{"id":2451212,"date":"2026-06-09T10:20:48","date_gmt":"2026-06-09T10:20:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/?p=2451212"},"modified":"2026-06-09T10:20:48","modified_gmt":"2026-06-09T10:20:48","slug":"jennifer-lopez-reveals-just-how-a-man-can-get-her-attention","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/jennifer-lopez-reveals-just-how-a-man-can-get-her-attention\/","title":{"rendered":"Jennifer Lopez Reveals Just How a Man Can Get Her Attention"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrities\/jennifer-lopez\/\"><strong>Jennifer Lopez<\/strong><\/a>\u2019s love don\u2019t cost a thing, but a man must be willing to put in the work to get her attention.<\/p>\n<p>The <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-news\/news\/jennifer-lopez-addresses-dating-rumors-with-brett-goldstein\/\"><em>Office Romance<\/em><\/a> star, 56, was quizzed about her love life during a Monday, June 8, appearance on <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/shows\/watch-what-happens-live-with-andy-cohen\/\"><em>Watch What Happens Live With Andy Cohen<\/em><\/a>, revealing that she isn\u2019t one for social media communication.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDo you check your DMs, Jennifer?\u201d host <strong>Andy Cohen<\/strong> asked her, to which Lopez emphatically replied, \u201cNo.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Cohen, 58, pressed further, \u201cWhat if some amazing Spanish soccer player DMs you?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI think they would be able to find me, no? If you really wanted to find me, you could find me,\u201d Lopez shared.<\/p>\n<p>Cohen responded, \u201c[But] not through Instagram\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Lopez said, \u201cYou\u2019re not going to find me through Instagram or sliding into my DMs. You have to make more of an effort than that.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The \u201cDance Again\u201d singer has been single since her <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-news\/news\/jennifer-lopez-divorce-from-ben-affleck-changed-her-life\/\">split from ex-husband<strong> Ben Affleck<\/strong><\/a> in 2024. The couple\u2019s whirlwind romance first began in 2002 when they met on the set of the movie <em>Gigli<\/em>. They quickly got engaged but called off their September 2003 wedding just days before it was set to take place and eventually split up in January 2004.<\/p>\n<div class=\"link-related article link-related__with-thumb\">\n\t\t\t<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"article__thumbnail related-ab-test\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-news\/pictures\/ben-affleck-and-jennifer-lopezs-relationship-timeline\/\" target=\"\" data-source=\"00\"><\/p>\n<figure class=\"article__figure\">\n<div style=\"padding-bottom:56.25%;\" class=\"ratio-based-placeholder\"><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p>\t\t<\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"article__content\">\n<h3 class=\"article__title\">\n\t\t\t<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"article__title-link related-ab-test\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-news\/pictures\/ben-affleck-and-jennifer-lopezs-relationship-timeline\/\" target=\"\" data-source=\"00\"><br \/>\n    <span class=\"related-badge\">Related: <\/span><span class=\"related-title\">Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez\u2019s Relationship Timeline<\/span><\/a><br \/>\n\t\t<\/h3>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p>\n\t\t\tThe word \u201cBennifer\u201d might include flashbacks to frosted lip gloss and butterfly clips, but everything comes back in style eventually. Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez got back together nearly 20 years after their romance first took the world by storm. The pair first connected in 2002 on the set of the ill-fated Gigli. The movie [\u2026]\t\t<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>Fast forward to 2021 and the exes reunited, marrying in Las Vegas in July 2022, followed by an intimate ceremony in Georgia in August that year.<\/p>\n<p>Lopez filed for divorce from Affleck, 53, in August 2024, and the marriage was officially dissolved in January 2025.<\/p>\n<p>During a May appearance on <em>Jimmy Kimmel Live!<\/em>, <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-news\/news\/jennifer-lopez-opens-up-about-being-happily-single\/\">Lopez said she was happy flying solo<\/a> for the time being.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou\u2019re single right now,\u201d host Jimmy Kimmel noted, prompting Lopez to reply, \u201cI am. I should have done it sooner! I\u2019ve been doing it all wrong. Trust me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m not doing anything to ruin how I feel right now. It\u2019s fantastic. I love it,\u201d she said of being single.<\/p>\n<p>In March, the actress and singer <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-news\/news\/why-jennifer-lopez-took-time-off-after-ben-affleck-divorce\/\">reflected on her split from Affleck<\/a> during an appearance on <em>Good Morning America<\/em>.<\/p>\n<div id=\"news-block\">\n<div class=\"newsletter-form  \">\n\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/themes\/us-weekly\/assets\/img\/newsletter-bg-narrow.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"newsletter-form__background background-narrow\" loading=\"lazy\"\/><br \/>\n\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/themes\/us-weekly\/assets\/img\/newsletter-bg-wide.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"newsletter-form__background background-wide\" loading=\"lazy\"\/><\/p>\n<div class=\"newsletter-signup__success\" aria-live=\"polite\">\n<h3>Thank You!<\/h3>\n<p>You have successfully subscribed.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<p>\u201cI took a year off,\u201d Lopez said, explaining that she had to \u201cstop everything\u201d after the separation. \u201cI canceled tours. I decided to just be home and sit in what had happened without running away from it through work, through another person, through anything. Just sit.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI was just at a point where I was like, \u2018What is going on with you?\u2019\u201d she continued. \u201cI couldn\u2019t blame anybody else because I don\u2019t think that\u2019s where the lesson is. And so, I really needed to figure myself out.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Lopez added, \u201cI feel like for the first time in my life, I\u2019m free. I\u2019m on my own. It feels really good. I didn\u2019t really know what that felt like since I was in my early 20s, and even before that I always had a boyfriend. There was always someone in my life and so many other things that I felt were out of my control. I\u2019ve gotten to the point where I really trust myself and appreciate myself a little bit more.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><em> \u2018 The preceding article may include information circulated by third parties \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em> \u2018 Some details of this article were extracted from the following source www.usmagazine.com \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jennifer Lopez\u2019s love don\u2019t cost a thing, but a man must be willing to put in the work to get her attention. 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