{"id":2446148,"date":"2026-06-05T10:30:08","date_gmt":"2026-06-05T10:30:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/?p=2446148"},"modified":"2026-06-05T10:30:08","modified_gmt":"2026-06-05T10:30:08","slug":"death-cabs-ben-gibbard-on-enduring-divorce-and-going-indie-again","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/death-cabs-ben-gibbard-on-enduring-divorce-and-going-indie-again\/","title":{"rendered":"Death Cab’s Ben Gibbard on enduring divorce and going indie again"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Ben Gibbard remembers late 2023 as a time of competing realities.<\/p>\n

Onstage, the frontman of Death Cab for Cutie and the Postal Service was thriving as his two bands toured together<\/a> to mark the 20th anniversaries of Death Cab\u2019s \u201cTransatlanticism\u201d and the Postal Service\u2019s \u201cGive Up.\u201d<\/p>\n

Behind the scenes, Gibbard\u2019s personal life was in shambles.<\/p>\n

\u201cI was getting off phone calls \u2014 very difficult phone calls \u2014 20 minutes before going on in an arena,\u201d he says. The singer and his wife, photographer Rachel Demy, were in the middle of an agonizing breakup that would eventually lead to divorce. Yet audiences in the thousands were turning up nightly to see Gibbard reanimate the peak-millennial classics that made him one of indie rock\u2019s defining stars.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019d just tell myself, You\u2019re a professional \u2014 you\u2019re gonna go out there and do it, and no one\u2019s gonna know,\u201d he recalls. \u201cIt was all waiting for me when I got offstage, of course. But for two hours I was able to disconnect and be a performer, which was incredibly \u2026\u201d Gibbard, 49, trails off into a laugh.<\/p>\n

\u201cI don\u2019t know if it was healthy,\u201d he says. \u201cBut it was helpful.\u201d<\/p>\n

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