{"id":2464255,"date":"2026-06-17T18:43:38","date_gmt":"2026-06-17T18:43:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/?p=2464255"},"modified":"2026-06-17T18:43:38","modified_gmt":"2026-06-17T18:43:38","slug":"olivia-wilde-knew-relationship-with-ex-fiance-jason-sudeikis-was-over-when-he-asked-this-question","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/olivia-wilde-knew-relationship-with-ex-fiance-jason-sudeikis-was-over-when-he-asked-this-question\/","title":{"rendered":"Olivia Wilde knew relationship with ex-fianc\u00e9 Jason Sudeikis was over when he asked this question"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div data-article-body=\"true\">\n<h3 class=\"mb-4 text-lg font-bold\">Key Points<\/h3>\n<ul class=\"mb-4\">\n<li class=\"ml-4 list-disc\">\n<div class=\"\">\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">On Wednesday, Olivia Wilde revealed the exact moment she realized her relationship with ex-fianc\u00e9 Jason Sudeikis was over.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"ml-4 list-disc\">\n<div class=\"\">\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The<em> Don&#8217;t Worry Darling<\/em> filmmaker said that it happened on her 36th birthday in 2020.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"ml-4 list-disc\">\n<div class=\"\">\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;I said, \u2018Did you give me a birthday present? And he said, \u2018What would I get you, Olivia? I don&#8217;t know you,'&#8221; she said on the <em>Call Her Daddy<\/em> podcast.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\"><a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/ew.com\/person\/olivia-wilde\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:Olivia Wilde;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;Olivia Wilde&quot;}\" class=\"link \">Olivia Wilde<\/a> is sharing the exact moment that she and ex-fianc\u00e9 <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/ew.com\/person\/jason-sudeikis\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:Jason Sudeikis;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;Jason Sudeikis&quot;}\" class=\"link \">Jason Sudeikis<\/a> knew their almost decade-long relationship was over.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">During Wednesday&#8217;s episode of the <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=2xLOnvD5Czc\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:Call Her Daddy;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;Call Her Daddy&quot;}\" class=\"link \"><em>Call Her Daddy<\/em><\/a> podcast, the <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/ew.com\/dont-worry-darling\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:Don\u2019t Worry Darling;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;Don\u2019t Worry Darling&quot;}\" class=\"link \"><em>Don\u2019t Worry Darling<\/em><\/a> filmmaker recalled a cutting conversation that she had with the <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/ew.com\/ted-lasso\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:Ted Lasso;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;Ted Lasso&quot;}\" class=\"link \"><em>Ted Lasso<\/em><\/a> creator while on the way home from her 36th birthday party.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cIt\u2019s no surprise to me that I ended up making a movie about relationships and the complexity of determining whether a relationship is over, because it is not an overnight process,\u201d Wilde said, referring to her new film <em>The Invite<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cIt&#8217;s very difficult. And the idea that relationships can come to a place where you become strangers,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"relative mb-4\">\n<div class=\"relative\"><button aria-label=\"View larger image\" class=\"group absolute bottom-0 size-full\" data-ylk=\"elm:expand;itc:1;sec:image-lightbox;slk:lightbox-open;\"><span class=\"absolute bottom-3 right-3 rounded-full bg-primary p-3 opacity-100 shadow-elevation-3 transition-opacity duration-300 group-hover:block group-hover:opacity-100 md:p-[17px] lg:bottom-6 lg:right-6 lg:bg-primary\/90 lg:p-5 lg:opacity-0 lg:shadow-none\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"24\" height=\"24\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" aria-hidden=\"true\" focusable=\"false\" class=\"flex-none size-4 -scale-x-100 text-primary lg:size-6 [&amp;_path]:fill-current\"><path fill=\"currentColor\" d=\"M3.1 3.1V11h1.8V6.314l5.392 5.393 1.415-1.414L6.313 4.9H11V3.1zm17.8 17.8V13h-1.8v4.686l-5.393-5.393-1.415 1.414 5.393 5.393H13v1.8z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/button><dialog aria-label=\"Modal Dialog\" aria-modal=\"true\" class=\"fixed bottom-0 left-0 right-0 top-0 z-4 size-full max-h-none max-w-none bg-primary hidden\"\/><\/div><figcaption class=\"relative text-sm mt-1 pr-2.5\">\n<p><i>Olivia Wilde and Jason Sudeikis at the Critics&#8217; Choice Awards in 2020<br \/>Credit: Steve Granitz\/WireImage<\/i><\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">She explained that everything came to a head on her birthday on March 10, 2020.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cJason and I had been having a rough time for a while. We had a real bumpy, bumpy ride,\u201d Wilde said. \u201cWe were driving home from my birthday party my friends had had, and I said, \u2018Did you give me a birthday present? And he said, \u2018What would I get you, Olivia? I don&#8217;t know you.\u2019 And he wasn&#8217;t wrong. We didn&#8217;t know each other anymore.\u201d <\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">She credits the moment as \u201cone of the things\u201d that inspired <em>The Invite<\/em>, explaining how \u201cyou can get to a place in a relationship where you stop engaging in the knowing of each other, in the curiosity about each other.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cAnd you find yourself in a place where you&#8217;re like, \u2018I don&#8217;t even know you,\u2019&#8221; Wilde continued. &#8220;And that was a point, that was when we realized it was over. And it was f&#8212;ing tough. And it brought us to the place of like, \u2018Okay, this is done. We&#8217;re going to end this.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\"><strong><em>Get your daily dose of entertainment news, celebrity updates, and what to watch with\u00a0our\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/ew.com\/ew-dispatch-newsletter-11812417\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:EW Dispatch newsletter;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;EW Dispatch newsletter&quot;}\" class=\"link \"><strong><em>EW Dispatch newsletter<\/em><\/strong><\/a><strong><em>.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Their split occurred just days before the world went into lockdown during the COVID-19 pandemic.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cIt&#8217;d be really funny to have a convention of, like, everybody who broke up the day before lockdown and then had to live and then be, like, we are now co-parenting in the same house,\u201d Wilde added. \u201cAnd, obviously, trying to make it work and trying to put it back together because you want to always put it back together for your kids until you realize, like, this isn&#8217;t helping anybody.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Wilde and Sudeikis began dating in 2011 and got engaged in January 2013. Over the course of their nine-year relationship, the pair had two children together \u2014 son Otis and daughter Daisy \u2014 before ultimately announcing their separation in November 2020.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">On the <em>Call Her Daddy <\/em>podcast, Wilde also discussed <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/ew.com\/olivia-wilde-jason-sudeikis-custody-papers-cinemacon-tom-cruise-reaction-12000607\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:receiving child custody papers from Sudeikis while on stage at CinemaCon in 2022;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;receiving child custody papers from Sudeikis while on stage at CinemaCon in 2022&quot;}\" class=\"link \">receiving child custody papers from Sudeikis while on stage at CinemaCon in 2022<\/a>, calling the incident \u201cone of the most f\u2011\u2011\u2011ed up things\u201d she went through at the time.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cJason has told me that he did not know, and I need to believe that to continue [our co-parenting dynamic],\u201d she said. \u201cI think that lawyers can be super f\u2011\u2011\u2011ed up and do f\u2011\u2011\u2011ed up things. I\u2019m aware of that, and all of that, but I think that people are never their best selves when they\u2019re engaging in that kind of process.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">\u201cIt was so f\u2011\u2011\u2011ed up in so many ways,&#8221; she added. &#8220;I know that, whether or not he knew it was going to happen, I know it really hurt him to see it happening to me. It was undeniable that it was a f\u2011\u2011\u2011ed up thing and I know he felt very bad that it happened to me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Read the original article on <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/ew.com\/olivia-wilde-knew-it-was-over-when-ex-jason-sudeikis-asked-this-question-12000842\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:Entertainment Weekly;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;Entertainment Weekly&quot;}\" class=\"link \">Entertainment Weekly<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><em> \u2018 The preceding article may include information circulated by third parties \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em> \u2018 Some details of this article were extracted from the following source www.yahoo.com \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Key Points On Wednesday, Olivia Wilde revealed the exact moment she realized her relationship with ex-fianc\u00e9 Jason Sudeikis was over. The Don&#8217;t Worry Darling filmmaker said that it happened on her 36th birthday in 2020. &#8220;I said, \u2018Did you give me a birthday present? And he said, \u2018What would I get you, Olivia? 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