{"id":2326167,"date":"2026-03-13T09:19:38","date_gmt":"2026-03-13T09:19:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/?p=2326167"},"modified":"2026-03-13T09:19:38","modified_gmt":"2026-03-13T09:19:38","slug":"its-devastating-but-not-in-the-way-people-imagine-rosamund-pike-on-her-broken-engagement-and-why-she-wont-get-married","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/its-devastating-but-not-in-the-way-people-imagine-rosamund-pike-on-her-broken-engagement-and-why-she-wont-get-married\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2018It\u2019s devastating, but not in the way people imagine\u2019: Rosamund Pike on her broken engagement and why she won\u2019t get married"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div id=\"article-body\">\n<p id=\"36c6ad09-60e1-454b-b26c-4ade323fa570\"><a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.womanandhome.com\/life\/news-entertainment\/rosamund-pike-women-grateful-for-career\/\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.womanandhome.com\/life\/news-entertainment\/rosamund-pike-women-grateful-for-career\/\" data-hl-processed=\"none\" data-mrf-recirculation=\"inline-link\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/www.womanandhome.com\/life\/news-entertainment\/rosamund-pike-women-grateful-for-career\/\">Rosamund Pike<\/a> isn&#8217;t only a fantastic actress, she is also open to frank conversations about things that matter.<\/p>\n<p>The star is an advocate for women to challenge the patriarchy and push back against unrealistic ageing and beauty standards, and champions for equal professional recognition in the workplace.<\/p>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" id=\"elk-seasonal\"\/><\/p>\n<aside data-block-type=\"embed\" data-render-type=\"fte\" data-skip=\"dealsy\" data-widget-type=\"seasonal\" class=\"hawk-root\"\/>\n<p id=\"36c6ad09-60e1-454b-b26c-4ade323fa570-2\" class=\"paywall\" aria-hidden=\"true\">During a recent appearance on the <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/show\/4m7U7kNne0iu35HK571Ui8\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\" data-url=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/show\/4m7U7kNne0iu35HK571Ui8\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-hl-processed=\"none\" data-mrf-recirculation=\"inline-link\"><em>How To Fail With Elizabeth Day<\/em><\/a> podcast, Rosamund discussed a previous broken engagement, reflecting on the misogyny surrounding her initial decision to get married, and how that affected her future relationship.<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"article-continues-below block py-2 text-sm\">Article continues below <svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"inline-block w-2.5 h-2.5 ml-2\" fill=\"currentColor\" preserveaspectratio=\"xMidYMid meet\" viewbox=\"0 0 1000 1000\"><path d=\"M1000 100L500 900 0 100h1000z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/p>\n<aside data-component-name=\"Recirculation:ArticleRiver\" data-recirculation-type=\"inline\" data-mrf-recirculation=\"Trending Bar\" data-nosnippet=\"\" class=\"clear-both pb-0 pt-2 mb-4\">\n        <span class=\"&#10;            flex&#10;            after:content-[''] after:flex-1 after:ml-4 after:my-[0.7rem] after:border-t after:border-solid after:border-[#333]&#10;            before:content-[''] before:flex-1 before:mr-4 before:my-[0.7rem] before:border-t before:border-solid before:border-[#333]&#10;            font-article-heading pb-0 !text-base uppercase sm:text-sm font-normal&#10;        \"><br \/>\n            You may like<br \/>\n        <\/span><\/p>\n<\/aside>\n<p class=\"paywall\" aria-hidden=\"true\">The engagement Rosamund refers to, it to director Joe Wright &#8211; the pair met on the set of <em>Pride &amp; Prejudice<\/em>, and she believed they were madly in love.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\" aria-hidden=\"true\">The couple were together four years and became engaged in 2007, when the actress was 28-years-old. They were due to be married in 2008, but Joe called it off just weeks before the wedding.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\" aria-hidden=\"true\">Speaking to Elizabeth Day, Rosamund reflects that getting engaged at is &#8220;A big deal for a 28-year-old,&#8221; because it&#8217;s &#8220;your sort of template for womanhood, you&#8217;re doing the right thing&#8221; by making that commitment.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\" aria-hidden=\"true\">She adds, &#8220;I remember him even asking me, &#8216;Are you pleased that you&#8217;re getting married before you&#8217;re 30?,&#8217; and I thought, &#8216;Yes, actually, I think I am.&#8217; It feels right, it feels romantic.&#8221;<\/p>\n<div id=\"slice-container-newsletterForm-articleInbodyContent-DdxT6GzYBMgx38zu6XqToX\" class=\"slice-container newsletter-inbodyContent-slice newsletterForm-articleInbodyContent-DdxT6GzYBMgx38zu6XqToX slice-container-newsletterForm\">\n<div data-hydrate=\"true\" class=\"newsletter-form__wrapper newsletter-form__wrapper--inbodyContent\">\n<div class=\"newsletter-form__container\">\n<section class=\"newsletter-form__top-bar\"\/>\n<section class=\"newsletter-form__main-section\">\n<p class=\"newsletter-form__strapline\">Sign up to our free daily email for the latest royal and entertainment news, interesting opinion, expert advice on styling and beauty trends, and no-nonsense guides to the health and wellness questions you want answered.<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"paywall\" aria-hidden=\"true\">The actress then turns to what happened when Joe ended the engagement so abruptly. &#8220;When you don&#8217;t get married, people think the absolute worst,&#8221; she says.<\/p>\n<div class=\"youtube-video youtube-facade\" data-nosnippet=\"\" id=\"5kjCkJMU1m8\">\n<div class=\"video-aspect-box\">\n<div class=\"watch-on-iframe-5kjCkJMU1m8\" data-yt-video-token=\"5kjCkJMU1m8\" title=\"Actor Rosamund Pike on Failed Relationships, Parenting and Reflections on Being A Bond Girl - 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We were very, very in love. We had masses of adventures. We were very wild. And then it all fell apart.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>In the aftermath of her broken engagement, the actress recalls speculation was rife about why Joe had ended the relationship and called off the wedding.<\/p>\n<aside data-component-name=\"Recirculation:ArticleRiver\" data-recirculation-type=\"inline\" data-mrf-recirculation=\"Trending Bar\" data-nosnippet=\"\" class=\"clear-both pb-0 pt-2 mb-4\">\n        <span class=\"&#10;            flex&#10;            after:content-[''] after:flex-1 after:ml-4 after:my-[0.7rem] after:border-t after:border-solid after:border-[#333]&#10;            before:content-[''] before:flex-1 before:mr-4 before:my-[0.7rem] before:border-t before:border-solid before:border-[#333]&#10;            font-article-heading pb-0 !text-base uppercase sm:text-sm font-normal&#10;        \"><br \/>\n            What to read next<br \/>\n        <\/span><\/p>\n<\/aside>\n<p>&#8220;Everybody thinks it must be an affair, polygamy, a drug scandal. People definitely think the worst. And you get the benevolent pity again, from all angles. And it is devastating,&#8221; she recalls, sadly.<\/p>\n<p>However, she does add that &#8220;It&#8217;s not devastating in the any of the ways that people imagine,&#8221; not delving into the reason the wedding was called off, but revealing it was for &#8220;far less spectacular&#8221; reasons than people were speculating.<\/p>\n<p>Delving into the months after her relationship ended, Rosamund recalls not wanting to be around people who were happy because it was too difficult, with celebrations having no meaning.<\/p>\n<p>She calls this time &#8220;a big adult failure,&#8221; adding, &#8220;you really love someone, and they don&#8217;t love you anymore.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>However, when she came to terms with her loss, the actress was able to see the positives and feel &#8220;freedom&#8221; from not being tied to a marriage.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;There&#8217;s so many other templates for how life can look for a woman,&#8221; she says, positively, adding, &#8220;there are so many other ways love can look like.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Now aged 47, she&#8217;s been in a relationship with businessman Robie Uniacke for many years, and they share sons, Solo and Atom.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;&#8216;I&#8217;m not married, but I have a family and I&#8217;ve been with someone 15 years happily not married,&#8221; she explains, continuing to explain that after her broken engagement, it was important for her to specifically cement her love with Robie in a way that didn&#8217;t involve a wedding. 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