{"id":2171340,"date":"2025-11-21T22:44:21","date_gmt":"2025-11-21T22:44:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/?p=2171340"},"modified":"2025-11-21T22:44:21","modified_gmt":"2025-11-21T22:44:21","slug":"parmalee-get-personal-on-heartbreaking-new-song-how-do-i-let-you-go","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/parmalee-get-personal-on-heartbreaking-new-song-how-do-i-let-you-go\/","title":{"rendered":"Parmalee Get Personal on Heartbreaking New Song, &#8216;How Do I Let You Go&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<p data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading60775_341cc1-a3\">The song captures the pain of grief and the longing for just one more moment with the ones you love. <\/p>\n<div>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/countrynow.com\/tag\/parmalee\">Parmalee<\/a> is opening a new emotional chapter with the release of \u201c<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/parmalee.lnk.to\/howdoiletyougoPR\">How Do I Let You Go<\/a>,\u201d their most vulnerable song to date.<\/p>\n<p>Known for their upbeat, feel-good hits, the group takes a deeply personal turn, drawing from the real-life loss of the fathers of frontman Matt and drummer Scott Thomas, as well as guitarist\/pianist Josh McSwain. The heartfelt tune captures the pain of grief and the longing for just one more moment with the ones who meant everything.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Parmalee; Photo by Nathan Wingate<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Lead singer Matt Thomas spoke openly with Country Now about writing the song and the story behind it earlier this week while backstage at the CMA Awards. He explained that the song came from a deeply personal writing session with Parker Welling and co-producers Casey Brown and David Fanning.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe were talking in the room that day about\u2026one of my co-writers had just, he knew we had went through a lot of death earlier in our life in a period of years. Me and Scott lost our dad, and Josh lost his dad. Scott and I lost our best friend in our early twenties and we all lost several friends together. Suicide. We\u2019ve been through some heavy stuff,\u201d he shared honestly. \u201cAnd we didn\u2019t bring that to Nashville. It just all happened before we got here. So when we got here, we were just writing happy songs and doing fun stuff for the most part.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<div class=\"perfmatters-lazy-youtube\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/rIYcG9z-228\" data-id=\"rIYcG9z-228\" data-query=\"feature=oembed\" onclick=\"perfmattersLazyLoadYouTube(this);\">\n<div><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"YouTube video\" width=\"480\" height=\"360\" data-pin-nopin=\"true\" nopin=\"nopin\" class=\"perfmatters-lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i.ytimg.com\/vi\/rIYcG9z-228\/hqdefault.jpg\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.ytimg.com\/vi\/rIYcG9z-228\/hqdefault.jpg\" alt=\"YouTube video\" width=\"480\" height=\"360\" data-pin-nopin=\"true\" nopin=\"nopin\"\/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><noscript><\/p>\n<div class=\"jeg_video_container jeg_video_content\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Parmalee - How Do I Let You Go (Official Audio)\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/rIYcG9z-228?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p><\/noscript>\n<\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p>Wanting to dig deeper than ever before, Thomas and his co-writers thought about those they\u2019ve lost along the way and what they would say to them now if they could speak to them.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe really, especially having our dads in mind because we played in their bands growing up and they started us in music and they never got to see us have any success. It was always struggle. And so it\u2019s kind of a note to them saying, \u2018Hey, wish you were here. We miss you. We\u2019re okay, but we know you\u2019re looking from the best seat in the house and we love you but damn, I wish you were here,\u2019\u201d he explained.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" alt=\"Parmalee - How Do I Let You Go\" class=\"wp-image-101680 perfmatters-lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/countrynow.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Parmalee-How-Do-I-Let-You-Go-1024x1024.jpg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/countrynow.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Parmalee-How-Do-I-Let-You-Go-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/countrynow.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Parmalee-How-Do-I-Let-You-Go-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/countrynow.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Parmalee-How-Do-I-Let-You-Go-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/countrynow.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Parmalee-How-Do-I-Let-You-Go-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/countrynow.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Parmalee-How-Do-I-Let-You-Go-516x516.jpg 516w, https:\/\/countrynow.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Parmalee-How-Do-I-Let-You-Go.jpg 1200w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/countrynow.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Parmalee-How-Do-I-Let-You-Go-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Parmalee - How Do I Let You Go\" class=\"wp-image-101680\" srcset=\"https:\/\/countrynow.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Parmalee-How-Do-I-Let-You-Go-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/countrynow.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Parmalee-How-Do-I-Let-You-Go-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/countrynow.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Parmalee-How-Do-I-Let-You-Go-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/countrynow.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Parmalee-How-Do-I-Let-You-Go-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/countrynow.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Parmalee-How-Do-I-Let-You-Go-516x516.jpg 516w, https:\/\/countrynow.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Parmalee-How-Do-I-Let-You-Go.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Parmalee \u2013 How Do I Let You Go<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>This comes to life in the chorus, which goes, \u201cYou\u2019re supposed to be here now\/ More than a memory\/ Was it all in my head\/ Feels like a real bad dream\/ I thought I had more time\/ It hurts like hell that I don\u2019t\/ How do I say goodbye\/ How do I let you go.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>This may very well become one of Parmalee\u2019s most important songs, one that resonates with anyone who has ever loved and lost someone they wish they could share just one more day with.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<div class=\"perfmatters-lazy-youtube\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/pBw6vu3uPqQ\" data-id=\"pBw6vu3uPqQ\" data-query=\"feature=oembed\" onclick=\"perfmattersLazyLoadYouTube(this);\">\n<div><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"YouTube video\" width=\"480\" height=\"360\" data-pin-nopin=\"true\" nopin=\"nopin\" class=\"perfmatters-lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i.ytimg.com\/vi\/pBw6vu3uPqQ\/hqdefault.jpg\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.ytimg.com\/vi\/pBw6vu3uPqQ\/hqdefault.jpg\" alt=\"YouTube video\" width=\"480\" height=\"360\" data-pin-nopin=\"true\" nopin=\"nopin\"\/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><noscript><\/p>\n<div class=\"jeg_video_container jeg_video_content\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"@ParmaleeMusic on their Emotional New Single and Climbing The Charts | CMA Awards Backstage\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/pBw6vu3uPqQ?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p><\/noscript>\n<\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p><script type=\"pmdelayedscript\" data-cfasync=\"false\" data-no-optimize=\"1\" data-no-defer=\"1\" data-no-minify=\"1\">\n!function(f,b,e,v,n,t,s)\n{if(f.fbq)return;n=f.fbq=function(){n.callMethod?\nn.callMethod.apply(n,arguments):n.queue.push(arguments)};\nif(!f._fbq)f._fbq=n;n.push=n;n.loaded=!0;n.version='2.0';\nn.queue=[];t=b.createElement(e);t.async=!0;\nt.src=v;s=b.getElementsByTagName(e)[0];\ns.parentNode.insertBefore(t,s)}(window,document,'script',\n'https:\/\/connect.facebook.net\/en_US\/fbevents.js');\nfbq('init', '2335736946692711'); \nfbq('track', 'PageView');\n<\/script><\/p>\n<p><em> \u2018 The preceding article may include information circulated by third parties \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em> \u2018 Some details of this article were extracted from the following source countrynow.com \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The song captures the pain of grief and the longing for just one more moment with the ones you love. 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