{"id":2453414,"date":"2026-06-10T20:38:44","date_gmt":"2026-06-10T20:38:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/?p=2453414"},"modified":"2026-06-10T20:38:44","modified_gmt":"2026-06-10T20:38:44","slug":"beartooth-singer-caleb-shomo-recalls-coming-out-to-wife","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/beartooth-singer-caleb-shomo-recalls-coming-out-to-wife\/","title":{"rendered":"Beartooth Singer Caleb Shomo Recalls Coming Out to Wife"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-news\/news\/who-is-caleb-shomo-what-to-know-about-the-beartooth-singer\/\"><strong>Caleb Shomo<\/strong><\/a> opened up the moment he knew he was ready to come out to wife <strong>Fleur Shomo<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI was in the shower trying to talk myself into saying something as I had been many times. And thankfully, I kind of smacked myself in the face. I was like, \u2018It\u2019s f***ing time,\u2019\u201d the Beartooth frontman, 33, said on the Wednesday, June 10, episode of <strong>Katie Maloney<\/strong> and <strong>Dayna Kathan<\/strong>\u2019s <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=oGDvzp354_E&amp;list=PL_Kk6S8tOmIAYkYWWXMTUoZ6Jz18ITRCJ&amp;index=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u201cDisrespectfully\u201d<\/a> podcast. \u201cAnd then I said something to my then-wife about how I feel about men and how I never really allowed myself to explore this. But I have to tell you, I can\u2019t not. And it was just a road from there.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Shomo decided to be candid about his sexuality with Fleur, 32, during a trip to Palm Springs after feeling \u201cso safe\u201d to share his true thoughts.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI never allowed myself to go down any of those roads to the best of my f***ing ability in my nondreaming state of mind,\u201d he recalled. \u201cDoing every thing I can to just f***ing keep this at bay.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"link-related article link-related__with-thumb\">\n\t\t\t<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"article__thumbnail related-ab-test\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-news\/news\/who-is-caleb-shomos-wife-fleur-shamo-what-to-know\/\" target=\"\" data-source=\"01\"><\/p>\n<figure class=\"article__figure\">\n<div style=\"padding-bottom:56.25%;\" class=\"ratio-based-placeholder\"><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p>\t\t<\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"article__content\">\n<h3 class=\"article__title\">\n\t\t\t<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"article__title-link related-ab-test\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-news\/news\/who-is-caleb-shomos-wife-fleur-shamo-what-to-know\/\" target=\"\" data-source=\"01\"><br \/>\n    <span class=\"related-badge\">Related: <\/span><span class=\"related-title\">Who Is Caleb Shomo\u2019s Wife? What to Know About Fleur Shomo<\/span><\/a><br \/>\n\t\t<\/h3>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p>\n\t\t\tFleur Shomo has been by husband Caleb Shomo\u2019s side long before he publicly came out. Caleb and Fleur were first linked in 2010 and tied the knot two years later. Since then, Fleur has been by Caleb\u2019s side while he was in the band Attack Attack before becoming Beartooth\u2019s frontman. In May 2026, Caleb came [\u2026]\t\t<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>Shomo also shared he felt \u201cterrified\u201d to acknowledge the feelings he had pushed down for so many years.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI was just bawling my f***ing eyes out, trying so hard to verbalize and I really struggle to verbalize things,\u201d he admitted. \u201cAnd this is obviously such an intense thing, and I\u2019m feeling so nervous and so scared in the situation that it was really, really difficult to verbalize, and I didn\u2019t verbalize it very well. I tried my best. I\u2019m trying to give myself grace and understand it\u2019s a journey.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Shomo was able to explain to Fleur that he had feelings for men and had been \u201crunning from\u201d that idea \u201cfor a long f***ing time.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI don\u2019t think I want to run anymore,\u201d he recalled of their heart-to-heart conversation. \u201cThen after that, the f***ing hinges got ripped out.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>After coming out, Shomo felt like everything started to \u201cmake sense\u201d and some of the negative feelings he had about himself started to dissipate.<\/p>\n<p>Last month, Shomo came out about his sexuality in a public statement.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThere has been a lot of speculation surrounding my personal life as of late and I feel compelled to set the record straight before it affects those I love any further. I am a proudly gay man,\u201d the musician wrote via Instagram in May. \u201cThis is something I\u2019ve been unpacking and reckoning with in my life for quite some time now. It\u2019s been difficult to navigate the feelings surrounding the subject and figure out what to do with this fact.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Shortly after Caleb\u2019s post went viral, Fleur <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/entertainment\/news\/caleb-shomos-wife-breaks-silence-after-singer-says-hes-gay\/\">expressed her support<\/a> for him.<\/p>\n<div id=\"news-block\">\n<div class=\"newsletter-form  \">\n\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/themes\/us-weekly\/assets\/img\/newsletter-bg-narrow.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"newsletter-form__background background-narrow\" loading=\"lazy\"\/><br \/>\n\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/themes\/us-weekly\/assets\/img\/newsletter-bg-wide.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"newsletter-form__background background-wide\" loading=\"lazy\"\/><\/p>\n<div class=\"newsletter-signup__success\" aria-live=\"polite\">\n<h3>Thank You!<\/h3>\n<p>You have successfully subscribed.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<p>\u201cOur nearly 14yrs of marriage was wonderful and full of so much fun, adventure &amp; love. Nobody will know anything about our marriage like we do. And no one can ever truly know what depths of love exist between two people unless they are those people,\u201d she wrote, in part, via Instagram at the time. \u201cI already miss it &amp; my husband more than anything. Our story was a good one. And now it\u2019s done.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Looking back on it now, Caleb feels \u201cgood\u201d about where he is now and is proud to be living his truth. However, he was surprised by some of the reactions he saw online.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m very happy I did it and it feels like a weight lifted,\u201d Caleb said on Wednesday. \u201cBut at the same time it was just so eye opening and kind of scary realizing how many people are so deeply, deeply opposed to this and opposed to being gay in general. Let alone me being the position that I am in and the music scene that I am in and frankly my life leading up until it.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><em> \u2018 The preceding article may include information circulated by third parties \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em> \u2018 Some details of this article were extracted from the following source www.usmagazine.com \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Caleb Shomo opened up the moment he knew he was ready to come out to wife Fleur Shomo. \u201cI was in the shower trying to talk myself into saying something as I had been many times. And thankfully, I kind of smacked myself in the face. I was like, \u2018It\u2019s f***ing time,\u2019\u201d the Beartooth frontman, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":2453415,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_social_meta":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[25177],"tags":[22367,24003,359953],"class_list":["post-2453414","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-celebrities","tag-celebrity","tag-celebrity-news","tag-gay-pride"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Beartooth-Singer-Caleb-Shomo-Recalls-Coming-Out-to-Wife.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2453414","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2453414"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2453414\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2453416,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2453414\/revisions\/2453416"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2453415"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2453414"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2453414"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2453414"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}