{"id":2131094,"date":"2025-11-02T21:59:18","date_gmt":"2025-11-02T21:59:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/?p=2131094"},"modified":"2025-11-02T21:59:18","modified_gmt":"2025-11-02T21:59:18","slug":"david-harbour-says-getting-famous-later-helped-him-avoid-the-jerk-trap","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/david-harbour-says-getting-famous-later-helped-him-avoid-the-jerk-trap\/","title":{"rendered":"David Harbour Says Getting Famous Later Helped Him Avoid the \u2018Jerk\u2019 Trap"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div data-article-body=\"true\">\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">At 50, <strong><a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/entertainment\/articles\/stranger-things-star-looks-unrecognizable-033215217.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:David Harbour;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\">David Harbour<\/a><\/strong> has no illusions about fame, and that might be exactly why he\u2019s managed to thrive in it. The Stranger Things star recently opened up about hitting it big in his forties, and it gave him the chance to enjoy fame without becoming overwhelmed by it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cI think the traps of youth are so bound up with the idea of self-importance, the traps of fame are so bound up with self-importance,\u201d Harbour told Esquire Spain in an interview originally published in September and later shared by <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.esquire.com\/uk\/culture\/film\/a69163752\/david-harbour-interview\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Esquire\u2019s English edition;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Esquire\u2019s English edition<\/a> on Saturday, November 1. \u201cThe great thing about getting famous when you&#8217;re older is that you know you&#8217;re going to die, so who cares? You get to enjoy it more, I think, instead of try to preserve it or control it or hang on to it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\"><strong>RELATED: <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/entertainment\/tv\/articles\/stranger-things-5-trailer-drops-130000948.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:\u2018Stranger Things 5\u2019 Trailer Teases Grim Endgame for Hawkins Crew;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\">\u2018Stranger Things 5\u2019 Trailer Teases Grim Endgame for Hawkins Crew<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">He continued, \u201cYou take it so seriously, it defines you and you have to chase it. [Whereas] it&#8217;s just like, \u2018Oh, this is a nice little treat.\u2019 We&#8217;ll just ride it and see what it has to offer, but not get lost in its wilds of self-importance.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">With the final season of Stranger Things just weeks away from premiering on Netflix, Harbour couldn\u2019t help but reflect on his time with the younger costars, and how he\u2019s essentially watched them grow up. <strong>Millie Bobby Brown<\/strong> was just 12 years old in the first season, and now she\u2019s married <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/entertainment\/celebrity\/articles\/millie-bobby-brown-jake-bongiovi-165339796.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:and a mom of one;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\">and a mom of one<\/a>. It\u2019s not surprising that the Violent Night star was able to offer up advice over the years.<\/p>\n<div class=\"relative\"><img alt=\"Courtesy of Netflix\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"540\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/s.yimg.com\/ny\/api\/res\/1.2\/M32pf47KdAVhkkHsXuNe4w--\/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTk2MDtoPTU0MDtjZj13ZWJw\/https:\/\/media.zenfs.com\/en\/parade_250\/0d30ce30f265506e05e9bf2eca6fb8ef\"\/><span class=\"absolute bottom-0 right-0 rounded-full bg-white p-3 opacity-100 shadow-elevation-3 transition-opacity duration-300 group-hover:block group-hover:opacity-100 md:p-[17px] lg:bottom-6 lg:right-6 lg:bg-white\/90 lg:p-5 lg:opacity-0 lg:shadow-none\"><\/span><\/div>\n<p>Courtesy of Netflix<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cI would get very worried for them, but as any parent knows, it&#8217;s hopeless and nothing works. You just offer what you can and then watch, and you&#8217;re just there for them if they need you,\u201d Harbour explained. \u201cThat&#8217;s where I discovered my place for them. I&#8217;m always here to help them out, but they&#8217;re on their own path. It&#8217;s a wild path, but they all seem to be doing great.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">As for Harbour\u2019s post-Upside Down plans, he\u2019s sad to leave the world of Hawkins behind, but he also <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/entertainment\/articles\/stranger-things-star-says-hes-174842026.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:realized it\u2019s time;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\">realized it\u2019s time<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\"><strong>RELATED: \u2018<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/entertainment\/tv\/articles\/fans-think-stranger-things-star-140148873.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:Stranger Things\u2019 Fans Think This Star Just Revealed a Huge Spoiler for Season 5;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\">Stranger Things\u2019 Fans Think This Star Just Revealed a Huge Spoiler for Season 5<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cStranger Things is its own thing, it will always be a certain tone,\u201d he added. \u201cI think we&#8217;ve done it for 10 years, it&#8217;s a really good chunk of time, but I think I need to find new ways to tell some stories as we move forward, because the world is moving so fast. I want to be a part of that change.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\"><i>This story was originally reported by <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/parade.com\/news\/david-harbour-fame-esquire-spain-interview\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Parade;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Parade<\/a> on Nov 2, 2025, where it first appeared in the <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/parade.com\/news\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:News;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">News<\/a> section. 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The Stranger Things star recently opened up about hitting it big in his forties, and it gave him the chance to enjoy fame without becoming overwhelmed by it. \u201cI think the traps of youth [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":2131095,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_social_meta":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[25173],"tags":[40867,405374,309707,405373],"class_list":["post-2131094","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-artists","tag-david-harbour","tag-esquire-spain","tag-millie-bobby-brown","tag-self-importance"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/David-Harbour-Says-Getting-Famous-Later-Helped-Him-Avoid-the.jpeg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2131094","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2131094"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2131094\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2131096,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2131094\/revisions\/2131096"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2131095"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2131094"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2131094"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2131094"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}