{"id":2346229,"date":"2026-03-26T12:05:06","date_gmt":"2026-03-26T12:05:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/?p=2346229"},"modified":"2026-03-26T12:05:06","modified_gmt":"2026-03-26T12:05:06","slug":"heather-graham-says-intimacy-coordinators-can-be-awkward","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/heather-graham-says-intimacy-coordinators-can-be-awkward\/","title":{"rendered":"Heather Graham Says Intimacy Coordinators Can Be &#8216;Awkward&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div>\n<p>It\u2019s been nearly 30 years since <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrities\/heather-graham\/\"><strong>Heather Graham<\/strong><\/a> skated her way into cinematic history as Rollergirl, the bubbly, naive porn actress in <strong>Paul Thomas Anderson<\/strong>\u2019s <em>Boogie Nights<\/em>. The cult classic, which centers on the adult entertainment industry, features Graham in several nude scenes, and the actress admits the way those moments are filmed has changed dramatically, particularly when it comes to intimacy coordinators.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI think the MeToo movement was amazing [and] I think there is a very good intention behind intimacy coordinators. But it is odd when you come up without having them, and suddenly there\u2019s this random person in the room just staring at you when you\u2019re, like, pretending you have sex,\u201d says Graham, who spoke to<em> Us Weekly<\/em> for this week\u2019s <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-news\/news\/heather-graham-on-aging-in-hollywood-and-finding-love\/\">cover story<\/a>. \u201cIt\u2019s kind of awkward.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>These days,<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/entertainment\/pictures\/stars-candid-quotes-about-working-with-intimacy-coordinators\/\"> intimacy coordinators<\/a> are a fixture on many sets, there to choreograph scenes and ensure everyone feels comfortable. But for the actress \u2014 who spent years shooting intimate scenes without an extra set of eyes in the room \u2014 their presence can sometimes feel like one person too many.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI know that they have a beautiful intention, and they really want to help and protect actors,\u201d says Graham, who also starred in the 2002 erotic thriller <em>Killing Me Softly<\/em> and as a former adult film star in 2012\u2019s <em>About Cherry<\/em>. \u201cBut as the actor, sometimes I\u2019m like, \u2018Can you just get all these people out of the room?\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-caption \">\n<div class=\"ratio-based-placeholder\" style=\"padding-bottom:133.3%;\"><\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\"><span class=\"credit\">Brandon Harman<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Graham, who\u2019s back on screen in the upcoming horror comedy <em>They Will Kill You<\/em> (out March 27), says that awkwardness hit home on a recent project, when she found herself worrying less about the scene and more about the person meant to oversee it. \u201cI just did this other horror movie, and there was this adorable intimacy coordinator. She was in her 20s, super sweet. We were doing this scary scene, and I felt like I had to take care of her,\u201d explains the actress, 56. \u201cShe\u2019s like, \u2018This is really disturbing.\u2019 And I\u2019m like, \u2018I know, I\u2019m sorry,\u2019\u201d she adds with a laugh. \u201cIt\u2019s kind of awkward.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"link-related article link-related__with-thumb\">\n\t\t\t<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"article__thumbnail related-ab-test\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-news\/news\/heather-graham-on-aging-in-hollywood-and-finding-love\/\" target=\"\" data-source=\"01\"><\/p>\n<figure class=\"article__figure\">\n<div style=\"padding-bottom:56.25%;\" class=\"ratio-based-placeholder\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Feature-Heather-Graham-9-2614-Us-Weekly-Cover-Story.jpg?crop=0px%2C493px%2C1259px%2C711px&amp;resize=400%2C225&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all\" srcset=\"\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 480px) 400px, (max-width: 770px) calc(100vw - 6em), 200px\" alt=\"Feature Heather Graham 9 2614 Us Weekly Cover Story\" width=\"400\" height=\"225\" data-fallback-img=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Feature-Heather-Graham-9-2614-Us-Weekly-Cover-Story.jpg?quality=86&amp;strip=all\"\/><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p>\t\t<\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"article__content\">\n<h3 class=\"article__title\">\n\t\t\t<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"article__title-link related-ab-test\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-news\/news\/heather-graham-on-aging-in-hollywood-and-finding-love\/\" target=\"\" data-source=\"01\"><br \/>\n    <span class=\"related-badge\">Related: <\/span><span class=\"related-title\">Heather Graham on Aging, Dating and Making It Through Hollywood Unscathed<\/span><\/a><br \/>\n\t\t<\/h3>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p>\n\t\t\tWatching Heather Graham pose in a pair of baby-blue roller skates on a gorgeous L.A. day in late February, it\u2019s almost impossible to believe it\u2019s been nearly three decades since she starred as Rollergirl in Paul Thomas Anderson\u2019s cult classic Boogie Nights. While the actress hasn\u2019t changed much on the outside (she still has that [\u2026]\t\t<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>There have also been moments when the role blurred into something else entirely \u2014 namely, creative direction. \u201cOne time, I had an intimacy coordinator, and they started directing me on, like, how to have sex in a scene,\u201d Graham says. \u201cThey were like, \u2018When you do this, you can do this.\u2019 And I was like, \u2018You\u2019re not the director, OK? I\u2019m not asking for notes on how to have sex in the scene. I just felt, like, \u2018Shut up,\u2019\u201d she laughs. \u201cI\u2019m like, \u2018You can just tell this to the director\u2026 because I don\u2019t want to have two different people directing me.\u2019 It\u2019s confusing.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Still, Graham isn\u2019t dismissing <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/entertainment\/news\/hollywood-intimacy-coordinator-talks-choreographing-steamy-sex-scenes\/\">the role<\/a> altogether, and she can see how some actors could benefit. \u201cIt might be better if you\u2019re younger and don\u2019t know how to stand for yourself and speak up for yourself,\u201d shares the <em>Hangover<\/em> alum. \u201cAt this point, I feel like I\u2019m strong enough. So I just don\u2019t want a lot of extra people in the room.\u201d<\/p>\n<div id=\"news-block\">\n<div class=\"newsletter-form  \">\n<div class=\"newsletter-signup__success\" aria-live=\"polite\">\n<h3>Thank You!<\/h3>\n<p>You have successfully subscribed.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<figure class=\"wp-caption \">\n<div class=\"ratio-based-placeholder\" style=\"padding-bottom:67.7%;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large credit-added wp-image-4290790\" src=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Heather-Graham.jpg?w=1000&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all\" alt=\"Heather Graham\" width=\"1000\" height=\"677\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Heather-Graham.jpg?w=100&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 100w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Heather-Graham.jpg?w=200&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 200w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Heather-Graham.jpg?w=300&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 300w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Heather-Graham.jpg?w=400&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 400w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Heather-Graham.jpg?w=500&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 500w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Heather-Graham.jpg?w=600&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 600w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Heather-Graham.jpg?w=700&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 700w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Heather-Graham.jpg?w=800&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 800w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Heather-Graham.jpg?w=900&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 900w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Heather-Graham.jpg?w=1000&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 1000w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Heather-Graham.jpg?w=1200&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 1200w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Heather-Graham.jpg?w=1400&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 1400w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Heather-Graham.jpg?w=1600&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 1600w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Heather-Graham.jpg?w=1800&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 1800w, https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Heather-Graham.jpg?w=1920&amp;quality=86&amp;strip=all 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 680px) calc(100vw - 6em), (max-width: 1000px) 80vw, 1000px\"\/><\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\"><span class=\"credit\">New Line Cinema\/Everett Collection<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>That sense of confidence carried into her latest movie, too. Graham describes <em>They Will Kill You<\/em> as a mix of <em>Get Out<\/em> and <em>Rosemary\u2019s Baby<\/em>. \u201cIt\u2019s like <strong>Quentin Tarantino<\/strong> doing a horror movie,\u201d she says. \u201cIt\u2019s not just a slasher \u2014 there\u2019s a lot of fun and action in it as well.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Graham, who stars alongside <strong>Patricia Arquette<\/strong> and<strong> Zazie Beetz<\/strong>, tells <em>Us<\/em> she found new ways to challenge herself in the project, including taking on physically demanding scenes. \u201cIt was so fun to get to do something new,\u201d she says. \u201cZazie and I have a lot of fight scenes, and I definitely wanted to do some of <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/entertainment\/news\/do-hollywood-stunt-doubles-specialize-or-master-everything\/\">the stunts<\/a> myself. I didn\u2019t do all of them, but I did do a lot of them, and I would love to do more action and kick ass more.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>For more on Heather Graham, watch the exclusive video above and pick up the latest issue of<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/magazineshop.us\/collections\/us-weekly\"> <em>Us Weekly<\/em><\/a> \u2014 on newsstands now.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><em> \u2018 The preceding article may include information circulated by third parties \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em> \u2018 Some details of this article were extracted from the following source www.usmagazine.com \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s been nearly 30 years since Heather Graham skated her way into cinematic history as Rollergirl, the bubbly, naive porn actress in Paul Thomas Anderson\u2019s Boogie Nights. 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