Hanging on a wall inside Susan Lang’s Hendersonville home is a picture of her son, Jeffrey Lang, and his childhood friend, a girl named Taylor Swift.
Before she lived the life of a showgirl and wowed crowds with her lush stadium tours and lavish costumes, Swift was a high school student in Hendersonville, Tennessee. In the photo, she’s sporting a camouflage shirt and smiling with Jeffrey Lang, who’s wearing a backwards University of Alabama ball cap and red t-shirt.
Anytime Swift would write a song, Jeffrey Lang was the first to hear it, his mom said.
So when Susan Lang heard the song “Ruin the Friendship” from Swift’s 12th studio album, “The Life of a Showgirl,” she knew it was about her son.
In the song, Swift gets ultra personal about her Middle Tennessee roots as she sings about her time in school and the regrets she had not kissing a former classmate. While he is not named, it is possible Jeffery Lang is the friend she’s referencing.
Jeffrey Lang died suddenly in November 2010, days after Swift released her album “Speak Now.” He was 21 and a junior at the University of Tennessee Chattanooga, majoring in biology.
At the 2010 BMI Awards in Nashville, Swift was honored as country songwriter of the year, where she spoke about the death of Jeffrey Lang and thanked him.
About 20 years after the two posed for the picture hanging on Susan Lang’s wall, Swift is reliving her adolescence and that developing romantic feeling she had for the boy in her new album.
In “Ruin The Friendship,” Swift sings about “glistening grass from September rain” and Gallatin Road.
“You drive 85 / Gallatin Road and the lakeside beach / Watching the game from your brother’s jeep / Your smile miles wide,” the lyrics read.
Swift says in the song she should’ve kissed her friend, the one who smiled widely, even though there, “was not an invitation.”
Susan Lang said when she heard the song, it brought back happy memories and a flood of emotions.
Her first thought was that she wished she could contact Swift to thank her for the song.
“That after all this time, she hasn’t forgotten about him,” Susan Lang said. “She’s keeping his name alive.”
Swift had a crush on the friend in the song, recounting her time at prom when they didn’t go together but looked at each other from across the room, and her growing affection.
Funnily enough, Susan Lang said she wasn’t sure if her son felt the same way about the now pop icon.
“They were really good friends. That’s rare these days. They hung out at her house a lot. They were always joking around with each other,” Susan Lang said.
The two lost track of each other, and in the song, Swift said her friend Abigail (Anderson Berard) called her with the bad news of Jeffrey Lang’s death.
“Goodbye / And we’ll never know why,” she sings, implying that her friend died suddenly.
“But I whispered at the grave,” Swift sings. “Should’ve kissed you anyway.
“My advice is always ruin the friendship.”
Tennessean reporter Audrey Gibbs contributed to this story.
This article originally appeared on Nashville Tennessean: Why a Tennessee mom thinks new Taylor Swift song is about her son
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