posted a bare-faced selfie<\/a> and offered some words of inspiration.<\/p>\n\u201cI\u2019d like to share something with you that might help with some challenges you may have gone or are going through,\u201d she wrote on July 6. \u201cThe revelatory lesson I was able to learn in the last few years was this\u2014unless and until you take care of the original shame that never ever belonged to you, someone will come along and try to use that vulnerability to take advantage of you … You will never control someone else\u2019s behavior, nor should you. That\u2019s on them. What you can control is your reaction and what you take away from it. Will you wallow in it or will you get your ass back up and learn something from it? Your work is within yourself. Focus on that. It\u2019s none of your business what other people think of you.\u201d<\/p>\n