{"id":2513041,"date":"2026-07-22T19:41:21","date_gmt":"2026-07-22T19:41:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/?p=2513041"},"modified":"2026-07-22T19:41:21","modified_gmt":"2026-07-22T19:41:21","slug":"taylor-frankie-paul-on-dealing-with-hate-amid-custody-drama","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/taylor-frankie-paul-on-dealing-with-hate-amid-custody-drama\/","title":{"rendered":"Taylor Frankie Paul on Dealing With Hate Amid Custody Drama"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrities\/taylor-frankie-paul\/\"><strong>Taylor Frankie Paul<\/strong><\/a> is sharing her best tips for dealing with hate.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFor starters, allow yourself to cry, it\u2019s not a weakness to feel hurt by hate,\u201d Paul, 32, wrote in a text to a friend who asked for advice, as seen in a screenshot shared via her Instagram Story on Tuesday, July 21. \u201cThat\u2019s human of you, and hate only comes from below. Their hate says more about THEM than it does you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The <em>Secret Lives of Mormon Wives<\/em> star continued, \u201cWith that being said, hate is a sign of growth. If you don\u2019t have haters, you\u2019re not doing s***. The more support and growth that builds, unfortunately, so does the noise.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Paul added that she\u2019s \u201clearned over time their hate, opinions, projections, judgments, assumptions are none of my business.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She concluded, \u201cThat\u2019s for them to figure out. It can get heavy at times. You\u2019ve shown me grace through scrutiny, so remember to allow that for yourself too. I got you. He\u2019s got you. Now go cry \u2026 it always helps. I\u2019ll be doing the same.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Taylor\u2019s advice comes amid her <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-news\/news\/taylor-frankie-defends-herself-amid-custody-fight-with-exes\/\">ongoing custody battle<\/a>s with exes <strong>Tate Paul<\/strong> and <strong>Dakota Mortensen<\/strong>. (The reality star shares kids Indy, 8, and Ocean, 6, with Tate and son Ever, 2, with Mortensen, 33.)<\/p>\n<p>After taking a plea deal in a 2023 domestic violence case, Taylor was involved in a separate altercation with Mortensen that was investigated by Utah\u2019s Draper City Police Department in February. Both parties publicly denied each other\u2019s domestic violence allegations. (Amid the investigation, Taylor\u2019s season of <em>The Bachelorette<\/em> was pulled from ABC\u2019s spring schedule.)<\/p>\n<p>The Salt Lake County District Attorney\u2019s Office later declined to file criminal charges against Taylor in April.<\/p>\n<p>Mortensen was then awarded temporary custody of Ever, with Taylor restricted to eight-hour weekly supervised visitation. A judge subsequently signed orders of protection for Mortensen and Taylor, requiring them to stay 100 feet apart for a period of three years. (Their custody agreement was changed earlier this month to allow Taylor more unsupervised time with Ever, while Mortensen was given longer weekends.)<\/p>\n<div class=\"link-related article link-related__with-thumb\">\n\t\t\t<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"article__thumbnail related-ab-test\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-news\/news\/taylor-frankie-pauls-exes-dakota-tate-react-to-dcfs-concerns\/\" target=\"\" data-source=\"01\"><\/p>\n<figure class=\"article__figure\">\n<div style=\"padding-bottom:56.25%;\" class=\"ratio-based-placeholder\"><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p>\t\t<\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"article__content\">\n<h3 class=\"article__title\">\n\t\t\t<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"article__title-link related-ab-test\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-news\/news\/taylor-frankie-pauls-exes-dakota-tate-react-to-dcfs-concerns\/\" target=\"\" data-source=\"01\"><br \/>\n    <span class=\"related-badge\">Related: <\/span><span class=\"related-title\">Taylor Frankie Paul&#8217;s Exes Dakota and Tate React to DCFS&#8217; Parenting Concerns<\/span><\/a><br \/>\n\t\t<\/h3>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p>\n\t\t\tTaylor Frankie Paul\u2019s exes Dakota Mortensen and Tate Paul are breaking their silence after the Division of Child and Family Services raised concerns about her parenting. \u201cTate Paul and Dakota Mortensen have remained publicly silent throughout these proceedings to avoid having serious private family matters turned into more of a public spectacle than they already [\u2026]\t\t<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>Meanwhile, following Taylor\u2019s brief and voluntary stint in a rehab facility in early July, Tate requested an emergency change to their custody agreement for Indy and Ocean. The motion was denied.<\/p>\n<p>Last week, Utah\u2019s Division of Child and Family Services <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/celebrity-news\/news\/taylor-frankie-pauls-mom-addresses-abuse-neglect-claims\/\">raised concerns about Taylor\u2019s three children<\/a> and asked a juvenile court to order protective supervision services because it found that her three children were \u201cabused, neglected or dependent.\u201d<\/p>\n<div id=\"news-block\">\n<div class=\"newsletter-form  \">\n\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/themes\/us-weekly\/assets\/img\/newsletter-bg-narrow.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"newsletter-form__background background-narrow\" loading=\"lazy\"\/><br \/>\n\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/wp-content\/themes\/us-weekly\/assets\/img\/newsletter-bg-wide.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"newsletter-form__background background-wide\" loading=\"lazy\"\/><\/p>\n<div class=\"newsletter-signup__success\" aria-live=\"polite\">\n<h3>Thank You!<\/h3>\n<p>You have successfully subscribed.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<p>Taylor\u2019s legal team reacted to the DCFS report in a statement to <em>Us<\/em>, saying, \u201cIt was recently decided that the ongoing custody actions would be best suited for juvenile court, a common step for families engaged in highly contentious, complex custody matters. Taylor is not deterred by this transition; she welcomes the added structure and oversight it provides and looks forward to continuing her progress toward normalizing custody and becoming the healthiest version of herself.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Attorneys for Mortensen and Tate argued that the DCFS petition was \u201cnot a routine transition to juvenile court or an opportunity for personal growth\u201d since it determined that \u201cthe children are abused.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDespite the myriad false accusations published online and on social media about them by Taylor and others, Tate and Dakota have chosen to not participate in the often misconstrued social media and other online activity surrounding their cases,\u201d they added. \u201cThey have remained silent to protect their children, not because they have nothing to say. When the time is right, they will tell their story in their own words in the appropriate forum.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><em> \u2018 The preceding article may include information circulated by third parties \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em> \u2018 Some details of this article were extracted from the following source www.usmagazine.com \u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Taylor Frankie Paul is sharing her best tips for dealing with hate. \u201cFor starters, allow yourself to cry, it\u2019s not a weakness to feel hurt by hate,\u201d Paul, 32, wrote in a text to a friend who asked for advice, as seen in a screenshot shared via her Instagram Story on Tuesday, July 21. \u201cThat\u2019s [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":2513042,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_social_meta":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[25177],"tags":[24003,21738],"class_list":["post-2513041","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-celebrities","tag-celebrity-news","tag-news"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/Taylor-Frankie-Paul-on-Dealing-With-Hate-Amid-Custody-Drama.jpeg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2513041","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2513041"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2513041\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2513043,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2513041\/revisions\/2513043"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2513042"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2513041"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2513041"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/celebrity.land\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2513041"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}