{"id":2181581,"date":"2025-11-30T10:05:19","date_gmt":"2025-11-30T10:05:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/?p=2181581"},"modified":"2025-11-30T10:05:19","modified_gmt":"2025-11-30T10:05:19","slug":"throw-perfection-out-the-window-ashley-jensen-wants-a-relaxed-christmas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/throw-perfection-out-the-window-ashley-jensen-wants-a-relaxed-christmas\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;Throw perfection out the window&#8217; &#8211; Ashley Jensen wants a relaxed Christmas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div id=\"article-body\">\n<p id=\"f546b718-23ae-4b5d-9858-ce62bdb13312\">Christmas is fast approaching, and for many women, that means frantically ticking things off an overflowing to-do list, rather than being able to enjoy the moment.<\/p>\n<p>As well as carrying the regular mental load for most of the year, the Christmas mental load can be absolutely crushing &#8211; trees to be decorated, presents to be wrapped, food to be bought and prepared and a Christmas Day that starts and ends with exhaustion.<\/p>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" id=\"elk-seasonal\" data-url=\"\" href=\"\" target=\"_blank\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-hl-processed=\"none\"\/><\/p>\n<aside data-block-type=\"embed\" data-render-type=\"fte\" data-skip=\"dealsy\" data-widget-type=\"seasonal\" class=\"hawk-root\"\/>\n<p id=\"f546b718-23ae-4b5d-9858-ce62bdb13312-2\" class=\"paywall\" aria-hidden=\"true\">However, actress Ashley Jensen believes that when they hit midlife, women start to let go of this idea of yuletide perfection.<\/p>\n<aside data-component-name=\"Recirculation:ArticleRiver\" data-recirculation-type=\"inline\" data-mrf-recirculation=\"Trending Bar\" data-nosnippet=\"\" class=\"pt-3 pb-4 mb-4 border-b border-solid border-[#333]\">\n<span class=\"&#10;after:content-[''] after:flex-1 after:ml-4 after:my-[0.7rem] after:border-t-[#333] after:border-t 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