{"id":2316385,"date":"2026-03-06T22:36:16","date_gmt":"2026-03-06T22:36:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/?p=2316385"},"modified":"2026-03-06T22:36:16","modified_gmt":"2026-03-06T22:36:16","slug":"lance-bass-so-glad-he-had-kids-later-in-life-i-was-way-less-scared","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/lance-bass-so-glad-he-had-kids-later-in-life-i-was-way-less-scared\/","title":{"rendered":"Lance Bass &#8216;So Glad&#8217; He Had Kids &#8216;Later in Life&#8217;: &#8216;I Was Way Less Scared&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div>\n<figure class=\"content-figure flex justify-center mb-[1em] mx-auto\">\n<div style=\"max-width:800px\">\n<div class=\"content-image\"><\/div><figcaption class=\"fig-caption\">\n<p>Lance Bass shares 4-year-old twins Violet and Alexander with husband Michael Turchin.@lancebass\/Instagram<\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/okmagazine.com\/t\/lance-bass\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Lance Bass;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link rapid-noclick-resp\"><strong>Lance Bass<\/strong><\/a> is deep in dad mode \u2014 and couldn&#8217;t be happier, as he&#8217;s convinced waiting to have kids was one of the smartest choices he ever made.<\/p>\n<p>The former <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/okmagazine.com\/t\/nsync\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:*NSYNC;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link rapid-noclick-resp\">*NSYNC<\/a> star, 46, opens up about raising his and husband <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/okmagazine.com\/t\/michael-turchin\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Michael Turchin;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link rapid-noclick-resp\"><strong>Michael Turchin<\/strong><\/a>&#8216;s 4-year-old twins, daughter <strong>Violet<\/strong> and son <strong>Alexander<\/strong>, during an exclusive chat with <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/okmagazine.com\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:OK!;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link rapid-noclick-resp\"><em>OK!<\/em><\/a> while <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/okmagazine.com\/p\/joey-fatone-gives-best-fatherhood-advice-nsync-groupchat\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:discussing all things fatherhood;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link rapid-noclick-resp\">discussing all things fatherhood<\/a>, marriage and his partnership with Hay Day.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I think everything&#8217;s about balance, you know, it&#8217;s the yin and yang. I&#8217;ve always lived by that,&#8221; Bass shares. &#8220;<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/okmagazine.com\/p\/lance-bass-reveals-which-nsync-member-best-parenting-advice\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:When you become parents;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link rapid-noclick-resp\">When you become parents<\/a>, sometimes you just kind of let everything disappear, and you just focus on just raising your kids. And I&#8217;m so glad we started a little later in life to have kids.&#8221;<\/p>\n<figure class=\"content-figure flex justify-center mb-[1em] mx-auto\">\n<div style=\"max-width:800px\">\n<div class=\"content-image\"><img alt=\"Lance Bass and Michael Turchin tied the knot in 2014.@lancebass\/Instagram\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"800\" height=\"450\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"standard-img w-full w-full h-auto\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/s.yimg.com\/ny\/api\/res\/1.2\/Pjr0HG9ys1qf46_lO6RjmQ--\/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTEyNDI7aD02OTk-\/https:\/\/media.zenfs.com\/en\/aol_ok_magazine_302\/d04ea512599ba6d766db39abbd05f6de\"\/><\/div><figcaption class=\"fig-caption\">\n<p>Lance Bass and Michael Turchin tied the knot in 2014.@lancebass\/Instagram<\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p>Looking back at friends who became parents in their early 20s, Bass doesn\u2019t sugarcoat how intimidating that always seemed.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf I had kids like my friends from high school, you know, 22 years old, having their first kids, it was scary as h&#8212;,\u201d he admits. \u201cYou didn\u2019t know what was happening. Now that I&#8217;ve seen a lot of my friends go through it, I was way less scared of having kids and I think I was prepared way more to give a more balanced life.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>That sense of balance shapes the way he parents today \u2014 and how much he savors this particular season of their childhood.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"heading\">Soaking Up Twin Life<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"content-figure flex justify-center mb-[1em] mx-auto\">\n<div style=\"max-width:800px\">\n<div class=\"content-image\"><img alt=\"Lance Bass is grateful he didn't rush into having kids at a young age.@lancebass\/Instagram\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"800\" height=\"450\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"standard-img w-full w-full h-auto\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/s.yimg.com\/ny\/api\/res\/1.2\/cYPDcaeqoqRLJRpV9Zuz3g--\/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTEyNDI7aD02OTk-\/https:\/\/media.zenfs.com\/en\/aol_ok_magazine_302\/13047a889c6b776738d3edad6d88d2f5\"\/><\/div><figcaption class=\"fig-caption\">\n<p>Lance Bass is grateful he didn&#8217;t rush into having kids at a young age.@lancebass\/Instagram<\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/okmagazine.com\/p\/lance-bass-michael-turchin-expecting-boy-girl-twins\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Now that his twins are 4;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link rapid-noclick-resp\">Now that his twins are 4<\/a>, Bass says the anxious \u201ckeep them alive\u201d newborn stage has given way to something much more fun \u2014 even if it\u2019s exhausting in a different way.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNewborns are completely different from, like, these little teenagers that we have now,\u201d he jokes. \u201cBefore you&#8217;re just constantly watching them to make sure that they&#8217;re alive, right? It&#8217;s like, how do I keep you alive, little nugget?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>These days, it\u2019s all about big personalities and endless conversations.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNow that they have personalities, and you have these conversations\u2026 it&#8217;s amazing how quickly they just learn everything,\u201d he says. \u201cEverything you say now they hear and you&#8217;re like, okay, you can&#8217;t hide anything anymore around them. They&#8217;re going to pick up everything that&#8217;s happening.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Even bedtime turns into story hour.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI can&#8217;t wait for them to get home from school,\u201d the former boy band member shares. \u201cWhen you get that hug, when you get to snuggle on the couch at night before you go to bed\u2026 I&#8217;m laying down with them and they&#8217;re just telling me about their day and just talk, talk, talk. And you&#8217;re just wanting them to go to sleep\u2026 but you cherish all those moments, because you don&#8217;t have many more years like that.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI just cherish every single second I have with them, especially our nighttime, just because that&#8217;s when they really come to life,\u201d he adds.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"heading\">Two Very Different Kids, One Busy Household<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"content-figure flex justify-center mb-[1em] mx-auto\">\n<div style=\"max-width:800px\">\n<div class=\"content-image\"><img alt=\"Lance Bass joked about his daughter being 'bossy' and his son getting into 'trouble.'@lancebass\/Instagram\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"800\" height=\"450\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"standard-img w-full w-full h-auto\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/s.yimg.com\/ny\/api\/res\/1.2\/D9T8uzcND9b8wpzGzGQPcg--\/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTEyNDI7aD02OTk-\/https:\/\/media.zenfs.com\/en\/aol_ok_magazine_302\/5c5f17d477693151bee0f605845874ba\"\/><\/div><figcaption class=\"fig-caption\">\n<p>Lance Bass joked about his daughter being &#8216;bossy&#8217; and his son getting into &#8216;trouble.&#8217;@lancebass\/Instagram<\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.aol.com\/entertainment\/lance-bass-reveals-important-type-141324799.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Bass and Turchin;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link rapid-noclick-resp\">Bass and Turchin<\/a> also get a kick out of how different their twins already are.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt is funny because, you know, a boy and a girl\u2026 it really is different. I mean, everyone tried to warn us,\u201d Bass laughs. \u201cMy girl, we call her Bossy Betty. Oh, so bossy. And, you know, just so much smarter. I mean, sorry, girls are just way smarter than boys.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Violet may run the show, but Alexander brings pure comedic chaos.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe&#8217;s just your typical boy, just so, you know, trying to destroy everything,\u201d the dad-of-two says with a smile. \u201cHe just makes me laugh so much. Like, he&#8217;ll try to get in trouble, but it&#8217;s hard to get in trouble because I just get amused.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Their son has also developed a surprisingly intense passion for movies and music.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMy son\u2026 wants to be a director now,\u201d Bass reveals. \u201cHe loves <strong>John Williams<\/strong>, that&#8217;s his favorite artist, which is the most random thing ever. But he loves <em>Jaws<\/em>, he loves <em>Jurassic Park<\/em>, he loves <em>Home Alone<\/em>, all these movies that John Williams scored.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The obsession has taken over his bedroom.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe has 70 pictures of <em>Jaws<\/em> all over his wall. He draws them every day, and he&#8217;s just obsessed,\u201d Bass notes. \u201cHe&#8217;s already written <em>Jaws 10<\/em>. He&#8217;s gonna direct it. And it&#8217;s <em>Jaws 10<\/em> at Christmas time, but it\u2019s also Kevin McCallister setting booby traps for Jaws.\u201d<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"heading\">Finding Balance at Home<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"content-figure flex justify-center mb-[1em] mx-auto\">\n<div style=\"max-width:800px\">\n<div class=\"content-image\"><img alt=\"Lance Bass shared his secret to finding balance and keeping his marriage strong.@lancebass\/Instagram\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"800\" height=\"450\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"standard-img w-full w-full h-auto\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/s.yimg.com\/ny\/api\/res\/1.2\/KXoqK0V7jrzjb5CdA4VkKQ--\/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTEyNDI7aD02OTk-\/https:\/\/media.zenfs.com\/en\/aol_ok_magazine_302\/4c9ec6f318e8f9503e22f9d6c89e1fbc\"\/><\/div><figcaption class=\"fig-caption\">\n<p>Lance Bass shared his secret to finding balance and keeping his marriage strong.@lancebass\/Instagram<\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p>With <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/okmagazine.com\/p\/lance-bass-kids-play-better-place-music-video-over-again\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:two energetic kids;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link rapid-noclick-resp\">two energetic kids<\/a>, a long-term marriage and busy careers, Bass says the secret to keeping things steady is being deliberate about balance.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe made sure that once a week we see our friends and we go out and make sure we get time for ourselves,\u201d he explains. \u201cWe make sure that we go and, you know, get a massage every once in a while, to make sure that we take care of ourselves. It really is all about just balancing your life to make sure that not one part of your life drives you crazy.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>That same mindset extends to the kind of childhood he wants for his twins. A Mississippi native, Bass has always dreamed of raising his family around animals and nature.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt&#8217;s my dream. It&#8217;s always been my dream of living on a ranch or having my own farm,\u201d he says. \u201cI&#8217;m from the South, so I grew up around that and lived in the country\u2026 I was always [wanting] to have animals around, especially when I had kids.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Now, he and Turchin are turning that dream into reality.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI&#8217;m actually calling you from my new house somewhere in the backyard right now, and we&#8217;re literally in the spot where we&#8217;re gonna put [the] chicken coop,\u201d he details. \u201cWe have a huge koi pond, so we get to feed the fish. We&#8217;re going to be able to take care of our chickens and have fresh eggs every day\u2026 Eventually\u2026 I want to live on that ranch where I have some horses, some goats, like, really a legit ranch to run.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>For Bass, it\u2019s about giving his kids something deeper than just a cute backdrop.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI think it&#8217;s so important to give your kids some kind of, like, responsibility like that,\u201d he mentions. \u201cI would love to wake up in the morning, let them help me with the animals before they go off to school. I just think that really\u2026 helps them in life.\u201d<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"heading\">A Quiet Ritual Amid the Chaos<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"content-figure flex justify-center mb-[1em] mx-auto\">\n<div style=\"max-width:800px\">\n<div class=\"content-image\"><img alt=\"Lance Bass' favorite nighttime ritual is playing Hay Day.Hay Day\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"800\" height=\"450\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"standard-img w-full w-full h-auto\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/s.yimg.com\/ny\/api\/res\/1.2\/xkuAtVQdte821xLoKwrZgQ--\/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjt3PTEyNDI7aD02OTk-\/https:\/\/media.zenfs.com\/en\/aol_ok_magazine_302\/4224c7c0038164ad5999286f84af040c\"\/><\/div><figcaption class=\"fig-caption\">\n<p>Lance Bass&#8217; favorite nighttime ritual is playing Hay Day.Hay Day<\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p>Between school runs, backyard plans and big dreams, Lance still makes room for a small nightly ritual to unwind: playing the mobile game <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/hayday.com\/en\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Hay Day;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link rapid-noclick-resp\">Hay Day<\/a>, one of the world\u2019s most popular farming games, which he\u2019s loved for years and recently partnered with.<\/p>\n<p>Bass \u2014 whose farm is impressively at level 157 \u2014 says the farming game mirrors the calm, grounding life he\u2019s trying to build offline.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEvery night before I go to bed, I spend 30 minutes to an hour just kind of fixing up my farm, doing all my little missions,\u201d he reveals. \u201cI get to zone out and just kind of hyper-fixate on something\u2026 it just, I feel like that&#8217;s kind of like my meditation.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Whether he\u2019s planning real chicken coops or feeding digital animals on his phone, one thing is clear: Lance Bass might have waited longer than some to start a family, but he\u2019s all in now \u2014 and no longer scared at all.<\/p>\n<p>Read more at <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.okmagazine.com\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:OK!;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link rapid-noclick-resp\">OK!<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Get OK!&#8217;s biggest scoops and scandals delivered right to your inbox. <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/okmagazine.com\/newsletter-signup\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Sign up now;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link rapid-noclick-resp\">Sign up now<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>FOLLOW OK! 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