{"id":2166688,"date":"2025-11-19T15:51:11","date_gmt":"2025-11-19T15:51:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/?p=2166688"},"modified":"2025-11-19T15:51:11","modified_gmt":"2025-11-19T15:51:11","slug":"sequins-day-drinking-and-the-wild-power-of-parasocial-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/sequins-day-drinking-and-the-wild-power-of-parasocial-love\/","title":{"rendered":"sequins, day drinking and the wild power of parasocial love"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div data-article-body=\"true\">\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">It was 8:30 a.m. on the first day of <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:1;pos:1\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/bravocon2025.com\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:BravoCon 2025;elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:1;pos:1;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">BravoCon 2025<\/a> when my flight touched down in Las Vegas, and I was already having FOMO. While the convention devoted to all things Bravo didn\u2019t officially start until Friday, Nov. 14, a lot of my favorite Bravolebs and bloggers had already arrived the night before for an event celebrating the 20th anniversary of <em>The Real Housewives<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The OG franchise in Orange County is one I have been watching from the start, which means I first witnessed <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:2;pos:1\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/vickigunvalson\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Vicki Gunvalson;elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:2;pos:1;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">Vicki Gunvalson<\/a> \u201cwhoop it up\u201d when I was 11 years old. While some might say that\u2019s too young to be watching a group of women up to 30 years my senior navigate friendships, family, fallouts, unfaithful relationships and immense wealth, I knew that the fellow fans I\u2019d be meeting over the weekend would understand.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">By the time I had checked into my hotel, put on my first pre-planned outfit and did enough makeup to fit in with the likes of <em>The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City<\/em>\u2019s <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:3;pos:1\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lisabarlow14\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Lisa Barlow;elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:3;pos:1;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">Lisa Barlow<\/a> (who spends about <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"cpos:4;pos:1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/entertainment\/lisa-barlow-reveals-surprising-reason-021503681.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:$60,000 on glam;cpos:4;pos:1;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\">$60,000 on glam<\/a> a year) it was 10:45 a.m. Panels had begun, Bravo host and executive producer <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:5;pos:1\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/bravoandy\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Andy Cohen;elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:5;pos:1;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">Andy Cohen<\/a> was about to hit the blue carpet and I was speedwalking toward Caesars Forum, where all the magic was happening.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Once I turned the corner, the venue came into full sight and the adrenaline hit. \u201cI found mecca,\u201d I wrote on a photo that I sent to my friends on Snapchat. But I quickly realized that my Bravo fandom was nothing compared to other attendees. Over the next three days, as I moved between the blue carpet and the convention floor, it became clear that BravoCon isn\u2019t just a celebration of television. It\u2019s a masterclass in how parasocial relationships are formed, fed and fervently believed in.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"mb-4 text-xl font-bold md:text-2xl\" data-jump-link-target=\"\" id=\"up-close-and-personal\"><strong>Up close and personal<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The convention floor is the main playground for attendees wearing sequins and shirts with slogans made famous by various Bravolebs (like Sutton Stracke\u2019s <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:6;pos:1\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@bravotv\/video\/7302179417399332138?lang=en\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:\u201cName \u2018em,\u201d;elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:6;pos:1;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">\u201cName \u2018em,\u201d <\/a>from <em>The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills<\/em>). Many were sipping morning cocktails (people were drinking at all hours) and checking out the various activations and shops. Like them, I am a consumer of the network and a lover of the cultural moments and memes that have emerged from it. The only difference is that I have a press pass.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">I bypass the chaos that stretches across multiple rooms, with four stages hosting simultaneous panels, various photo stations that pay homage to different franchises and a shopping section called the Bravo Bazaar, to get to the press room. That\u2019s where the blue carpet is, where Bravolebs are taking interviews.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"relative mb-4\">\n<div class=\"relative\"><button aria-label=\"View larger image\" class=\"group absolute bottom-3 right-3 size-10 md:size-[50px] lg:inset-0 lg:size-full lg:bg-transparent\" data-ylk=\"elm:expand;itc:1;sec:image-lightbox;slk:lightbox-open;\"><span class=\"absolute bottom-0 right-0 rounded-full bg-white p-3 opacity-100 shadow-elevation-3 transition-opacity duration-300 group-hover:block group-hover:opacity-100 md:p-[17px] lg:bottom-6 lg:right-6 lg:bg-white\/90 lg:p-5 lg:opacity-0 lg:shadow-none\"><svg viewbox=\"0 0 22 22\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"size-4 lg:size-6\" width=\"22\" height=\"22\"><path d=\"M12.372.92c0-.506.41-.916.915-.916L21 0l-.004 7.712a.917.917 0 0 1-1.832 0V3.183l-6.827 6.828-1.349-1.348 6.828-6.828h-4.529a.915.915 0 0 1-.915-.915M1.835 17.816l6.828-6.828 1.349 1.349-6.829 6.827h4.529a.915.915 0 0 1 0 1.831L0 21l.004-7.713a.916.916 0 0 1 1.831 0z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/button><dialog aria-label=\"Modal Dialog\" aria-modal=\"true\" class=\"fixed inset-0 z-4 size-full max-h-none max-w-none bg-white hidden\"\/><\/div><figcaption class=\"relative text-sm mt-1 pr-2.5\">\n<p>I chatted with Andy Cohen, Melissa Gorga and Meredith Marks on the blue carpet. (Kerry Justich\/Yahoo News)<\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Cohen is my first chat of the weekend, followed by fan favorites <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:7;pos:1\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/kylerichards18\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Kyle Richards;elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:7;pos:1;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">Kyle Richards<\/a>, <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:8;pos:1\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/teddimellencamp\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Teddi Mellencamp;elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:8;pos:1;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">Teddi Mellencamp<\/a>, <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:9;pos:1\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/melissagorga\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Melissa Gorga;elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:9;pos:1;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">Melissa Gorga<\/a> and <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:10;pos:1\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/caconover\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Craig Conover;elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:10;pos:1;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">Craig Conover<\/a>, among many others. I stand inches from each one and share niceties before and after our brief interviews, which consist of conversations about their wellness tips (like <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:11;pos:1\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/meredithmarks\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Meredith Marks;elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:11;pos:1;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">Meredith Marks<\/a>\u2019s recommendation to eat her branded <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:12;pos:1\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/meredithmarkscaviar.com\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:caviar;elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:12;pos:1;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">caviar<\/a> for breakfast), parenting styles and their own <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"cpos:13;pos:1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/DRK6uTgkb9P\/?hl=en\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:celebrity fans;cpos:13;pos:1;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">celebrity fans<\/a>, including Jon Hamm and Rihanna.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\"><em>The Valley<\/em>\u2019s <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:14;pos:1\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/brittany\/?hl=en\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Brittany Cartwright;elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:14;pos:1;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">Brittany Cartwright<\/a> nearly brings me to tears as she talks about reclaiming her independence after separating from husband Jax Taylor and parenting her son with <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"cpos:15;pos:1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/lifestyle\/brittany-cartwright-reveals-son-cruz-121500595.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:autism;cpos:15;pos:1;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\">autism<\/a>. She\u2019s also wearing slippers, having ditched a pair of uncomfortable shoes, in a moment that reminds me that, caviar and $60K glam aside, sometimes Bravolebs are <em>just like us<\/em>. Never mind that her publicist and makeup artist are hovering nearby.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"mb-4 text-xl font-bold md:text-2xl\" data-jump-link-target=\"\" id=\"parasocial-playing-out\"><strong>Parasocial playing out<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">After hours spent in the media room across the first two days of BravoCon, I think I\u2019ve seen it all \u2014 from Cohen hugging former <em>Real Housewives of Beverly Hills star <\/em>Mellencamp and <em>Below Deck<\/em>\u2019s <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:16;pos:1\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/capt_kerry\/?hl=en\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Captain Kerry Titheradge;elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:16;pos:1;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">Captain Kerry Titheradge<\/a> getting a makeup touchup, to a group of husbands featured in various <em>Housewives<\/em> franchises having casual chats while their wives work the carpet and even a sneaky kiss shared between <em>Below Deck<\/em>\u2019s <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:17;pos:1\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/fraserolender\/?hl=en\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Fraser Olender;elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:17;pos:1;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">Fraser Olender<\/a> and <em>Las Culturistas<\/em> co-host <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:18;pos:1\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/mattrogerstho\/?hl=en\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Matt Rogers;elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:18;pos:1;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">Matt Rogers<\/a> before their <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"cpos:19;pos:1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/entertainment\/celebrity\/articles\/andy-cohen-confirms-matt-rogers-192332978.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:relationship was confirmed;cpos:19;pos:1;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\">relationship was confirmed<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Those intimate moments stand in stark contrast to the mayhem of the fan-dominated main floor. While I had access to <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:20;pos:1\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/teresagiudice\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Teresa Giudice;elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:20;pos:1;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">Teresa Giudice<\/a> and <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:21;pos:1\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/dorindamedley\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Dorinda Medley;elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:21;pos:1;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">Dorinda Medley<\/a> in the press room, fans Ashley, 30, and Zoe, 27, wear these Bravolebs\u2019 images on their shirts. Another set of friends, Andrew and Shannon, take photos with a cutout of the ladies of Salt Lake City to feel like a part of the crew. Meanwhile, countless other attendees are gathered in long lines across the Bazaar to buy a piece of jewelry from<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:22;pos:1\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/DRDGGKHEtZr\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Kathy Hilton\u2019s collection;elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:22;pos:1;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\"> Kathy Hilton\u2019s collection<\/a> with Anna Zuckerman, try a taste of<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:23;pos:1\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/erindanalichy\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Erin Lichy;elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:23;pos:1;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\"> Erin Lichy<\/a>\u2019s<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:24;pos:1\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/mezcalum\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:mezcal;elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:24;pos:1;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\"> mezcal<\/a> brand or snag some merch from <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:25;pos:1\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/imkylecooke\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Kyle Cooke;elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:25;pos:1;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">Kyle Cooke<\/a> and <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:26;pos:1\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/amandabatula\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Amanda Batula;elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:26;pos:1;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">Amanda Batula<\/a>\u2019s <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:27;pos:1\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/drinkloverboy\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Loverboy;elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:27;pos:1;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">Loverboy<\/a>. When someone like <em>Southern Charm<\/em>\u2019s <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:29;pos:1\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/madisonlecroy\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Madison LeCroy;elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:29;pos:1;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">Madison LeCroy<\/a> stops by one of the booths for fan photos, there\u2019s an eruption of cheers and a growing swarm of people.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"relative mb-4\">\n<div class=\"relative\"><img alt=\"Man and woman posting behind a cardboard cutout of the Real Housewives of Salt Lake City cast. (Kerry Justich\/Yahoo News)\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"1000\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/s.yimg.com\/ny\/api\/res\/1.2\/l6i673p5ogAVhBfWcHuJ2w--\/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTk2MDtoPTEwMDA7Y2Y9d2VicA--\/https:\/\/s.yimg.com\/os\/creatr-uploaded-images\/2025-11\/1af1b7b0-c55b-11f0-9bd6-8c7162d6053a\"\/><button aria-label=\"View larger image\" class=\"group absolute bottom-3 right-3 size-10 md:size-[50px] lg:inset-0 lg:size-full lg:bg-transparent\" data-ylk=\"elm:expand;itc:1;sec:image-lightbox;slk:lightbox-open;\"><span class=\"absolute bottom-0 right-0 rounded-full bg-white p-3 opacity-100 shadow-elevation-3 transition-opacity duration-300 group-hover:block group-hover:opacity-100 md:p-[17px] lg:bottom-6 lg:right-6 lg:bg-white\/90 lg:p-5 lg:opacity-0 lg:shadow-none\"><svg viewbox=\"0 0 22 22\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"size-4 lg:size-6\" width=\"22\" height=\"22\"><path d=\"M12.372.92c0-.506.41-.916.915-.916L21 0l-.004 7.712a.917.917 0 0 1-1.832 0V3.183l-6.827 6.828-1.349-1.348 6.828-6.828h-4.529a.915.915 0 0 1-.915-.915M1.835 17.816l6.828-6.828 1.349 1.349-6.829 6.827h4.529a.915.915 0 0 1 0 1.831L0 21l.004-7.713a.916.916 0 0 1 1.831 0z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/button><dialog aria-label=\"Modal Dialog\" aria-modal=\"true\" class=\"fixed inset-0 z-4 size-full max-h-none max-w-none bg-white hidden\"\/><\/div><figcaption class=\"relative text-sm mt-1 pr-2.5\">\n<p>Andrew and Shannon posing with a <em>RHOSLC<\/em> cutout. (Kerry Justich\/Yahoo News)<\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">It\u2019s not that they just want a picture with the stars; they want a chance at meaningful interaction with someone they\u2019ve watched for many years. \u201cWe&#8217;ve seen them develop these businesses from watching all the shows. So actually seeing Madison&#8217;s pajamas in person, actually seeing Kyle and Amanda&#8217;s Loverboy products in person \u2026 is great,\u201d Jordan, a 29-year-old fan who flew in from New Jersey, tells me. To her, just purchasing something from these lines feels like an opportunity to \u201csupport\u201d those individuals, as she would a friend.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Each fan that I speak with has a favorite franchise or a favorite reality star that ignites a similar <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"cpos:30;pos:1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/entertainment\/celebrity\/articles\/parasocial-cambridge-dictionary-word-081300760.html\" data-ylk=\"slk:parasocial;cpos:30;pos:1;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;outcm:mb_qualified_link;_E:mb_qualified_link;ct:story;\" class=\"link  yahoo-link\">parasocial<\/a> passion. They speak about the shows\u2019 storylines as if they\u2019re the life stories of someone they know personally. These Bravolebs have even become people they look to for inspiration or advice.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cI have two little boys at home and I\u2019m expecting a third, so [my husband and I] are on the fence about trying for a girl for our fourth,\u201d one fan, Christy, tells me. She\u2019s just participated in a Q&amp;A to ask <em>The Valley<\/em>\u2019s <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:31;pos:1\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/realniasanchez\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Nia Sanchez;elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:31;pos:1;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">Nia Sanchez<\/a>, a mother of four, for guidance on the decision. \u201cI really look up to Nia as a parent, and I was just curious what it&#8217;s like having four and if it&#8217;s worth making that leap.\u201d It\u2019s a prime example of how these shows have struck a balance between intimacy and entertainment, and how it plays out in this environment.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"mb-4 text-xl font-bold md:text-2xl\" data-jump-link-target=\"\" id=\"cultivating-off-screen-connections\"><strong>Cultivating off-screen connections<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Reflecting on the three days I spent in Caesars Forum, it becomes clear that BravoCon isn\u2019t just a place for fans to get glimpses of the people they <em>feel<\/em> they know, but it\u2019s also where they strengthen the relationships they actually have.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Sure, Christy is a fan of Sanchez, but she really made the trip to Vegas from California to spend time with her friend. \u201cIt\u2019s her birthday and I wouldn\u2019t miss it for the world,\u201d she says. \u201cShe\u2019s a huge Bravo fan. I\u2019m really just in it with the crew.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">And while Andrew tells me that he\u2019d \u201cliterally watch Andy Cohen paint a wall,\u201d he also sees a bigger purpose in Bravo and BravoCon, which has become a foundation of his and Shannon\u2019s long-distance friendship. \u201cOur schedules are so crazy, but every BravoCon is our time to get together,\u201d he says.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"relative mb-4\">\n<div class=\"relative\"><img alt=\"Woman in pink football jersey that says BravoCon 25. 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(Kerry Justich\/Yahoo News)<\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">A trio of women in matching pink football jerseys that read \u201cBravoCon 25\u201d on the front and \u201cBravo Lovin Bitches\u201d on the back also tells me that they\u2019re bonded by their love of the network, and have made multiple girls\u2019 trips out of the convention. I meet a mother-daughter duo making their first trip to BravoCon. They\u2019re longtime fans who regularly watch their favorite shows together. \u201cIt\u2019s great because we know that every Wednesday we\u2019re going to watch <em>Southern Charm<\/em> together,\u201d the daughter, Alexandra, tells me. \u201cIt&#8217;s a great experience to be able to watch it with my mom and talk about what&#8217;s going on. \u2026 It almost brings tears to my eyes.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">As someone with my own Bravo-loving mom and multiple group chats with friends who are fellow Bravo fans, I can relate. I came here thinking the highlight would be the interviews, speaking with my favorite Bravolebs, listening in on panels, even watching back-to-back tapings of <em>Watch What Happens Live<\/em>. But the best part ended up being what I didn\u2019t expect when I rushed off that plane: getting to share the excitement with a community of people who love this world just as much as I do. And yes, having a moment with hottie <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-i13n=\"elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:32;pos:1\" class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/captainjchambers\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Captain Jason;elm:context_link;elmt:doNotAffiliate;cpos:32;pos:1;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\">Captain Jason<\/a> to brag about to my mom \u2014 the same woman I started watching <em>RHOC<\/em> with in the first place.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><script async src=\"\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p><em> \u2018 The preceding article may include information circulated by third parties \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em> \u2018 Some details of this article were extracted from the following source www.yahoo.com \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It was 8:30 a.m. on the first day of BravoCon 2025 when my flight touched down in Las Vegas, and I was already having FOMO. 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