{"id":2419145,"date":"2026-05-16T04:55:37","date_gmt":"2026-05-16T04:55:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/?p=2419145"},"modified":"2026-05-16T04:55:37","modified_gmt":"2026-05-16T04:55:37","slug":"hayden-panettiere-reflects-on-dating-30-year-old-milo-ventimiglia-when-she-was-18","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/hayden-panettiere-reflects-on-dating-30-year-old-milo-ventimiglia-when-she-was-18\/","title":{"rendered":"Hayden Panettiere reflects on dating 30-year-old Milo Ventimiglia when she was 18"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div data-article-body=\"true\">\n<h3 class=\"mb-4 text-lg font-bold\">Key Points<\/h3>\n<ul class=\"mb-4\">\n<li class=\"ml-4 list-disc\">\n<div class=\"\">\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Hayden Panettiere is opening up about her life in her new book, <em>This Is Me: A Reckoning, <\/em>including her famous exes.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"ml-4 list-disc\">\n<div class=\"\">\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Panettiere dated her <em>Heroes<\/em> costar Milo Ventimiglia back when she was 18 and he was 30.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"ml-4 list-disc\">\n<div class=\"\">\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;At 18, I lived so much life that he almost couldn&#8217;t count me as being 18,&#8221; she tells EW.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\"><a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/ew.com\/person\/hayden-panettiere\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:Hayden Panettiere;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;Hayden Panettiere&quot;}\" class=\"link \">Hayden Panettiere<\/a> is looking back at her past relationship with former <em>Heroes<\/em> costar <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/ew.com\/person\/milo-ventimiglia\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:Milo Ventimiglia;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;Milo Ventimiglia&quot;}\" class=\"link \">Milo Ventimiglia<\/a> with a new life experience.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cThat&#8217;s hard. My daughter&#8217;s 11, so I&#8217;m trying to think of how I would feel,\u201d Panettiere, now 36, <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/ew.com\/hayden-panettiere-terrified-new-book-release-exclusive-11972447?link_source=ta_first_comment&amp;taid=6a0354693e6e860001ae422c&amp;utm_campaign=entertainmentweekly_entertainmentweekly&amp;utm_medium=social&amp;utm_source=facebook.com&amp;utm_term=6a0354693e6e860001ae422b\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:tells Entertainment Weekly;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;tells Entertainment Weekly&quot;}\" class=\"link \">tells <em>Entertainment Weekly<\/em><\/a> in an <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/ew.com\/hayden-panettiere-kristen-stewart-meet-panic-room-recast-11972589\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:exclusive interview;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;exclusive interview&quot;}\" class=\"link \">exclusive interview<\/a> about her upcoming book, <em>This Is Me: A Reckoning<\/em>, when asked about her nearly 12-year age gap with Ventimiglia.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cI&#8217;m sure she&#8217;s going to do exactly what Mommy did,\u201d the actress continues. \u201cI&#8217;m ready and prepared for it, but I think it&#8217;s about the person. I was working with him all the time. My family knew him well. I was also &#8230; At 18, I lived so much life that he almost couldn&#8217;t count me as being 18. So Milo and I, even though he was 30, had a lot more in common than people might think.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Panettiere and Ventimiglia, now 48, met on the set of NBC\u2019s <em>Heroes<\/em>, playing cheerleader Claire and hospice nurse Peter, respectively, in 2006. The pair dated for nearly two years, starting their romance when she was just 18 and he was 30. They called it quits in 2009.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cBut if it was somebody that was inappropriate, if it came off inappropriate or was somebody that my parents were like, \u2018No, this is just a creepy situation,\u2019 then they never would&#8217;ve allowed it to happen,\u201d Panettiere adds.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The <em>Nashville<\/em> alum writes about Ventimiglia in her new book, out May 19.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cEvery relationship I\u2019ve ever been in, I invested my whole self in,\u201d she told <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-news\/news\/hayden-panettiere-gets-honest-on-loss-addiction-more\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:Us Weekly;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;Us Weekly&quot;}\" class=\"link \"><em>Us Weekly <\/em><\/a>when asked about Ventimiglia earlier this month. \u201cI saw him as my partner and that it was going to hopefully keep going and evolving and lead to marriage.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">She noted that the relationship was formative for her.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\"><strong><em>Get your daily dose of entertainment news, celebrity updates, and what to watch with our <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/ew.com\/ew-dispatch-newsletter-11812417\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:EW Dispatch newsletter;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;EW Dispatch newsletter&quot;}\" class=\"link \">EW Dispatch newsletter<\/a>.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cBut it was a point of contention that I was unable to put the \u2018I\u2019 in front of \u2018love you\u2019 and at the time, I didn\u2019t realize or understand why it made me feel so uncomfortable. I could only say \u2018love you\u2019 in a casual way,\u201d she said. \u201cBeing older, he was much more aware of what that meant. And that said a lot.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">While Panettiere writes positive things about the <em>Gilmore Girls<\/em> alum, their initial breakup was a low point for her. (In the book, she reveals that Ventimiglia ended things but took her back a week later because she was so emotional about the split.)<\/p>\n<figure class=\"relative mb-4\">\n<div class=\"relative\"><\/div><figcaption class=\"relative text-sm mt-1 pr-2.5\">\n<p><i>&#8216;This Is Me: A Reckoning&#8217; by Hayden Panettiere<br \/>Credit: Grand Central Publishing<\/i><\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cOne hundred percent it was only because I was over the toilet, hysterically crying,\u201d she said of their brief reconciliation. \u201cIt was like my world had crumbled. It was so out of left field, nothing that big or explosive had happened. Nothing had really gone wrong. Nobody cheated. I remember the look on his face being pure shock at how visceral and massive my negative reaction was, and he immediately took it back.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Not long after their second breakup, Panettiere met Ukrainian boxer Wladimir Klitschko, with whom she shares daughter Kaya. The two ended their on-again, off-again relationship in 2018, something else Panettiere explores in the book.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cI&#8217;ve been in this industry for my entire life and there&#8217;ve been a lot of stories and preconceived ideas of who I am since I was about \u2014 that really started at 16 years old,\u201d she told EW. \u201cI get to tell people the truth. I get to tell them what really happened, and what really happened is generally more entertaining than anything that anyone could come up with.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Read the original article on <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/ew.com\/hayden-panettiere-dating-30-year-old-milo-ventimiglia-at-18-11976138\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:Entertainment Weekly;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;Entertainment Weekly&quot;}\" class=\"link \">Entertainment Weekly<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><em> \u2018 The preceding article may include information circulated by third parties \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em> \u2018 Some details of this article were extracted from the following source www.yahoo.com \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Key Points Hayden Panettiere is opening up about her life in her new book, This Is Me: A Reckoning, including her famous exes. 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