{"id":2202791,"date":"2025-12-17T15:02:25","date_gmt":"2025-12-17T15:02:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/?p=2202791"},"modified":"2025-12-17T15:02:25","modified_gmt":"2025-12-17T15:02:25","slug":"no-one-emerges-the-victor-here-royal-correspondent-reflects-on-the-deeply-sad-saga-of-meghan-markle-and-her-estranged-father","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/no-one-emerges-the-victor-here-royal-correspondent-reflects-on-the-deeply-sad-saga-of-meghan-markle-and-her-estranged-father\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;No one emerges the victor here&#8217; &#8211; Royal correspondent reflects on the deeply sad saga of Meghan Markle and her estranged father"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div id=\"article-body\">\n<p id=\"54cc3d31-07fa-4670-8792-e374ada43542\">What to say about the extremely sad story of the Duchess of Sussex and her estranged father\u2026<\/p>\n<p>I was in two minds whether to write about this or not because I feel very sorry for both Meghan <em>and<\/em> her father Tom Markle &#8211; and more column inches from me won\u2019t help anything.<\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" id=\"elk-seasonal\" data-url=\"\" href=\"\" target=\"_blank\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-hl-processed=\"none\"\/><\/p>\n<aside data-block-type=\"embed\" data-render-type=\"fte\" data-skip=\"dealsy\" data-widget-type=\"seasonal\" class=\"hawk-root\"\/>\n<p id=\"54cc3d31-07fa-4670-8792-e374ada43542-2\">But then it was reported in the Sunday Times that Meghan had no plans to see her father, who is recovering in hospital from a leg amputation in the Philippines. Moreover, it was briefed she didn\u2019t feel comfortable contacting him via phone because she wasn\u2019t sure any conversation they had would be kept private.<\/p>\n<aside data-component-name=\"Recirculation:ArticleRiver\" data-recirculation-type=\"inline\" data-mrf-recirculation=\"Trending Bar\" data-nosnippet=\"\" class=\"pt-3 pb-4 mb-4 border-b border-solid border-[#333]\">\n<span class=\"&#10;after:content-[''] after:flex-1 after:ml-4 after:my-[0.7rem] after:border-t-[#333] after:border-t after:border-solid&#10;before:content-[''] before:flex-1 before:mr-4 before:my-[0.7rem] before:border-t-[#333] before:border-t before:border-solid&#10;font-article-heading pb-3 !text-base font-bold uppercase sm:text-sm text-[#333] flex custom-thumbnail-list-styles\"><br \/>\nYou may like<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<\/aside>\n<p class=\"paywall\" aria-hidden=\"true\">However, Mr Markle, 81, was handed a letter from the Duchess last week (the contents of which haven\u2019t been made public), after he publicly said he wanted to see his daughter one last time \u2018before I die\u2019. He has never met <a target=\"_blank\" data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.womanandhome.com\/tag\/prince-harry\/\" data-auto-tag-linker=\"true\" data-mrf-recirculation=\"inline-link\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/www.womanandhome.com\/tag\/prince-harry\/\">Prince Harry<\/a>, nor his grandchildren <a target=\"_blank\" data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.womanandhome.com\/tag\/prince-archie-of-sussex\/\" data-auto-tag-linker=\"true\" data-mrf-recirculation=\"inline-link\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/www.womanandhome.com\/tag\/prince-archie-of-sussex\/\">Prince Archie<\/a>, six, and <a target=\"_blank\" data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.womanandhome.com\/tag\/princess-lilibet-of-sussex\/\" data-auto-tag-linker=\"true\" data-mrf-recirculation=\"inline-link\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/www.womanandhome.com\/tag\/princess-lilibet-of-sussex\/\">Princess Lilibet<\/a>, four.<\/p>\n<p>He had two heart attacks just before he was due to fly from the USA to London for the Sussexes\u2019 wedding. I remember breaking the news to Harry\u2019s Communications Secretary that he wasn\u2019t coming. He had no idea.<\/p>\n<p>Meghan then apparently deleted Tom\u2019s phone number and the two hadn\u2019t spoken since &#8211; with the letter being their first communication since 2018.<\/p>\n<p>Meghan and her dad used to be very close. But after he posed for some rather innocuous staged paparazzo shots at his home in Mexico, and then lied about it to Harry and Meghan, the relationship completely deteriorated. Meghan felt he\u2019d been preyed on by the press and completely taken advantage of.<\/p>\n<div id=\"slice-container-newsletterForm-articleInbodyContent-EVEciezhVreHo7zTcdNbRb\" class=\"slice-container newsletter-inbodyContent-slice newsletterForm-articleInbodyContent-EVEciezhVreHo7zTcdNbRb slice-container-newsletterForm\">\n<div data-hydrate=\"true\" class=\"newsletter-form__wrapper newsletter-form__wrapper--inbodyContent\">\n<div class=\"newsletter-form__container\">\n<section class=\"newsletter-form__top-bar\"\/>\n<section class=\"newsletter-form__main-section\">\n<p class=\"newsletter-form__strapline\">Sign up to our free daily email for the latest royal and entertainment news, interesting opinion, expert advice on styling and beauty trends, and no-nonsense guides to the health and wellness questions you want answered.<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>I imagine Thomas felt like he was taking back a bit of control after finding himself in the bizarre situation of suddenly being related to royalty. And not just any royals \u2013 these are the most famous family in the world.<\/p>\n<p>I have to admit, I was slightly taken aback by what might be perceived as the sheer hypocrisy of Meghan\u2019s thoughts though (briefed out to one of my excellent journo pals, the Sunday Times\u2019s Royal editor).<\/p>\n<p>According to the article, the Duchess let it be known that it was her dad\u2019s alleged \u2018collusion with the media\u2019 that has been \u2018a major factor in the breakdown of their relationship\u2019 and a key reason as to why she won\u2019t see him again.<\/p>\n<aside data-component-name=\"Recirculation:ArticleRiver\" data-recirculation-type=\"inline\" data-mrf-recirculation=\"Trending Bar\" data-nosnippet=\"\" class=\"pt-3 pb-4 mb-4 border-b border-solid border-[#333]\">\n<span class=\"&#10;after:content-[''] after:flex-1 after:ml-4 after:my-[0.7rem] after:border-t-[#333] after:border-t after:border-solid&#10;before:content-[''] before:flex-1 before:mr-4 before:my-[0.7rem] before:border-t-[#333] before:border-t before:border-solid&#10;font-article-heading pb-3 !text-base font-bold uppercase sm:text-sm text-[#333] flex custom-thumbnail-list-styles\"><br \/>\nYou may like<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<\/aside>\n<p>So it\u2019s OK for her to let her thoughts be known, but not OK for her father to speak to a publication?<\/p>\n<p>And it\u2019s somehow acceptable for her and Harry to speak to Oprah Winfrey, Netflix, <em>New York<\/em> magazine, <em>Harper&#8217;s Bazaar<\/em>, multiple American TV outlets (and not forgetting Harry\u2019s tell-all autobiography <em>Spare<\/em>!) about their experiences with Harry\u2019s family. But not for her dad to do the same\u2026.<\/p>\n<p>When I was covering Harry and Meghan\u2019s joyful wedding back in May 2018 (and it was joyful &#8211; everyone was so happy!) I did wonder where all Meghan\u2019s family were. Her mum Doria Ragland comes from a large family, but none were invited to St George\u2019s Chapel in Windsor on that glorious spring day.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\" aria-hidden=\"true\">But how different it could have been if Meghan had thrown her arms around both sides of her family &#8211; and not just the celebs like George and Amal Clooney (who hardly knew the Sussexes).<\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\" aria-hidden=\"true\">A courtier told me if Meghan and Harry had brought over her Markle family a couple of weeks before the wedding, put them up in a nice hotel and had them looked after by palace staff, none of this would ever have happened.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\" aria-hidden=\"true\">Instead, poor Tom Markle (who paid to put her through private school and university) is learning how to walk with a prosthetic limb, knowing he will likely never see his daughter again.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\" aria-hidden=\"true\">No one emerges the victor here. Least of all Meghan.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><em> \u2018 The preceding article may include information circulated by third parties \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em> \u2018 Some details of this article were extracted from the following source www.womanandhome.com \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What to say about the extremely sad story of the Duchess of Sussex and her estranged father\u2026 I was in two minds whether to write about this or not because I feel very sorry for both Meghan and her father Tom Markle &#8211; and more column inches from me won\u2019t help anything. 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