Tom Cruise<\/a><\/strong> had \u201chigh hopes\u201d that Ana de Armas<\/a><\/strong> might be wife No. 4<\/a> \u2014 and now he\u2019s \u201chumiliated\u201d by their split, a source tells the National Enquirer<\/em>.<\/p>\n \u201cHe\u2019s upset that it\u2019s all fallen apart and he\u2019s having to face his big fear that he\u2019s somehow undatable,\u201d a source says of the A-lister, 63.<\/p>\n He had the Ballerina<\/em> actress, 37, at hello. \u201cShe got swept up in the excitement of dating a huge movie star,\u201d the source acknowledges of their whirlwind romance<\/a> after they were first linked in February.<\/p>\n \u201cBut Tom\u2019s need to be in control can be overwhelming, and eventually Ana started to feel suffocated<\/a>,\u201d adds the source.<\/p>\n Just as the Mission: Impossible<\/em> star was gearing up to announce their engagement<\/a>, \u201cshe asked for space,\u201d says the source. \u201cTom took it hard and things kind of snowballed from there.\u201d<\/p>\n From Cruise\u2019s perspective, \u201cAna suddenly went from red hot to ice cold,\u201d explains the source, noting that she certainly got a lot of press during their relationship.<\/p>\n \u201cTom\u2019s saying he feels used,\u201d says the source, and now that she\u2019s complaining to friends about his micromanaging, \u201cit\u2019s shaping up to be a messy split.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/staging.nationalenquirer.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Tom-Ana-Triangle-TID_EXCLUSIVE__TOM_1278081.JPG_master-e1756820926248.jpg\")