Celebrities Who Are Open About Gender Fluidity and Being Non-Binary

Nico Tortorella, the breakout star of TV Land’s “Younger,” originally came out as gender-fluid in a 2018 video for Them, describing himself as “not fully cisgender.”

Tortorella also wrote about his approach to gender, sexuality, and monogamy in the 2019 book, “Space Between,” including his polyamorous marriage to Bethany C. Meyers.

“When Bethany and I met in 2006, I was a boy and she was a girl, whatever that means,” Tortorella wrote. “Today Bethany and I both identify as nonbinary.”

Tortorella has also written about gender identity on Instagram.

“We are ALL multidimensional dynamic creatures and as much as I understand the spectrum, the less I believe in the binary of gender, the more liberated I myself am becoming,” he wrote in 2018.

Tortorella primarily used they/them for several years but has since said he prefers masculine pronouns.

“I use he/him pronouns at this point,” Tortorella said on his podcast “Full of Shift,” which he launched with Meyers in 2024. “Not to say that we’re, like, opposed to they/them pronouns… I just really don’t care about it in the same ways that I did back in the day.”

“I feel like a man more than I ever have in my entire life right now,” he added. “That’s not to say that I won’t feel more fluid in the future.”