{"id":2243786,"date":"2026-01-21T13:34:17","date_gmt":"2026-01-21T13:34:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/?p=2243786"},"modified":"2026-01-21T13:34:17","modified_gmt":"2026-01-21T13:34:17","slug":"kaia-gerber-on-her-book-heavy-childhood-relationships-and-finding-herself-on-stage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/kaia-gerber-on-her-book-heavy-childhood-relationships-and-finding-herself-on-stage\/","title":{"rendered":"Kaia Gerber on Her &#8220;Book Heavy&#8221; Childhood, Relationships, and Finding Herself on Stage"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div data-journey-body=\"longform-article\">\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"0\" class=\"body-dropcap css-1vn2egp emevuu60\">Kaia Gerber is seated in a sunny corner of her Los Angeles home, flanked by bookcases. It\u2019s a rare week off for the 24-year-old model and actor, who is currently in production on Ryan Murphy\u2019s adaptation of <em data-node-id=\"0.1\">The Shards,<\/em> Bret Easton Ellis\u2019s coming-of-age thriller. All she has on her slate for the day, she tells me, is therapy, though she\u2019ll admit later that our conversation \u201cfelt like it satiated a lot of that.\u201d  <\/p>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"1\" class=\"css-6wxqfj emevuu60\">Gerber is almost startlingly forthcoming about her childhood (perhaps a product of said therapy), which she describes as \u201cpretty isolated,\u201d but \u201cin a really great way,\u201d and \u201cas normal as it could have been.\u201d She continues, \u201cI always went to public school. I did theater. I did every community play. I was in choir. I did singing recitals. I danced.\u201d Whenever her family visited New York, Gerber would insist that they attend Broadway shows. \u201cI saw <em data-node-id=\"1.1\">Wicked<\/em> eight times. I had all the lyrics to <em data-node-id=\"1.3\">Rent<\/em> memorized by the time I was nine years old.\u201d <\/p>\n<section data-embed=\"body-image\" data-lazy-id=\"P0-21\" data-node-id=\"2\" class=\"embed\">\n<div size=\"medium\" data-embed=\"body-image\" class=\"align-center size-medium embed css-y6m8k e1fodxfw4\">\n<div class=\"css-uwraif e1fodxfw3\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"4\" class=\"css-6wxqfj emevuu60\">\u201cBook heavy\u201d is how she refers to her upbringing, which she credits to her mom. Gerber would trail along, reading whatever was assigned to her older brother, Presley, in school: books by Ray Bradbury, <em data-node-id=\"4.1\">Of Mice and Men,<\/em> and so on. Today she prefers the works of Izumi Suzuki and Marguerite Duras and has found her people through Library Science, her anti-bestseller book club, which hosts author talks and produces cheeky merch like T-shirts emblazoned with a line from the 1970 \u00c9ric Rohmer film <em data-node-id=\"4.3\">Claire\u2019s Knee<\/em>: \u201cCome to my house I have great books.\u201d <\/p>\n<section data-embed=\"watch-next\" data-lazy-id=\"P0-22\" data-node-id=\"5\" class=\"embed\"\/>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"6\" class=\"css-6wxqfj emevuu60\">Gerber\u2019s childhood, of course, was anything but normal. If books were prominent, so, too, were naked photos of her mom, the supermodel and mogul Cindy Crawford, which lined the walls. \u201cThey were, to me, artistic,\u201d she says. \u201cIt wasn\u2019t vulgar; it wasn\u2019t objectification.\u201d In fact, Gerber describes it as \u201ca gift to grow up in a house that was without shame for the female body.\u201d <\/p>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"7\" class=\"css-6wxqfj emevuu60\">Rande Gerber, her father, is a wildly successful businessman and a cofounder (along with George Clooney) of Casamigos tequila. Gerber\u2019s close-knit family\u2019s then-cliff-top estate was located in Malibu\u2019s Encinal Bluffs area, known for its sea caves, sea lions, and exclusive properties on multi-acre lots. <\/p>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"8\" class=\"css-6wxqfj emevuu60\">\u201cIt\u2019s so interesting to articulate your own childhood, because I have a brother who\u2019s two years older, and our memories are completely contradictory, which is really fascinating and I think has taught me so much about how multiple realities can exist at once,\u201d Gerber tells me. <\/p>\n<section data-embed=\"body-image\" data-lazy-id=\"P0-23\" data-node-id=\"9\" class=\"embed\">\n<div size=\"medium\" data-embed=\"body-image\" class=\"align-center size-medium embed css-y6m8k e1fodxfw4\">\n<div class=\"css-uwraif e1fodxfw3\"><img draggable=\"true\" alt=\"fashion photo featuring a model in a unique patchwork skirt and tank top\" title=\"fashion photo featuring a model in a unique patchwork skirt and tank top\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1500\" height=\"1875\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" style=\"color:transparent;width:100%;height:auto;\" sizes=\"auto, 100vw\" srcset=\"https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-003-wm-695fe2b42faac.jpg?resize=640:* 640w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-003-wm-695fe2b42faac.jpg?resize=768:* 980w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-003-wm-695fe2b42faac.jpg?resize=980:* 1120w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-003-wm-695fe2b42faac.jpg?resize=980:* 1400w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-003-wm-695fe2b42faac.jpg?resize=980:* 1800w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-003-wm-695fe2b42faac.jpg?resize=980:* 2000w\" src=\"https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-003-wm-695fe2b42faac.jpg?resize=980:*\" class=\"css-0 e1g79fud0\"\/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"10\" class=\"css-6wxqfj emevuu60\">Much of Gerber\u2019s young adulthood has been spent navigating multiple realities. In her world, attention is both a currency and an inheritance. She is someone who, for her job, is a surface onto which others project meaning. But expectations have had a way of hardening quickly around her: about who she is, about what she can do, about how seamlessly she will fulfill a role that others often assume has already been established for her. What she\u2019s reckoning with now, a decade into her career, is a careful recalibration of figuring out how much of herself to withhold, how much to offer, and how to transform being seen from a condition that has been thrust upon her into one she actively authors.<\/p>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"11\" class=\"css-6wxqfj emevuu60\">Gerber often adjusts her thoughts with a postscript of sensitive insights, a habit she and others attribute to her \u201cold soul\u201d personality. \u201cPeople think this is her first life, and it definitely is not,\u201d affirms Alyssa Reeder, the other half of Library Science, which counts among its otherwise niche crowd of Duras disciples recent Instagram followers Tom Brady and Monica Lewinsky. \u201cAlso, I don\u2019t think people realize that she\u2019s in on the joke,\u201d says Reeder. \u201cShe knows very well\u2014as maybe a lot of young women do\u2014that allowing people to underestimate you can be very powerful.\u201d <\/p>\n<section data-embed=\"pullquote\" data-lazy-id=\"P0-24\" data-node-id=\"12\" class=\"embed\">\n<blockquote data-theme-key=\"pullquote\" class=\"css-1eiql25 e1pe3zr91\"><p><span aria-hidden=\"true\" data-theme-key=\"title-design-element-before\" class=\"css-0 eagam8p0\"\/><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"css-amlyjp e1pe3zr90\"><p><em>\u201cI\u2019m quite <\/em>HAPPY<em> to be a <\/em>VESSEL.<em> It\u2019s not lost on me that part of <\/em>MY JOB<em> is just <\/em>BEING<em> what <\/em>PEOPLE<em> want<\/em> ME<em> to <\/em>BE.<em>\u201d<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span aria-hidden=\"true\" data-theme-key=\"title-design-element-after\" class=\"css-0 eagam8p1\"\/><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/section>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"13\" class=\"css-6wxqfj emevuu60\">When I ask Gerber if she can pinpoint a moment when her childhood ended, she zeroes in on age 15. That\u2019s when she started to be homeschooled to accommodate her nascent modeling career\u2014a career that seems ordained, considering her inside track and inherited bone structure. Still, her mom was never coddling. \u201cShe doesn\u2019t give out advice unless you ask. But if you ask, get ready, because she\u2019ll be very honest in ways that, sometimes, it\u2019s hard to hear,\u201d Gerber says. \u201cShe\u2019s usually right, which is infuriating, but she\u2019s also very willing to let me make a mistake that she made 30 years ago.\u201d <\/p>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"14\" class=\"css-6wxqfj emevuu60\">Gerber was only 10 years old when <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.harpersbazaar.com\/fashion\/designers\/a43233458\/donatella-versace-profile\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-vars-ga-outbound-link=\"https:\/\/www.harpersbazaar.com\/fashion\/designers\/a43233458\/donatella-versace-profile\/\" data-vars-ga-ux-element=\"Hyperlink\" data-vars-ga-call-to-action=\"Donatella Versace\" data-node-id=\"14.1\" class=\"body-link css-zdij3o emevuu60\">Donatella Versace<\/a> handpicked her to appear in the inaugural campaign for Versace\u2019s childrenswear, photographed by Mert Alas and Marcus Piggott. She was a second-generation \u201csuper\u201d in the making, walking in Crawford\u2019s footsteps, wearing kid-size gladiator sandals. <\/p>\n<div data-embed=\"composite\" data-lazy-id=\"P0-25\" data-node-id=\"15\" class=\"embed css-0 e17cny3g2\">\n<div class=\"css-1m3priu e17cny3g0\">\n<div class=\"size-large css-103j9yb e17cny3g1\">\n<div size=\"large\" data-embed=\"body-image\" class=\"align-center size-large embed css-4aolxf e1fodxfw4\">\n<div class=\"css-uwraif e1fodxfw3\"><img draggable=\"true\" alt=\"fashion portrait featuring a model in a leather vest and stylish accessories\" title=\"fashion portrait featuring a model in a leather vest and stylish accessories\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1500\" height=\"1875\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" style=\"color:transparent;width:100%;height:auto;\" sizes=\"auto, 100vw\" srcset=\"https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-006-wm-695fe4b79803f.jpg?resize=640:* 640w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-006-wm-695fe4b79803f.jpg?resize=980:* 980w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-006-wm-695fe4b79803f.jpg?resize=2048:* 1120w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-006-wm-695fe4b79803f.jpg?resize=2048:* 1400w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-006-wm-695fe4b79803f.jpg?resize=2048:* 1800w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-006-wm-695fe4b79803f.jpg?resize=2048:* 2000w\" src=\"https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-006-wm-695fe4b79803f.jpg?resize=2048:*\" class=\"css-0 e1g79fud0\"\/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"size-large css-103j9yb e17cny3g1\">\n<div size=\"large\" data-embed=\"body-image\" class=\"align-center size-large embed css-4aolxf e1fodxfw4\">\n<div class=\"css-uwraif e1fodxfw3\"><img draggable=\"true\" alt=\"model posing in a stylish red dress against a pink background\" title=\"model posing in a stylish red dress against a pink background\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1500\" height=\"1875\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" style=\"color:transparent;width:100%;height:auto;\" sizes=\"auto, 100vw\" srcset=\"https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-004-wm-695fe5406b343.jpg?resize=640:* 640w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-004-wm-695fe5406b343.jpg?resize=980:* 980w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-004-wm-695fe5406b343.jpg?resize=2048:* 1120w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-004-wm-695fe5406b343.jpg?resize=2048:* 1400w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-004-wm-695fe5406b343.jpg?resize=2048:* 1800w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-004-wm-695fe5406b343.jpg?resize=2048:* 2000w\" src=\"https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-004-wm-695fe5406b343.jpg?resize=2048:*\" class=\"css-0 e1g79fud0\"\/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"17\" class=\"css-6wxqfj emevuu60\">\u201cI had all these adults, not only my parents, looking at me and being like, \u2018What should we all do now?\u2019\u2009\u201d Gerber says. \u201cI couldn\u2019t decide I wasn\u2019t in the mood that day.\u201d Although she concedes it\u2019s in her nature to be dependable, she is finally affording herself more grace and leeway. \u201cI was still so young. I was masking as an adult. Now that I\u2019m more secure in my adulthood, I\u2019m willing to show up messy and be kind of childish about certain things.\u201d <\/p>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"18\" class=\"css-6wxqfj emevuu60\">It wasn\u2019t long before Gerber assumed her (runway) form. By the time she was 16, she was a fixture at her first Fashion Month, walking for Raf Simons\u2019s neo-Western Calvin Klein and for Chanel, Miu Miu, Off-White, Saint Laurent, and Valentino, to name a few. Gerber transforms into each brand\u2019s image: Chlo\u00e9\u2019s boho principles, Prada\u2019s handsome utility, Moschino\u2019s glossy commentary. (Gerber was feted in the latter as a literal bouquet of flowers.) \u201cI\u2019m quite happy to be a vessel. It\u2019s not lost on me that part of my job is just being what people want me to be and being a canvas or mirror for people to reflect their own ideas onto.\u201d A line from Marguerite Duras\u2019s <em data-node-id=\"18.1\">The Lover, <\/em>a favorite of Gerber\u2019s, spoken by the unnamed narrator, comes to mind: \u201cI can become anything anyone wants me to be. And believe it.\u200a\u2026\u2009And when I believe it, and it becomes true for anyone seeing me who wants me to be according to his taste, I know that too.\u201d <\/p>\n<section data-embed=\"pullquote\" data-lazy-id=\"P0-26\" data-node-id=\"19\" class=\"embed\">\n<blockquote data-theme-key=\"pullquote\" class=\"css-1eiql25 e1pe3zr91\"><p><span aria-hidden=\"true\" data-theme-key=\"title-design-element-before\" class=\"css-0 eagam8p0\"\/><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"css-amlyjp e1pe3zr90\"><p><em>\u201cI am a <\/em>SHAPE-SHIFTER.<em> I let my <\/em>IDENTITY<em> be that I can <\/em>TRANSFORM,<em> rather than <\/em>WHAT<em>\u2028I transformed <\/em>INTO.<em>\u201d<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span aria-hidden=\"true\" data-theme-key=\"title-design-element-after\" class=\"css-0 eagam8p1\"\/><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/section>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"20\" class=\"body-dropcap css-1vn2egp emevuu60\">Being looked at, or at least the recognition of one\u2019s power to attract scrutiny, is a shift that most girls encounter at some point. For Gerber, this audit was premature, due to her twin resemblance with Crawford and the fashion industry\u2019s documentation of it. She was obliged to navigate this attention acutely while posing for it professionally. <\/p>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"21\" class=\"css-6wxqfj emevuu60\">In her fashion work, the gaze has mostly been male. She says she learned a lot from Steven Meisel, who famously places a mirror in front of his models to aid with awareness. Gerber credits Meisel with teaching her to relax her otherwise stiffened hands, habitually in the shape of a claw. Gerber\u2019s modeling evolution is clear in a quick look at her campaigns, going from beachy muse for Daisy Love by Marc Jacobs to Hedi Slimane\u2019s rock hybrid of Paris-L.A. iconography (and a sporty Pilates offshoot) to a very Cindy homage staged at the artist Sterling Ruby\u2019s studio for <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.harpersbazaar.com\/fashion\/designers\/a67948204\/alaia-pieter-mulier-interview-2025\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-vars-ga-outbound-link=\"https:\/\/www.harpersbazaar.com\/fashion\/designers\/a67948204\/alaia-pieter-mulier-interview-2025\/\" data-vars-ga-ux-element=\"Hyperlink\" data-vars-ga-call-to-action=\"Pieter Mulier\u2019s Ala\u00efa\" data-node-id=\"21.1\" class=\"body-link css-zdij3o emevuu60\">Pieter Mulier\u2019s Ala\u00efa<\/a>. <br data-node-id=\"21.3\"\/><\/p>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"22\" class=\"css-6wxqfj emevuu60\">It wasn\u2019t until Gerber\u2019s longstanding friendship turned collaboration with Sarah Burton, and the designer\u2019s revival of Givenchy\u2019s codes, that the perspective shifted. In a Fall 2025 campaign directed by and costarring <em data-node-id=\"22.1\">Babygirl<\/em>\u2019s Halina Reijn, Gerber and the Dutch director play \u201cactress\u201d and \u201cdirector.\u201d They run lines and block a scene. Gerber wears a red mini pencil dress in counterpoint to a smart pair of loafers. The combination reflects Gerber\u2019s unfussy personal style: a mix of clean lines, American prep, and pretty touches like camisoles, cardigans, and ballet flats. <\/p>\n<div data-embed=\"composite\" data-lazy-id=\"P0-27\" data-node-id=\"23\" class=\"embed css-0 e17cny3g2\">\n<div class=\"css-1m3priu e17cny3g0\">\n<div class=\"size-large css-103j9yb e17cny3g1\">\n<div size=\"large\" data-embed=\"body-image\" class=\"align-center size-large embed css-4aolxf e1fodxfw4\">\n<div class=\"css-uwraif e1fodxfw3\"><img draggable=\"true\" alt=\"stylized fashion pose featuring a model\" title=\"stylized fashion pose featuring a model\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1500\" height=\"1875\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" style=\"color:transparent;width:100%;height:auto;\" sizes=\"auto, 100vw\" srcset=\"https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-002-wm-695fe6dadbb22.jpg?resize=640:* 640w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-002-wm-695fe6dadbb22.jpg?resize=980:* 980w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-002-wm-695fe6dadbb22.jpg?resize=2048:* 1120w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-002-wm-695fe6dadbb22.jpg?resize=2048:* 1400w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-002-wm-695fe6dadbb22.jpg?resize=2048:* 1800w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-002-wm-695fe6dadbb22.jpg?resize=2048:* 2000w\" src=\"https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-002-wm-695fe6dadbb22.jpg?resize=2048:*\" class=\"css-0 e1g79fud0\"\/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"size-large css-103j9yb e17cny3g1\">\n<div size=\"large\" data-embed=\"body-image\" class=\"align-center size-large embed css-4aolxf e1fodxfw4\">\n<div class=\"css-uwraif e1fodxfw3\"><img draggable=\"true\" alt=\"fashionable model showcasing an outfit with a modern aesthetic\" title=\"fashionable model showcasing an outfit with a modern aesthetic\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1500\" height=\"1875\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" style=\"color:transparent;width:100%;height:auto;\" sizes=\"auto, 100vw\" srcset=\"https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-007-wm-695fe7ab6ba54.jpg?resize=640:* 640w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-007-wm-695fe7ab6ba54.jpg?resize=980:* 980w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-007-wm-695fe7ab6ba54.jpg?resize=2048:* 1120w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-007-wm-695fe7ab6ba54.jpg?resize=2048:* 1400w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-007-wm-695fe7ab6ba54.jpg?resize=2048:* 1800w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-007-wm-695fe7ab6ba54.jpg?resize=2048:* 2000w\" src=\"https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz020126wellcoverstory-007-wm-695fe7ab6ba54.jpg?resize=2048:*\" class=\"css-0 e1g79fud0\"\/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"24\" class=\"css-6wxqfj emevuu60\">Under Burton\u2019s watch, Gerber\u2019s red-carpet silhouettes attest to her multihyphenate moment with details that exude romance, strength, and, thankfully, some play. At last fall\u2019s Academy Museum Gala, Gerber wore a custom Lyon-lace cape-back dress that called to mind the original Givenchy muse, Audrey Hepburn. \u201cTimeless and modern, completely embodying Kaia\u201d is how Burton describes the garment. \u201cShe was very much part of the creative process when making the dress. I always find things come alive when we\u2019re in the room together.\u201d <br data-node-id=\"24.1\"\/><\/p>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"25\" class=\"css-6wxqfj emevuu60\">Owing in part to some of her high-profile relationships, Gerber is frequently chronicled by paparazzi, either as she walks her dog, Milo, when she\u2019s on her way to the gym, or when she\u2019s accompanied by a boyfriend. I ask Gerber if she considers herself a romantic person. \u201cI would say I romanticize,\u201d she says. \u201cI don\u2019t know if I\u2019m romantic. I\u2019m a daydreamer. I play out every scenario in my head. I can kind of convince myself that someone is anything that I want, even if they do everything to prove that they\u2019re not. My imagination is really strong, and it\u2019s been such a gift in my work. Not always a gift in relationships.\u201d <\/p>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"26\" class=\"css-6wxqfj emevuu60\">Her attitude to her personal life\u2019s public access is both refreshing and realistic. A common refrain in interviews is how Gerber is misunderstood. She admits she is partly accountable for this chronic theme and explains it as a manner of self-preservation. \u201cThe fact that I constantly talk about it means I have an issue with it,\u201d she says. \u201cI don\u2019t think it\u2019s something that will ever be conquered, and I\u2019m coming to terms with that. Sometimes it\u2019s easier to know that the projection that you are making of yourself onto the world isn\u2019t the entire you.\u201d<\/p>\n<section data-embed=\"pullquote\" data-lazy-id=\"P0-28\" data-node-id=\"27\" class=\"embed\">\n<blockquote data-theme-key=\"pullquote\" class=\"css-1eiql25 e1pe3zr91\"><p><span aria-hidden=\"true\" data-theme-key=\"title-design-element-before\" class=\"css-0 eagam8p0\"\/><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"css-amlyjp e1pe3zr90\"><p><em>\u201cNow that I\u2019m more <\/em>SECURE<em> in my <\/em>ADULTHOOD,<em> I\u2019m willing to <\/em>SHOW UP MESSY<em> and be kind of <\/em>CHILDISH<em> about <\/em>CERTAIN THINGS.<em>\u201d<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span aria-hidden=\"true\" data-theme-key=\"title-design-element-after\" class=\"css-0 eagam8p1\"\/><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/section>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"29\" class=\"body-dropcap css-1vn2egp emevuu60\">Acting has provided Gerber with a sense of generative dissonance; it\u2019s both a release and an opportunity to regain control. She credits her theater work, most recently a role in Will Arbery\u2019s <em data-node-id=\"29.1\">Evanston Salt Costs Climbing<\/em> at the Rogue Machine Theatre in Los Angeles, with being a safe, auspicious space for her to navigate and, more critically, escape into character. \u201cI love theater because it is immortalized in people\u2019s memories but not immortalized in\u2009\u2026\u2009media. So much of what I\u2019ve done\u2014every photo\u2014is immortalized on the internet. It gets taken from me. The wonderful thing about theater is kind of how I feel about my childhood. I had my experience, and the people watching had their experience. I can\u2019t go back and watch from the audience. I can only experience it from where I stood.\u201d <\/p>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"30\" class=\"css-6wxqfj emevuu60\">Theater as a showground for exploring the full-blown impact of her emotional edges has also helped Gerber access something else. Gerber admits that prior to her stage work, she\u2019d always wanted to be seen as \u201cthe easy one.\u201d I ask her what she means. \u201cSomeone who doesn\u2019t need attention, like, an \u2018Oh, we don\u2019t worry about her\u2019 kind of person. But I\u2019ve recently realized that it actually prevents people from feeling genuinely close to you if you\u2019re not sharing your vulnerabilities with them.\u201d Gerber confesses she was likely attempting to prevent closeness. \u201cI\u2019m quite good at deflecting. I believe that power and dominance, a lot of the time, is attention, and I think I feel more powerful when my attention is on someone else.\u201d <\/p>\n<section data-embed=\"body-image\" data-lazy-id=\"P0-29\" data-node-id=\"31\" class=\"embed\">\n<div size=\"large\" data-embed=\"body-image\" class=\"align-center size-large embed css-uhpotl e1fodxfw4\">\n<div class=\"css-uwraif e1fodxfw3\"><img draggable=\"true\" alt=\"model reclining in a stylish outfit with a distinct belt accessory\" title=\"model reclining in a stylish outfit with a distinct belt accessory\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"2500\" height=\"1921\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" style=\"color:transparent;width:100%;height:auto;\" sizes=\"auto, 100vw\" srcset=\"https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/93277-lro-harpersbazaar-127-07-v5-digital-wm-695fe8db77cbd.jpg?resize=640:* 640w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/93277-lro-harpersbazaar-127-07-v5-digital-wm-695fe8db77cbd.jpg?resize=980:* 980w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/93277-lro-harpersbazaar-127-07-v5-digital-wm-695fe8db77cbd.jpg?resize=2048:* 1120w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/93277-lro-harpersbazaar-127-07-v5-digital-wm-695fe8db77cbd.jpg?resize=2048:* 1400w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/93277-lro-harpersbazaar-127-07-v5-digital-wm-695fe8db77cbd.jpg?resize=2048:* 1800w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/93277-lro-harpersbazaar-127-07-v5-digital-wm-695fe8db77cbd.jpg?resize=2048:* 2000w\" src=\"https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/93277-lro-harpersbazaar-127-07-v5-digital-wm-695fe8db77cbd.jpg?resize=2048:*\" class=\"css-0 e1g79fud0\"\/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"32\" class=\"css-6wxqfj emevuu60\">Gerber\u2019s film and television projects\u2014she is currently starring in the high-camp second season of <em data-node-id=\"32.1\">Palm Royale<\/em> opposite Kristen Wiig and <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.harpersbazaar.com\/culture\/film-tv\/a60080632\/carol-burnett-interview-march-2024\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-vars-ga-outbound-link=\"https:\/\/www.harpersbazaar.com\/culture\/film-tv\/a60080632\/carol-burnett-interview-march-2024\/\" data-vars-ga-ux-element=\"Hyperlink\" data-vars-ga-call-to-action=\"Carol Burnett\" data-node-id=\"32.3\" class=\"body-link css-zdij3o emevuu60\">Carol Burnett<\/a>\u2014vary widely and seem to mirror her tendency to blend a rigorous and interior art practice with the realities of her circumstance and the shared joke of how exposing it is to be a person in the world. Sometimes the roles are playfully referential, like Gerber\u2019s portrayal of a trivialized cheerleader in Emma Seligman\u2019s comedy <em data-node-id=\"32.5\">Bottoms.<\/em> Other times, the roles feel closer to those intrusive themes explored in the books she pores over. Gerber tells me the dark satirist Todd Solondz is a director she hopes to work with one day. <\/p>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"33\" class=\"css-6wxqfj emevuu60\">\u201cA sponge\u201d and \u201cbeyond her years\u201d is how Burnett describes Gerber, who would often wait around the <em data-node-id=\"33.1\">Palm Royale<\/em> set, even if she wasn\u2019t shooting a scene. \u201cShe didn\u2019t just go and take a nap in her trailer. She was observing, always watching and learning, even camera setups. I wouldn\u2019t be surprised if someday she might direct,\u201d says Burnett, who was thrilled when Gerber attended her 92nd birthday party. <\/p>\n<section data-embed=\"body-image\" data-lazy-id=\"P0-30\" data-node-id=\"34\" class=\"embed\">\n<div size=\"medium\" data-embed=\"body-image\" class=\"align-center size-medium embed css-y6m8k e1fodxfw4\">\n<div class=\"css-uwraif e1fodxfw3\"><img draggable=\"true\" alt=\"a person holding fabric while wearing accessories\" title=\"a person holding fabric while wearing accessories\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1500\" height=\"1875\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" style=\"color:transparent;width:100%;height:auto;\" sizes=\"auto, 100vw\" srcset=\"https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz02012edletter-001-wm-695fe92548912.jpg?resize=640:* 640w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz02012edletter-001-wm-695fe92548912.jpg?resize=768:* 980w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz02012edletter-001-wm-695fe92548912.jpg?resize=980:* 1120w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz02012edletter-001-wm-695fe92548912.jpg?resize=980:* 1400w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz02012edletter-001-wm-695fe92548912.jpg?resize=980:* 1800w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz02012edletter-001-wm-695fe92548912.jpg?resize=980:* 2000w\" src=\"https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/hmg-prod\/images\/hbz02012edletter-001-wm-695fe92548912.jpg?resize=980:*\" class=\"css-0 e1g79fud0\"\/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"35\" class=\"css-6wxqfj emevuu60\">Up next, Gerber can be seen in filmmaker David Lowery\u2019s twisted pop epic <em data-node-id=\"35.1\">Mother Mary,<\/em> opposite Anne Hathaway and Michaela Coel. Lowery, who also collaborated with Gerber and Crawford on a few videos for Zara, echoes but amends the refrain that Gerber is an old soul. \u201cHer energy on set is special,\u201d he says. \u201cShe\u2019s so mature that it is tempting to call her an old soul, but that\u2019s not quite right. She has <em data-node-id=\"35.3\">access<\/em> to an old soul but just as often comes to the table with an almost giddy excitement at the prospect of uncovering something new.\u201d Lowery recalls first meeting Gerber three years ago. \u201cMy chief memory of that conversation is of a cascade of unexpected cinephilia. You know that frisson you get when you meet someone who gets all your reference points and can complement them with touchstones of their own?\u201d The pair talked about the work of Peter Greenaway, Sally Potter\u2019s <em data-node-id=\"35.5\">Orlando, <\/em>and their shared admiration for the writer Carmen Maria Machado. <\/p>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"36\" class=\"css-6wxqfj emevuu60\">In one of the Givenchy campaign images conceived by Reijn, Gerber hovers above her director while wearing a caped lace mini bustier dress and gold shoes. It\u2019s an image that evokes Duras\u2019s <em data-node-id=\"36.1\">The Lover<\/em> yet again, specifically the gold lam\u00e9 shoes the narrator wears in that striking opening scene and, more broadly, Duras\u2019s radical portrayal of desire and the act of being observed. In some ways, Gerber was hardwired for a life of being looked at, raised by a mother and role model who received the world\u2019s gaze on her own terms. Gerber\u2019s own trajectory is proportioned, embracing what\u2019s been predetermined for her while safeguarding her own pursuits. \u201cI am a shape-shifter,\u201d she says. \u201cI let my identity be that I can transform, rather than what I transformed into.\u201d<br data-node-id=\"36.3\"\/><\/p>\n<div data-node-id=\"37\" data-embed=\"video\" class=\"embed aspect-ratio-16x9 css-17nhnxs e20tmgw0\">\n<div class=\"__resp-container css-1ui7hop e6inl0f0\">\n<div class=\"video-player css-guxj2g e1hzgkwu0\">\n<div class=\"css-1d3dqod e7hrar04\"><button data-theme-key=\"video-play-icon-button\" aria-label=\"Play Video\" class=\"css-19szzr8 e7hrar00\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-dynamic-svg=\"true\" src=\"https:\/\/www.harpersbazaar.com\/_assets\/design-tokens\/fre\/static\/icons\/play.db7c035.svg?primary=%2523ffffff\" loading=\"lazy\" data-testid=\"dynamic-svg-base\" height=\"24\" width=\"24\" alt=\"Play Icon\" role=\"img\" title=\"Play\" class=\"css-ovd4yx e7hrar01\"\/><\/button><img alt=\"kaia gerber harpers bazaar 2026 cover story\" title=\"Kaia Gerber Returns the Gaze\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1000\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" style=\"color:transparent;width:100%;height:auto;\" sizes=\"auto, 100vw\" srcset=\"https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/vidthumb\/images\/hbz-burningquestions-kg-ak-v1-4-696fe09391855.jpg?crop=1.00xw:1.00xh;0,0&amp;resize=640:* 640w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/vidthumb\/images\/hbz-burningquestions-kg-ak-v1-4-696fe09391855.jpg?crop=1.00xw:1.00xh;0,0&amp;resize=980:* 980w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/vidthumb\/images\/hbz-burningquestions-kg-ak-v1-4-696fe09391855.jpg?crop=1.00xw:1.00xh;0,0&amp;resize=1200:* 1120w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/vidthumb\/images\/hbz-burningquestions-kg-ak-v1-4-696fe09391855.jpg?crop=1.00xw:1.00xh;0,0&amp;resize=1400:* 1400w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/vidthumb\/images\/hbz-burningquestions-kg-ak-v1-4-696fe09391855.jpg?crop=1.00xw:1.00xh;0,0&amp;resize=1800:* 1800w, https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/vidthumb\/images\/hbz-burningquestions-kg-ak-v1-4-696fe09391855.jpg?crop=1.00xw:1.00xh;0,0 2000w\" src=\"https:\/\/hips.hearstapps.com\/vidthumb\/images\/hbz-burningquestions-kg-ak-v1-4-696fe09391855.jpg?crop=1.00xw:1.00xh;0,0\" class=\"e7hrar03 css-g939jb e1g79fud0\"\/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<section data-embed=\"body-image\" data-lazy-id=\"P0-31\" data-node-id=\"38\" class=\"embed\"\/>\n<h2 data-node-id=\"39\" class=\"body-h4 css-cd7ck8 emevuu60\">This article appears in the February issue of <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/store.harpersbazaar.com\/harpers-bazaar-all-access-membership-1.html\" target=\"_blank\" data-vars-ga-ux-element=\"Hyperlink\" data-vars-membership-link=\"https:\/\/store.harpersbazaar.com\/harpers-bazaar-magazine-sem.html?cds_tracking_code=PSEA&amp;utm_source=google&amp;utm_medium=cpc&amp;utm_campaign=har_membership&amp;utm_id=go_cmp-13233753354_adg-121972513879_ad-616896144853_kwd-303183062777_dev-m_ext-_prd-_mca-_sig-EAIaIQobChMIlOeEzdeShgMVoc3CBB0O7w61EAAYASAAEgJJfPD_BwE&amp;utm_source=google&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gbraid=0AAAAAD9qQd2xN4bm-iCcmwi3HMIhUWc84&amp;gclid=EAIaIQobChMIlOeEzdeShgMVoc3CBB0O7w61EAAYASAAEgJJfPD_BwE\" data-node-id=\"39.1\" data-href=\"https:\/\/store.harpersbazaar.com\/harpers-bazaar-all-access-membership-1.html\" data-vars-ga-outbound-link=\"https:\/\/store.harpersbazaar.com\/harpers-bazaar-all-access-membership-1.html\" data-vars-ga-call-to-action=\"Harper\u2019s Bazaar\" class=\"body-link css-zdij3o emevuu60\"><em data-node-id=\"39.1.0\">Harper\u2019s Bazaar<\/em><\/a>.<\/h2>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"40\" class=\"css-6wxqfj emevuu60\"><em data-node-id=\"40.0\">Opening image: Hoop earrings, <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.wempe.com\/en-us\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-vars-ga-outbound-link=\"https:\/\/www.wempe.com\/en-us\/\" data-vars-ga-ux-element=\"Hyperlink\" data-vars-ga-call-to-action=\"Wempe\" data-vars-ga-product-id=\"0226999b-5ca8-4ef9-8555-02a8bce546ac\" rel=\"nofollow\" data-node-id=\"40.0.1\" class=\"body-link product-links css-zdij3o emevuu60\">Wempe<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n<p data-journey-content=\"true\" data-node-id=\"41\" class=\"css-6wxqfj emevuu60\"><em data-node-id=\"41.0\"\/><em data-node-id=\"41.1\">Hair: Lucas Wilson for Bumble and Bumble; 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