u2019s gone upstairs to rest\u201d. I suppose she had a certain shyness underneath it all too.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Nonetheless, she knew how to convene a smattering of royals, politicians and movie stars. Princess Alexandra of Kent was a neighbour who lived next door, <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/music\/news\/how-mick-jagger-became-rocks-biggest-francophile\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Mick Jagger was there often;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">Mick Jagger was there often<\/a>. They just gravitated naturally towards her aura.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">In the summer of 1979, I went on holiday to <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/travel\/destinations\/europe\/france\/cote-d-azur\/saint-tropez\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:St Tropez;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">St Tropez<\/a> with her family. I\u2019d been given the job of driving a little launcher boat between house and beach. I remember the whole family, Goldsmiths and Birleys, piling into the boat with much hilarity.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">They were all jumping up and down in excitement, when I noticed that the little boat was rapidly sinking beneath the waves, and water was flooding over the sides. \u201cSit down, we\u2019re all going to drown\u201d, I remember shouting in panic. \u201cOh do behave\u201d, Annabel said at the time, and then later screamed with laughter. In years to come, we\u2019d often laugh at the thought of us all drowning in the bay of St Tropez. That was her; she saw the funny side of everything and everyone.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">I remember she used to run these ridiculous dog shows at her house in Richmond with the local neighbours. I had a Pekingese at the time, and she had huge, great bawling whippets.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"relative mb-4\">\n<div class=\"relative\"><img alt=\"British socialite Lady Annabel Goldsmith pictured at Ormely Lodge, in celebration of the book \" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"600\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/s.yimg.com\/ny\/api\/res\/1.2\/FhwO1qjS3b5QFVFZEDOm0w--\/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTk2MDtoPTYwMDtjZj13ZWJw\/https:\/\/media.zenfs.com\/en\/the_telegraph_258\/0b6c21ed6491b08c7d01b5af5acc717a\"\/><button aria-label=\"View larger image\" class=\"group absolute bottom-3 right-3 size-10 md:size-[50px] lg:inset-0 lg:size-full lg:bg-transparent\" data-ylk=\"elm:expand;itc:1;sec:image-lightbox;slk:lightbox-open;\"><span class=\"absolute bottom-0 right-0 rounded-full bg-white p-3 opacity-100 shadow-elevation-3 transition-opacity duration-300 group-hover:block group-hover:opacity-100 md:p-[17px] lg:bottom-6 lg:right-6 lg:bg-white\/90 lg:p-5 lg:opacity-0 lg:shadow-none\"><svg viewbox=\"0 0 22 22\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"size-4 lg:size-6\" width=\"22\" height=\"22\"><path d=\"M12.372.92c0-.506.41-.916.915-.916L21 0l-.004 7.712a.917.917 0 0 1-1.832 0V3.183l-6.827 6.828-1.349-1.348 6.828-6.828h-4.529a.915.915 0 0 1-.915-.915M1.835 17.816l6.828-6.828 1.349 1.349-6.829 6.827h4.529a.915.915 0 0 1 0 1.831L0 21l.004-7.713a.916.916 0 0 1 1.831 0z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/button><dialog aria-label=\"Modal Dialog\" aria-modal=\"true\" class=\"fixed inset-0 z-4 size-full max-h-none max-w-none bg-white hidden\"\/><\/div><figcaption class=\"relative text-sm mt-1 pr-2.5\">\n<p>Lady Annabel would run \u2018these ridiculous dog shows\u2019 from her Richmond home, recalls Haslam &#8211; Camera Press\/Hugh Dickens<\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Annabel could also read people completely. She often did it to me when I was feeling low. Almost without knowing, she would ring up and make some date or say something that would bring happiness. She instinctively knew when people were going through a bad time.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">As a mother figure, she was never cloying, but was interested in making one better. Some might have found a matriarchal figure like her overpowering, but all her children and grandchildren adored her from the moment they could first talk. Given the strength of feeling towards her within the family, I wouldn\u2019t be surprised if it is inherited by future great-grandchildren, and even great-great-grandchildren, who won\u2019t even have met her.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"relative mb-4\">\n<div class=\"relative\"><img alt=\"Lady Annabel outside Annabel's nightclub, in Berkeley Square, in 1988\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"599\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/s.yimg.com\/ny\/api\/res\/1.2\/IKhF7npDuoKI6_pLEWnWIQ--\/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTk2MDtoPTU5OTtjZj13ZWJw\/https:\/\/media.zenfs.com\/en\/the_telegraph_258\/29d4b5a3b62aa47f0ccc67244397b066\"\/><button aria-label=\"View larger image\" class=\"group absolute bottom-3 right-3 size-10 md:size-[50px] lg:inset-0 lg:size-full lg:bg-transparent\" data-ylk=\"elm:expand;itc:1;sec:image-lightbox;slk:lightbox-open;\"><span class=\"absolute bottom-0 right-0 rounded-full bg-white p-3 opacity-100 shadow-elevation-3 transition-opacity duration-300 group-hover:block group-hover:opacity-100 md:p-[17px] lg:bottom-6 lg:right-6 lg:bg-white\/90 lg:p-5 lg:opacity-0 lg:shadow-none\"><svg viewbox=\"0 0 22 22\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"size-4 lg:size-6\" width=\"22\" height=\"22\"><path d=\"M12.372.92c0-.506.41-.916.915-.916L21 0l-.004 7.712a.917.917 0 0 1-1.832 0V3.183l-6.827 6.828-1.349-1.348 6.828-6.828h-4.529a.915.915 0 0 1-.915-.915M1.835 17.816l6.828-6.828 1.349 1.349-6.829 6.827h4.529a.915.915 0 0 1 0 1.831L0 21l.004-7.713a.916.916 0 0 1 1.831 0z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/button><dialog aria-label=\"Modal Dialog\" aria-modal=\"true\" class=\"fixed inset-0 z-4 size-full max-h-none max-w-none bg-white hidden\"\/><\/div><figcaption class=\"relative text-sm mt-1 pr-2.5\">\n<p>Lady Annabel outside Annabel\u2019s nightclub, in Berkeley Square, in 1988 &#8211; Alan Davidson\/Shutterstock<\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The loss of her son Rupert in 1986 had been a terrible blow for her, so she knew what it was like to have pain and suffering. I wrote her a letter about him after his death and she kept it in her bag for the rest of her life.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">When Annabel married Jimmy in 1978, she became notorious in the press. It was pretty wild to run off with Jimmy Goldsmith, and we were all surprised because he lived in France, but we adored Jimmy so were also pleased. When the papers got onto it, and she became a kind of celebrity figure, it didn\u2019t change her at all. Most people pretend they hate publicity but, in fact, Annabel didn\u2019t mind the publicity. It was such a compliment to herself in a way; she had no pretence or hypocrisy about her. <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/news\/2025\/10\/18\/lady-annabel-goldsmith-dies-aged-91\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:With her death, British society is losing someone with immense originality;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">With her death, British society is losing someone with immense originality<\/a>. There are not many people left who are like that.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\"><em>As told to Natasha Leake<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\"><a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/customer\/subscribe\/01doysa\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Broaden your horizons with award-winning British journalism. Try The Telegraph free for 1 month with unlimited access to our award-winning website, exclusive app, money-saving offers and more.;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \"><b>Broaden your horizons with award-winning British journalism. Try The Telegraph free for 1 month with unlimited access to our award-winning website, exclusive app, money-saving offers and more.<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><em> \u2018 The preceding article may include information circulated by third parties \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em> \u2018 Some details of this article were extracted from the following source www.yahoo.com \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was sitting next to my old friend Annabel Goldsmith last month at Hum Fleming and Zac Goldsmith\u2019s wedding. I was suddenly very close to her, and I realised an extraordinary thing (when you\u2019re near to somebody, you see something in them that you don\u2019t see from a distance). Annabel looked like a painting, both [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":2100518,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_social_meta":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[25177],"tags":[48808,397066,397070,397065,397069,397067,397068],"class_list":["post-2100517","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-celebrities","tag-chelsea","tag-jemima-goldsmith","tag-lady-annabel","tag-lady-annabel-goldsmith","tag-mark-birley","tag-nicky-haslam","tag-zac-goldsmith"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/My-friend-Annabel-Goldsmith-had-an-electric-aura-that-captivated.jpeg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2100517","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2100517"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2100517\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2100519,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2100517\/revisions\/2100519"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2100518"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2100517"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2100517"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2100517"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}