{"id":2115119,"date":"2025-10-25T16:35:10","date_gmt":"2025-10-25T16:35:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/?p=2115119"},"modified":"2025-10-25T16:35:10","modified_gmt":"2025-10-25T16:35:10","slug":"behind-the-scenes-on-our-favourite-reality-tv-shows","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/behind-the-scenes-on-our-favourite-reality-tv-shows\/","title":{"rendered":"Behind the scenes on our favourite reality TV shows"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div id=\"article-body\">\n<p id=\"f392d93e-179d-4d5d-8880-5cc2c224e529\">From <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.womanandhome.com\/life\/news-entertainment\/how-to-watch-married-at-first-sight-uk-anywhere\/\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/www.womanandhome.com\/life\/news-entertainment\/how-to-watch-married-at-first-sight-uk-anywhere\"><em>Married at First Sight<\/em><\/a> to <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.womanandhome.com\/homes\/homes-news\/great-british-bake-off-appliances-and-baking-tools\/\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/www.womanandhome.com\/homes\/homes-news\/great-british-bake-off-appliances-and-baking-tools\"><em>The Great British Bake Off<\/em><\/a>, reality TV dominates prime time. Whether we\u2019re watching ordinary folk catapulted into the media spotlight or celebs on impossible adventures, it\u2019s keeping millions of us glued to our screens.<\/p>\n<p>But what really happens off camera? And do they ever get fed up of the hosts asking them questions and being silly just as they&#8217;re perfecting their showstoppers? We spoke to Natalie Sims Rees from <em>The Great Pottery Throw Down <\/em>2025 and Janey Smith from <em>My Mum, Your Dad <\/em>season 1 to get the inside scoop.<\/p>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" id=\"elk-have-your-say\" class=\"paywall\" aria-hidden=\"true\" href=\"\" data-url=\"\" target=\"_blank\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-hl-processed=\"none\"\/><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"article-body__section\" id=\"section-have-your-say\"><span>Have your say<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" id=\"elk-seasonal\" class=\"paywall\" aria-hidden=\"true\" href=\"\" data-url=\"\" target=\"_blank\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-hl-processed=\"none\"\/><\/p>\n<aside data-block-type=\"embed\" data-render-type=\"fte\" data-skip=\"dealsy\" data-widget-type=\"seasonal\" class=\"hawk-root\"\/>\n<p id=\"51fec39c-5143-404b-b2e7-ce33726ea25d-0\">Whether it&#8217;s a guilty pleasure or a window into <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.womanandhome.com\/life\/joy-of-learning-later\/\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/www.womanandhome.com\/life\/joy-of-learning-later\">learning a new skill<\/a>, we&#8217;d love to know what you enjoy watching. Let us know in the poll below, and\/or in the comments section at the bottom of this page!<\/p>\n<aside data-component-name=\"Recirculation:ArticleRiver\" data-recirculation-type=\"inline\" data-mrf-recirculation=\"Trending Bar\" data-nosnippet=\"\" class=\"pt-3 pb-4 mb-4 border-b border-solid border-[#333]\">\n<span class=\"&#10;after:content-[''] after:flex-1 after:ml-4 after:my-[0.7rem] after:border-t-[#333] after:border-t after:border-solid&#10;before:content-[''] before:flex-1 before:mr-4 before:my-[0.7rem] before:border-t-[#333] before:border-t before:border-solid&#10;font-article-heading pb-3 !text-base font-bold uppercase sm:text-sm text-[#333] flex\"><br \/>\nYou may like<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<\/aside>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" id=\"elk-behind-the-scenes-of-throw-down\" class=\"paywall\" aria-hidden=\"true\" href=\"\" data-url=\"\" target=\"_blank\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-hl-processed=\"none\"\/><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"article-body__section\" id=\"section-behind-the-scenes-of-throw-down\"><span>Behind the scenes of Throw Down<\/span><\/h3>\n<figure class=\"van-image-figure \" data-bordeaux-image-check=\"\" id=\"f8e8fbd9-17cb-431c-9585-3cdfb539c941\">\n<div class=\"image-full-width-wrapper\">\n<div class=\"image-widthsetter\" style=\"max-width:1727px;\">\n<p class=\"vanilla-image-block\" style=\"padding-top:80.25%;\"> <picture data-new-v2-image=\"true\"><source type=\"image\/webp\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-2bpavWvUvTYB4E63z8VNE9-1727-80.jpg.webp 1920w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-2bpavWvUvTYB4E63z8VNE9-1600-80.jpg.webp 1600w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-2bpavWvUvTYB4E63z8VNE9-1280-80.jpg.webp 1280w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-2bpavWvUvTYB4E63z8VNE9-1024-80.jpg.webp 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-2bpavWvUvTYB4E63z8VNE9-768-80.jpg.webp 768w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-2bpavWvUvTYB4E63z8VNE9-415-80.jpg.webp 415w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-2bpavWvUvTYB4E63z8VNE9-360-80.jpg.webp 360w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-2bpavWvUvTYB4E63z8VNE9-320-80.jpg.webp 320w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 710px) 670px, calc(100vw - 30px)\"\/>\n<\/picture><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"\">\n<div class=\"caption-text\">\n<p><em>Natalie in action on The Great Pottery Throw Down<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/figcaption><p>(Image credit: The Great Pottery Throwdown\/Channel 4)<\/p>\n<\/figure>\n<p id=\"a2cb6020-60b8-45e2-a7d0-5aaf0548d2b6\"><a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/nataliesimsrees\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/nataliesimsrees\/\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-hl-processed=\"none\">Natalie Sims Rees<\/a>, 42, from Derby, is a former professional dancer, who reached the final of C4\u2019s <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.channel4.com\/programmes\/the-great-pottery-throw-down\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.channel4.com\/programmes\/the-great-pottery-throw-down\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-hl-processed=\"none\"><em>The Great Pottery Throw Down<\/em><\/a> series 8 this year. She lives with her wife Sarah and daughter Albie, six.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I\u2019ve always loved pottery, and I\u2019m a big fan of <em>The Great Pottery Throw Down<\/em>, so in 2020 my brother suggested I apply. I didn\u2019t make the cut, but I didn\u2019t give up, and was finally accepted this year on my fourth attempt,&#8221; says Natalie.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;After numerous phone and Zoom interviews followed by a day in London showing my skills, I vividly remember getting the call I wanted as I got into my car after work. I couldn\u2019t drive for 10 minutes \u2013 I was so excited!<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Some people worked throughout filming, but I took two months of unpaid leave from my job as a swimming instructor. It took six days to make each episode.<\/p>\n<div id=\"slice-container-newsletterForm-articleInbodyContent-m6vvUHD3xsLVmM333xRrbW\" class=\"slice-container newsletter-inbodyContent-slice newsletterForm-articleInbodyContent-m6vvUHD3xsLVmM333xRrbW slice-container-newsletterForm\">\n<div data-hydrate=\"true\" class=\"newsletter-form__wrapper newsletter-form__wrapper--inbodyContent\">\n<div class=\"newsletter-form__container\">\n<section class=\"newsletter-form__top-bar\"\/>\n<section class=\"newsletter-form__main-section\">\n<p class=\"newsletter-form__strapline\">Sign up to our free daily email for the latest royal and entertainment news, interesting opinion, expert advice on styling and beauty trends, and no-nonsense guides to the health and wellness questions you want answered.<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&#8220;The \u2018main makes\u2019 take a day, then we\u2019d head home for three days while our creations were dried and bisque-fired before returning for the week\u2019s surprise challenge and judging. It\u2019s amazing how the producers edit days of footage into a brilliant hour-long show.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The only downside is having to wear the same outfit throughout filming each episode for continuity reasons!<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I\u2019m lucky that I live 40 minutes from the shoot location at Gladstone Pottery in Stoke, as some people had to travel for nine hours! During filming, we stayed in a nearby hotel.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My wife and I had to tell our daughter Albie that I had a \u2018pottery job\u2019 going on to explain my frequent absences, as we didn\u2019t want her spilling the beans at school that I was on the show.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It was quite a juggle but I made lifelong friendships with the other potters and we\u2019re all still in touch.&#8221;<\/p>\n<figure class=\"van-image-figure inline-layout \" data-bordeaux-image-check=\"\" id=\"2c3961b3-750d-4faa-8ebf-559444302c96\">\n<div class=\"image-full-width-wrapper\">\n<div class=\"image-widthsetter\" style=\"max-width:1920px;\">\n<p class=\"vanilla-image-block\" style=\"padding-top:56.30%;\"> <picture data-new-v2-image=\"true\"><source type=\"image\/webp\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/FrfCpQj4DmFtcDUdsfMNd8-1920-80.jpg.webp 1920w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/FrfCpQj4DmFtcDUdsfMNd8-1600-80.jpg.webp 1600w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/FrfCpQj4DmFtcDUdsfMNd8-1280-80.jpg.webp 1280w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/FrfCpQj4DmFtcDUdsfMNd8-1024-80.jpg.webp 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/FrfCpQj4DmFtcDUdsfMNd8-768-80.jpg.webp 768w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/FrfCpQj4DmFtcDUdsfMNd8-415-80.jpg.webp 415w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/FrfCpQj4DmFtcDUdsfMNd8-360-80.jpg.webp 360w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/FrfCpQj4DmFtcDUdsfMNd8-320-80.jpg.webp 320w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 710px) 670px, calc(100vw - 30px)\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/FrfCpQj4DmFtcDUdsfMNd8.jpg\" alt=\"Contestants on series 8 of The Great Pottery Throw Down sit in the studio\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/FrfCpQj4DmFtcDUdsfMNd8-1920-80.jpg 1920w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/FrfCpQj4DmFtcDUdsfMNd8-1600-80.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/FrfCpQj4DmFtcDUdsfMNd8-1280-80.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/FrfCpQj4DmFtcDUdsfMNd8-1024-80.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/FrfCpQj4DmFtcDUdsfMNd8-768-80.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/FrfCpQj4DmFtcDUdsfMNd8-415-80.jpg 415w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/FrfCpQj4DmFtcDUdsfMNd8-360-80.jpg 360w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/FrfCpQj4DmFtcDUdsfMNd8-320-80.jpg 320w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 710px) 670px, calc(100vw - 30px)\" loading=\"lazy\" data-new-v2-image=\"true\" data-original-mos=\"https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/FrfCpQj4DmFtcDUdsfMNd8.jpg\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/FrfCpQj4DmFtcDUdsfMNd8.jpg\"\/>\n<\/picture><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>(Image credit: The Great Pottery Throwdown\/Channel 4)<\/p>\n<\/figure>\n<p id=\"b5e8f8e0-3b3a-4864-acf9-ae676b3fb2cf\">&#8220;It all looks calm and serene on TV, but the reality involves eight cameras, 12 potters, around 12 people off-screen plus the two lovely judges and host Siobh\u00e1n McSweeney, all crammed into one small room.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You learn quickly how to not bash into a camera or get into the wrong shot. We didn\u2019t get to hang out much with the judges, but their input was always so helpful.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Having been used to working alone in my garage pottery studio at home, initially I found the chaos and noise on-set off-putting. But I soon became accustomed to cameras zooming in on my hands or the judges popping by for a chat.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;However, the noises and faces I made came as a shock at my mini launch party at home with friends and family!<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The wonderful <em>Throw Down<\/em> experience helped to get back a bit of the Natalie I was before I became a mum.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I\u2019d love to make pottery my full-time career. As a first step, I\u2019ve cut back my hours at the swimming pool and have rented a proper studio.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My mantra in life is \u2018if you don\u2019t try, you\u2019ll never know\u2019, and I\u2019m so glad I gave it my all and may be able to build a future in pottery, thanks to the <em>Throw Down<\/em>.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" id=\"elk-behind-the-scenes-of-my-mum-your-dad\" class=\"paywall\" aria-hidden=\"true\" href=\"\" data-url=\"\" target=\"_blank\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-hl-processed=\"none\"\/><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"article-body__section\" id=\"section-behind-the-scenes-of-my-mum-your-dad\"><span>Behind the scenes of My Mum, Your Dad<\/span><\/h3>\n<figure class=\"van-image-figure \" data-bordeaux-image-check=\"\" id=\"2baca461-6d10-4119-890e-522926e69e58\">\n<div class=\"image-full-width-wrapper\">\n<div class=\"image-widthsetter\" style=\"max-width:942px;\">\n<p class=\"vanilla-image-block\" style=\"padding-top:56.26%;\"> <picture data-new-v2-image=\"true\"><source type=\"image\/webp\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/v2\/t:32,l:0,cw:942,ch:530,q:80,w:942\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-WZcoMyRgJ3YgJxHcCoXmWA.jpg.webp 1920w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/v2\/t:32,l:0,cw:942,ch:530,q:80,w:942\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-WZcoMyRgJ3YgJxHcCoXmWA.jpg.webp 1600w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/v2\/t:32,l:0,cw:942,ch:530,q:80,w:942\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-WZcoMyRgJ3YgJxHcCoXmWA.jpg.webp 1280w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/v2\/t:32,l:0,cw:942,ch:530,q:80,w:942\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-WZcoMyRgJ3YgJxHcCoXmWA.jpg.webp 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/v2\/t:32,l:0,cw:942,ch:530,q:80,w:768\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-WZcoMyRgJ3YgJxHcCoXmWA.jpg.webp 768w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/v2\/t:32,l:0,cw:942,ch:530,q:80,w:415\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-WZcoMyRgJ3YgJxHcCoXmWA.jpg.webp 415w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/v2\/t:32,l:0,cw:942,ch:530,q:80,w:360\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-WZcoMyRgJ3YgJxHcCoXmWA.jpg.webp 360w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/v2\/t:32,l:0,cw:942,ch:530,q:80,w:320\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-WZcoMyRgJ3YgJxHcCoXmWA.jpg.webp 320w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 710px) 670px, calc(100vw - 30px)\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/v2\/t:32,l:0,cw:942,ch:530,q:80\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-WZcoMyRgJ3YgJxHcCoXmWA.jpg\" alt=\"Davina McCall, Roger Hawes and Janey Smith from My Mum, Your Dad\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/v2\/t:32,l:0,cw:942,ch:530,q:80,w:942\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-WZcoMyRgJ3YgJxHcCoXmWA.jpg 1920w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/v2\/t:32,l:0,cw:942,ch:530,q:80,w:942\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-WZcoMyRgJ3YgJxHcCoXmWA.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/v2\/t:32,l:0,cw:942,ch:530,q:80,w:942\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-WZcoMyRgJ3YgJxHcCoXmWA.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/v2\/t:32,l:0,cw:942,ch:530,q:80,w:942\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-WZcoMyRgJ3YgJxHcCoXmWA.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/v2\/t:32,l:0,cw:942,ch:530,q:80,w:768\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-WZcoMyRgJ3YgJxHcCoXmWA.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/v2\/t:32,l:0,cw:942,ch:530,q:80,w:415\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-WZcoMyRgJ3YgJxHcCoXmWA.jpg 415w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/v2\/t:32,l:0,cw:942,ch:530,q:80,w:360\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-WZcoMyRgJ3YgJxHcCoXmWA.jpg 360w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/v2\/t:32,l:0,cw:942,ch:530,q:80,w:320\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-WZcoMyRgJ3YgJxHcCoXmWA.jpg 320w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 710px) 670px, calc(100vw - 30px)\" loading=\"lazy\" data-new-v2-image=\"true\" data-original-mos=\"https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/v2\/t:32,l:0,cw:942,ch:530,q:80\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-WZcoMyRgJ3YgJxHcCoXmWA.jpg\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/v2\/t:32,l:0,cw:942,ch:530,q:80\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-WZcoMyRgJ3YgJxHcCoXmWA.jpg\"\/>\n<\/picture><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"\">\n<div class=\"caption-text\">\n<p>&#8220;Davina had a knack for putting us at ease,&#8221; says Janey, who met her partner Roger through starring in <em>My Mum, Your Dad<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/figcaption><p>(Image credit: Jonathan Hordle\/ITV\/Shutterstock)<\/p>\n<\/figure>\n<p id=\"8cfa8871-ef0a-4a73-9de1-046f6b22f783\">Janey Smith, 49, from West Sussex, appeared on the first series of ITV\u2019s <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.itv.com\/watch\/my-mum-your-dad\/10a3950\/10a3950a0001\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.itv.com\/watch\/my-mum-your-dad\/10a3950\/10a3950a0001\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-hl-processed=\"none\"><em>My Mum, Your Dad<\/em><\/a> in 2023, where she met her partner, Roger Hawes. Her son William, 22, was on the show\u2019s panel of adult children tasked with pairing up their single parents.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It blows me away that Roger and I met on a reality TV show. We\u2019re not glamorous 20-somethings, but I think featuring middle-aged single parents, with various personal issues, made the show unique. It\u2019s wonderful getting kind messages from people on <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/janeybombshell\" target=\"_blank\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/janeybombshell\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-hl-processed=\"none\">my Instagram<\/a> when they realise Roger and I are still so happy together.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I split up with William\u2019s dad when he was only one and hadn\u2019t lived with anyone since, but I was keen to try to find a new partner. William and I filled in the forms for the show together, as we thought it sounded like a great idea.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Initially, William was quite cautious about Roger, as he\u2019d seen me get hurt before, but he proved to be the perfect matchmaker, along with Roger\u2019s daughter Jess.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We thought that the kids were simply going to be involved with a bit of promoting the show and doing the odd podcast about it, so the fact that they had been watching us on cameras and making decisions about setting up dates came as a shock at the end.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It was a bit embarrassing realising they\u2019d shaped our developing relationship \u2013 but we laughed a lot (and cringed a few times!) when we were able to watch it back together.&#8221;<\/p>\n<figure class=\"van-image-figure \" data-bordeaux-image-check=\"\" id=\"2c93438f-b147-42c1-baec-7ee9c5b9bf93\">\n<div class=\"image-full-width-wrapper\">\n<div class=\"image-widthsetter\" style=\"max-width:1497px;\">\n<p class=\"vanilla-image-block\" style=\"padding-top:98.86%;\"> <picture data-new-v2-image=\"true\"><source type=\"image\/webp\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-X2vc4XXQ8QtgTsb967DQ6c-1497-80.jpg.webp 1920w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-X2vc4XXQ8QtgTsb967DQ6c-1497-80.jpg.webp 1600w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-X2vc4XXQ8QtgTsb967DQ6c-1280-80.jpg.webp 1280w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-X2vc4XXQ8QtgTsb967DQ6c-1024-80.jpg.webp 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-X2vc4XXQ8QtgTsb967DQ6c-768-80.jpg.webp 768w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-X2vc4XXQ8QtgTsb967DQ6c-415-80.jpg.webp 415w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-X2vc4XXQ8QtgTsb967DQ6c-360-80.jpg.webp 360w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-X2vc4XXQ8QtgTsb967DQ6c-320-80.jpg.webp 320w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 710px) 670px, calc(100vw - 30px)\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-X2vc4XXQ8QtgTsb967DQ6c.jpg\" alt=\"Janey and Roger enjoying a romantic picnic\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-X2vc4XXQ8QtgTsb967DQ6c-1497-80.jpg 1920w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-X2vc4XXQ8QtgTsb967DQ6c-1497-80.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-X2vc4XXQ8QtgTsb967DQ6c-1280-80.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-X2vc4XXQ8QtgTsb967DQ6c-1024-80.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-X2vc4XXQ8QtgTsb967DQ6c-768-80.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-X2vc4XXQ8QtgTsb967DQ6c-415-80.jpg 415w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-X2vc4XXQ8QtgTsb967DQ6c-360-80.jpg 360w, https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-X2vc4XXQ8QtgTsb967DQ6c-320-80.jpg 320w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 710px) 670px, calc(100vw - 30px)\" loading=\"lazy\" data-new-v2-image=\"true\" data-original-mos=\"https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-X2vc4XXQ8QtgTsb967DQ6c.jpg\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/reality-tv-what-really-goes-on-behind-the-scenes-X2vc4XXQ8QtgTsb967DQ6c.jpg\"\/>\n<\/picture><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>(Image credit: ITV\/Shutterstock)<\/p>\n<\/figure>\n<p id=\"c7be3000-1448-4440-82ab-59d568509d3f\">&#8220;Having been asked to hold two weeks in May clear, we only found out we\u2019d be appearing two days before filming started. I couldn\u2019t believe it, and felt excited and nervous all at once. There was little chance to glam up or go shopping.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I was glad I\u2019d ordered a few <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.womanandhome.com\/fashion\/date-night-outfits\/\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/www.womanandhome.com\/fashion\/date-night-outfits\/\">date night outfits<\/a> online, as everyone looked so chic when I arrived at the \u2018retreat\u2019 location in Midhurst, fortunately just 20 minutes from my home.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I entered the show on Day Two as a surprise \u2018bombshell\u2019. I shared a big suite with fellow contestants Caroline and Tolullah. There were no cameras in the bedroom, but it had a beautiful <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.womanandhome.com\/tag\/bathroom\/\" data-auto-tag-linker=\"true\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/www.womanandhome.com\/tag\/bathroom\/\">bathroom<\/a> where everything was filmed to catch the gossip.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I showered in a different room without a camera but did have to use the loo in our en suite. There was a huge plant next to the loo so I tried to hide myself behind it, but I don\u2019t think the producers wanted to see that anyway!<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It was tough having no privacy, but after a few days I found my rhythm.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It felt a bit like a holiday \u2013 delicious food, fun activities and no cleaning! I never got used to the show\u2019s presenter Davina McCall walking in, but she had a knack for putting us at ease.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I did occasionally forget the cameras until I\u2019d hear an automated one whizz round to catch a conversation!<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Roger and I felt a connection immediately, but there were also dates set up by the kids, and the producers would sometimes encourage us to talk to specific people. The prosecco was the only thing faked. We were just allowed one glass of alcohol a day, so many toasts involved non-alcoholic fizz.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Roger now spends most of his time at mine but pops back regularly to see his family in Derbyshire. The hardest part was keeping our relationship under wraps, as the show didn\u2019t air until four months after filming. 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