{"id":2401727,"date":"2026-05-04T17:02:48","date_gmt":"2026-05-04T17:02:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/?p=2401727"},"modified":"2026-05-04T17:02:48","modified_gmt":"2026-05-04T17:02:48","slug":"rita-wilson-reveals-what-she-asked-of-tom-hanks-after-cancer-diagnosis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/rita-wilson-reveals-what-she-asked-of-tom-hanks-after-cancer-diagnosis\/","title":{"rendered":"Rita Wilson Reveals What She Asked of Tom Hanks After Cancer Diagnosis"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div data-article-body=\"true\">\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">When Rita Wilson was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2015, she didn\u2019t know if she was going to survive.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The diagnosis led Wilson to have a very difficult and honest conversation with her husband of now 28 years, Tom Hanks. During that conversation, Wilson had two important requests for Hanks.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">During a conversation with Demi Moore at the <em>Sound of a Woman: Rita Wilson in Conversation<\/em> event on Tuesday, Wilson revealed what those two requests were.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">She first explained that if she were to pass away, she didn\u2019t want her husband to move on too quickly.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\"><a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-yga=\"{\" ylinkelement=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.complex.com\/shop?utm_source=yahoo&amp;utm_medium=syndication&amp;utm_campaign=shop2025\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:COMPLEX SHOP: Shop the brands you love, anytime and anywhere. Uncover what's next. Buy. Collect. Obsess.;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \"><b>COMPLEX SHOP:<\/b> Shop the brands you love, anytime and anywhere. Uncover what&#8217;s next. Buy. Collect. Obsess.<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cI said to Tom, I\u2019m like, \u2018OK, if, if something happens and I go first, I just have two requests. And one is that you should be sad for a very, very long time,&#8217;\u201d the 69-year-old said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The next request she had was that if cancer were to take her life, she didn\u2019t want a traditional, sad funeral. Rather, she wanted her husband to throw her a \u201cparty.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cI want it to be a celebration of life,\u201d Wilson recalled. \u201cI want it to be about people telling stories and joy and remembering me in that way.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cAnd I think people, a lot of people want that, you know?\u201d she said. \u201cI think there\u2019s room for that.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Wilson\u2019s breast cancer was determined to be invasive and ultimately led her to undergo a double mastectomy and reconstructive surgery.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Wilson is both an actress and a singer, and revealed to Moore that her song \u201cThrow Me a Party, which was released in 2019, was inspired by that heart-to-heart conversation that she had with her husband after she was first diagnosed.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg 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