Ray J Claims He’s Slept With Over 12,000 Women, Threw Party When He Hit 10K

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In a recent interview on Cam Newton’s Funky Friday podcast, Ray J was asked about his recent claim that he slept with over 11,500 women in his life.

“I did a booby trap party when I reached 10,000,” Ray J told Newton during the podcast around the 2:51:00-mark, as seen above. “So we did a celebration, booby trap, celebrated my 10,000. I had about 400 or 500 girls that I fucked with came through, supported. It was a massive parade.”

Newton asked Ray J to clarify if he means he’s had sex with over 10,000 different partners, and he confirmed as much. “10,000, I think, yeah… a little bit more now,” he continued. “These are 10,000 different people. … It’s at like 12,500 now…. I can only f**k a thousand more bitches. I can’t do any more. … I understand the math and the scale.”

Newton said that if Ray J’s claims are true, he would have had to have slept with “a little over one and a half women a day for 30 years.” In response, Ray J said that “the math is different” because he would often sleep with as many as five to ten women a day when he was on tour. “These n****s got way more bodies than me… Some of my homegirls, they f**k 45,000 n****s a year,” he alleged. “I’m not capping.”

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Newton questioned how that was possible, however. “45,000? It’s only 365 days in a year,” said Newton. “What kind of bender do they got to go on to make that math make sense?” At this point, Ray J used it as an opportunity to question Newton about his “body count” when it comes to sex. “What’s your body count? 20,000?” asked Ray J. “No,” Newton replied, to which Ray J suggested it must be at least 10,000, which the former NFL star also denied.

“That’s too much energy, bro,” Newton. “I don’t even crack 1,000, bro.” Ray J didn’t believe Newton, but he insisted that it’s not his “vibe,” and his figure “wouldn’t even scratch 1,000.” Ray J then suggested that he’s had as many as 5,000 threesomes, and then lowered the figure to 3,500.”

Check out the full interview above.