Bruce Willis’ wife, Emma Heming, is holding firm against criticism of her decision to relocate the actor from their family home as he grapples with frontotemporal dementia.
On Tuesday’s episode of Good Morning America, the 47-year-old actress acknowledged the judgement she has encountered online but stressed that the move was in the best interest of her husband and their daughters, Mabel, 13, and Evelyn, 11.
“[It] was the safest and best decision – not just for Bruce, but also for our two young girls,” she told Michael Strahan. “And, you know, it’s really not up for a debate.”
Emma clarified that having Bruce reside in a second home with a full-time care team ensures his needs are met around the clock, while also protecting their daughters’ wellbeing.
“Now I know that Bruce has the best care 100% of the time. His needs are met 100% of the time, as well as our two young daughters. So I’m not gonna take a vote on that.”
The Die Hard star, 70, was diagnosed in 2023 with frontotemporal dementia, a condition that impacts language and personality, leading to gradual cognitive decline. While promoting her new book, The Unexpected Journey, Emma reflected on how caregivers often face unfair judgement.
“Caregivers are so judged, and it just goes to show that people sometimes just have an opinion versus really having the experience,” she said.
The author continued, “I’ll say that dementia plays out differently in every household. If you’ve seen one case of dementia, it’s one case of dementia. So you have to do what is right for your family and what is going to keep your loved one safe, as well as your young children.”
She stressed the significance of making decisions that work for your family and protecting loved ones, particularly when confronting dementia. Her moment of clarity arrived when a neurologist disclosed that caregivers frequently die before their loved ones. She revealed, “I’m not a failure because I need help. It’s okay for me to raise my hand.
“I didn’t realize that,” she acknowledged. “I really needed permission for someone to tell me that it’s okay to get help.”
“That’s what I hope this book does for caregivers: it gives them permission to care for themselves.
Because if they don’t, how will they be able to show up and continue to care for the person that they love?” she added.
Last month, during the ABC special Emma and Bruce Willis: The Unexpected Journey, Emma revealed that Bruce had been relocated into a single-story residence better adapted to his requirements.
“Bruce would want that for our daughters. He would want them to be in a home that was more tailored to their needs, not his needs,” she told Diane Sawyer.
Bruce’s daughters regularly drop by their father’s home for breakfast and dinner, with Emma revealing their family still discovers meaningful ways to bond together. She continued, “When we go over, either we’re outside, or we’re watching a movie… it’s just really about being able to be there, and connect with Bruce.
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“It is a house that is filled with love, and warmth, and care, and laughter. And it’s been beautiful to see that, to see how many of Bruce’s friends continue to show up for him, and they bring in life.”
During another part of the interview, Diane questioned Emma about what she would ask her spouse today given the opportunity. The former model responded, “how he’s doing, [if] he’s okay, he feels okay. If there’s anything that we could do to support him better.
“I would really love to know that. If he’s scared. If he’s ever worried. I just would love to be able to just to have a conversation with him.
Discussing her husband’s present state, she explained, “Bruce is still very mobile. Bruce is in really great health overall, you know. It’s just his brain that is failing him.”
As the Sixth Sense actor loses his capacity to communicate verbally, Emma disclosed the family has “learned to adapt.”
“We have a way of communicating with him that is just a different, a different way, but I’m grateful. I’m grateful that my husband is still very much here,” she concluded.
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